Trying to Get Pregnant

This is it...intro

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edited July 2014 in Trying to Get Pregnant
Hello all!

I'm 30 and have been commenting here and there for a while now. I have talked with my husband for years about TTC our 1st and he wasn't ready. I have also been off of birth control for over a year and we've just used condoms.

Just this month when we have had sex my husband didn't even reach for a condom or sit me down to say anything about officially trying.

I'm going to take this as him being officially ready to TTC. I will have a more direct conversation just to be sure but I'm excited!!!

I look forward to my time here and I hope I don't say anything that warrants too much snark.

Eta-age typo I'm 30

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  • @14whitney‌ We have talked, argued, agreed to disagree about it the past 2/3 years. Within the last few months I let the issue go and he said he would tell me when he was ready. So no, I haven't lately.

    He knows I'm not on birth control and I excitedly took him not even reaching for a condom as a go.

    @mbbach‌ that conversation is definitely going to happen this weekend. I don't want any resentment towards me or a baby despite him knowing that it's a possibility of unprotected sex.
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  • Welcome and good luck.  I definitely wouldn't read into him not reaching for a condom as having any deeper meaning though.  Not everyone thinks of the long term consequences of their actions in the heat of the moment.

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