Hello all!
I'm 30 and have been commenting here and there for a while now. I have talked with my husband for years about TTC our 1st and he wasn't ready. I have also been off of birth control for over a year and we've just used condoms.
Just this month when we have had sex my husband didn't even reach for a condom or sit me down to say anything about officially trying.
I'm going to take this as him being officially ready to TTC. I will have a more direct conversation just to be sure but I'm excited!!!
I look forward to my time here and I hope I don't say anything that warrants too much snark.
Eta-age typo I'm 30
Re: This is it...intro
DD#1 born June '09
DD#2 born April '11
TTC #3 as of July '14
Beautiful Mess Plans Co
Our beautiful girl came into our lives October 15, 2012
TFAS: March 2014
BFP #2 July 2014 Miscarriage (6 weeks) August 2014
BFP #3 September 2014 Chemical Pregnancy September 2014
Seeing the RE: February 2015
Diagnosis PCOS: February 2015
Our rainbow baby came into our lives February 27, 2016
BFP #6 January 2018 Miscarriage (7 weeks) February 2018
BFP #7 April 2018 EDD: 12/23/18
TTC Since 6/2013 Early Loss: 9/2013 MFI Diagnosis: 12/2014
TTC 10/2013
RE Help from 10/2014-10/2016 (11 failed IUIs, a corrective surgery, and a donor embryo cycle)
9/2016-transferred two donor embies
BFP 9/29/26 EDD June 11
2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
BFP 12/9/14 EDD 8/18/15
He knows I'm not on birth control and I excitedly took him not even reaching for a condom as a go.
@mbbach that conversation is definitely going to happen this weekend. I don't want any resentment towards me or a baby despite him knowing that it's a possibility of unprotected sex.
Good luck!
~Santa Claus is Coming to Town~
Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
Proudly on the dark side