I'm just so sleepy. If my body is so drained, wtf can't I just sleep well? And if I overslept by three hours, wtf don't I feel like I got three extra hours?!
WTF, self? What made you think you could make it until lunch on a banana, fruit snacks, and coffee? Get your shit together - I'm hungry just thinking about it.
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WTF to my MIL, she recently had some pretty extensive back surgery done (it's the second surgery since the last one failed). DH and I have told her we don't want her watching DS until she's fully released from the Dr, we just don't want her rehurting her back and it happening because she was watching DS. She has been telling us that we are being rediculous and is mad at us we won't let her watch him and keeps comparing her back problems to my Moms bad arthritis (with medication my mom has no physical restrictions and is pain free)
She had an appt yesterday and was hoping to be released, not so much. She's only cleared to lift 15 lbs and the Dr told her he does not think she will be fully released until next summer. After giving us this info she is still pissed at us for telling her no she cannot watch DS.
We just want her back to heal properly since she has had so many problems with it and she is trying to turn it around on us that we are keeping her grand kid from her. Um no we are not, she still sees him atleast once a week and even then we are catching her twisting and bending in ways she has been told she can't be doing yet.
Sorry it's so long, this has been an ongoing problem with her not taking care of herself. The woman has had at least one surgery every year for the 7 years DH and I have been together. I just needed to vent about it.
WTF Boss.... I am going to choke you through the phone this morning. I understand you want me to setup your brand new laptop you bought yourself and left on my desk, but when you cannot even remember the password to login into the damn thing or the passwords to the 4 email accounts you want me to login into for you what the hell am I supposed to do from here? Ugh!
I'm just so sleepy. If my body is so drained, wtf can't I just sleep well? And if I overslept by three hours, wtf don't I feel like I got three extra hours?!
Where is this cup of coffee?
I am also so tired even though I got a decent amount of (very dream-filled) sleep last night. I am sitting at my desk watching my screen saver pics go by...and perusing TB obvi...you just reminded me that I could have some coffee to help get me going. So, my braindead self thanks you.
WTF fate - could have picked a worse time to start demanding $$$ we don't have at the same time? My car is going to cost at least $1500 to fix, the dog needs $350 worth of meds for his ear infection, annual check up and flea and tick and heartworm meds (which we all just happened to run out of at the same time - which never happens), the awesome $400 bill for 1% tax to the city that I didn't even know existed until I got the delinquent payment notice last week (with a penalty fee mind you) that is due right now...and all this when the house payment is due.
This is not helping my squirreling away of funds for maternity leave. Dammit. X(
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
WTF Boss.... I am going to choke you through the phone this morning. I understand you want me to setup your brand new laptop you bought yourself and left on my desk, but when you cannot even remember the password to login into the damn thing or the passwords to the 4 email accounts you want me to login into for you what the hell am I supposed to do from here? Ugh!
@mmason12 - I used to have a boss like that. Ugh! I'm stabby for you over this.
@MaggisG82 - Thanks!! He seriously just sent me a texting asking if the computer would remember his login password and tell me. I had no clue how to respond to that nicely without asking if he's lost his brain!
Oh, I have another! WTF, 24?!? Watched the season finale last night, and I would like to assume there will be another season, but it sure didn't seem like it...
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Oh, I have another! WTF, 24?!? Watched the season finale last night, and I would like to assume there will be another season, but it sure didn't seem like it...
WTF Air Force. I know I've written about this before, but I finally got the final word back on my asthma waiver and no joy for me. Even with the specialist telling them that it would never get any worse and that I have zero restrictions, and we're reducing my medication dosage (which, even pregnant, is not causing any problems), they still won't grant the waiver. I still think it's funny because the Army doesn't have a problem with the condition, so basically I'm good to haul shoulder fired missiles around, but not good to sit in an office and give theater briefs, in the Reserves! It's not unexpected, but still upsets me. They have no reason to grant any waivers in today's environment, but now that's nine years of my life down the fucking drain. Makes me very sad.
wtf to the people who had appointments before me at my doc's office. I sign in and I clearly see that you were 15min or more late to your appointments... NOT COOL. I get it, a 9 am appointment is early but seriously YOU'RE the reason I had to wait 40min. Also I wish I had known the u/s tech was on vacation today and had a heads up that my normal BPP test (u/s and pictures test) was going to just be me hooked up to a monitor for 30min. I would have brought a book... on the bright side, all is still good with bebe
I think they left 24 where there could be another season for sure. My DH is really into it, I saw the look of disappointment when it was over.
Also DH is the same way about not really caring to touch my belly, but he is a really good dad. The connection comes later for him and a lot for me as well.
My WTF goes to my in-laws but I feel bad they do so much for us but they have been late for three weeks to get my son to swim class, we meet there because I am coming from another direction. It doesn't work well when you are 10-15 minutes late and class is only 1/2 hour.
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
My DH is also like this, LO will be having a spasm in there and Ill be like here feel and you can tell he just is not interested in it. He was that way with DS also, I dont really get why they are like that, but it seems to be fairly common. I do think it is partly because they are not totally connected yet like we are, but as soon as DS came out DH was completely infatuated with him.
Oh, I have another! WTF, 24?!? Watched the season finale last night, and I would like to assume there will be another season, but it sure didn't seem like it...
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
My DH is also like this, LO will be having a spasm in there and Ill be like here feel and you can tell he just is not interested in it. He was that way with DS also, I dont really get why they are like that, but it seems to be fairly common. I do think it is partly because they are not totally connected yet like we are, but as soon as DS came out DH was completely infatuated with him.
I have to say I'm pretty lucky. DH loves sitting next to me or laying behind me with his hand on my belly feeling her ninja around. He always has the most awed look on his face. It actually gets to the point where I'm sitting there wanting my stomach back because he won't stop touching it.
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
My DH is also like this, LO will be having a spasm in there and Ill be like here feel and you can tell he just is not interested in it. He was that way with DS also, I dont really get why they are like that, but it seems to be fairly common. I do think it is partly because they are not totally connected yet like we are, but as soon as DS came out DH was completely infatuated with him.
I have to say I'm pretty lucky. DH loves sitting next to me or laying behind me with his hand on my belly feeling her ninja around. He always has the most awed look on his face. It actually gets to the point where I'm sitting there wanting my stomach back because he won't stop touching it. --------------
I'm sure rubbing that in their faces is really going to make them feel a whole lot better.
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@trebekastan & @Djcieply I'm with you on team "hubby doesn't touch the baby" and frankly it hurts terribly. I know it doesn't mean anything about how he feels towards me or the baby, but it still hurts my feelings every time. He hasn't felt the baby one time, and when my stomach moves visibly, he looks away. It feels like a terrible rejection. Hugs to both of you, and boo to the husbands.
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
My DH is also like this, LO will be having a spasm in there and Ill be like here feel and you can tell he just is not interested in it. He was that way with DS also, I dont really get why they are like that, but it seems to be fairly common. I do think it is partly because they are not totally connected yet like we are, but as soon as DS came out DH was completely infatuated with him.
I have to say I'm pretty lucky. DH loves sitting next to me or laying behind me with his hand on my belly feeling her ninja around. He always has the most awed look on his face. It actually gets to the point where I'm sitting there wanting my stomach back because he won't stop touching it.
You're kind of an asshole. You know that? Do you do this with everyone in your life or just strangers on the internet. I'm so happy for you that YH does the exact thing I was crying over last night. Did you get that brag off your chest now? Fucking bitch.
@trebekastan & @Djcieply I'm with you on team "hubby doesn't touch the baby" and frankly it hurts terribly. I know it doesn't mean anything about how he feels towards me or the baby, but it still hurts my feelings every time. He hasn't felt the baby one time, and when my stomach moves visibly, he looks away. It feels like a terrible rejection. Hugs to both of you, and boo to the husbands.
I was prepared for him to be like that this time so Im not as upset by it like I was last time. How he was when DS was a newborn totally made up for him not showing much interest while I was pregnant. It does still suck though when some of the guys I work with are more interested in watching my belly move around than DH is.
HUGS to you as well!!
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
My DH is also like this, LO will be having a spasm in there and Ill be like here feel and you can tell he just is not interested in it. He was that way with DS also, I dont really get why they are like that, but it seems to be fairly common. I do think it is partly because they are not totally connected yet like we are, but as soon as DS came out DH was completely infatuated with him.
I have to say I'm pretty lucky. DH loves sitting next to me or laying behind me with his hand on my belly feeling her ninja around. He always has the most awed look on his face. It actually gets to the point where I'm sitting there wanting my stomach back because he won't stop touching it.
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING??? That was just about the most horribly rude thing you could have possibly fucking said. Way to go... YOU WIN the twat award of the YEAR.
WTF, coworker who is pissed that I didn't take your deposit to the bank when I did the mail run this morning. It isn't my fault that you take a million smoke breaks a day and were outside when I went around and asked. If you know something needs to be taken, maybe you should come find the freaking person who has to go to the bank that day. Get over it.
WT actual F to DH. He is normally a really great guy but last night he was not. I have to constantly ask him if he wants to feel the baby and I usually get a one handed touch while he's on his phone or something. Well baby was going crazy and I asked him to use two hands. After literally 2 seconds he actually says to me, "Yeah, I get it. He moves around a lot". I lost my ever loving shit. He has made me cry maybe 2 other times in our 5 year marriage. Yesterday was one of those times. I don't know if he just isn't connected to him yet or what his deal is, but when I ask you to feel your son move, you better just keep your hands there and look awe-inspired until I tell you he's done.
My DH is also like this, LO will be having a spasm in there and Ill be like here feel and you can tell he just is not interested in it. He was that way with DS also, I dont really get why they are like that, but it seems to be fairly common. I do think it is partly because they are not totally connected yet like we are, but as soon as DS came out DH was completely infatuated with him.
I have to say I'm pretty lucky. DH loves sitting next to me or laying behind me with his hand on my belly feeling her ninja around. He always has the most awed look on his face. It actually gets to the point where I'm sitting there wanting my stomach back because he won't stop touching it.
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This comment really fucking sucks.
DH and I have been apart since before LO was moving so he hasn't felt her and likely won't get to because he might not make it here for her birth. So my situation isn't the same as PPs who spoke up but just to add another perspective...
I'm super glad you have such a great husband who likes to lay around feeling the baby. Good for you. Maybe next time don't post about it on WTF Wednesday where women are upset about having the complete opposite experience.
I'll echo the pissed as heck complaint that DH seems to be burdened by the idea of feeling his daughter move around. Every time I ask him to he just rolls his eyes at me, then I pout, then he gets mad that I'm pouting.. round and round we go. I know he's developing an attachment(he asks about movement regularly, and occasionally will give a quick rub or kiss) but damn-it I just want to share the consistent murdering of my insides with him.
Yes, I know that everyone wants to shit their pants when people come on and fuss at the same person over and over again, but I really don't give a flip.
@MMason12 You've never really been one that sticks out to me as the humble type, but I generally let it go.....because let's face it: you're a stranger and whether or not I like you is irrelevant. The thing is, I DO like @trebekastan and consider her a friend. So when I see someone intentionally acting like a bragging cuntwad (let's not even pretend that it wasn't intentional) I feel like I need to say something: You suck.
What possesses a person to say something like that? That's the equivalent of someone saying "Hey, I'm super bummed because my grandma died, T&P appreciated." And you coming in and saying "I LOVE my grandma, we spend all day, every day together! She is amazing! OOH! She's calling now, we are going to the mall!!"
You're just not a nice person.
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WTF bump!? Where is my icon to post a pic?! I had a good wtf today but need to post a pic. I'm blaming it on the randos taking up too much bandwidth on s14.
the bump on the computer is all sorts of messed up for me. I like your blame placement though
Yes, I know that everyone wants to shit their pants when people come on and fuss at the same person over and over again, but I really don't give a flip.
@MMason12 You've never really been one that sticks out to me as the humble type, but I generally let it go.....because let's face it: you're a stranger and whether or not I like you is irrelevant. The thing is, I DO like @trebekastan and consider her a friend. So when I see someone intentionally acting like a bragging cuntwad (let's not even pretend that it wasn't intentional) I feel like I need to say something: You suck.
What possesses a person to say something like that? That's the equivalent of someone saying "Hey, I'm super bummed because my grandma died, T&P appreciated." And you coming in and saying "I LOVE my grandma, we spend all day, every day together! She is amazing! OOH! She's calling now, we are going to the mall!!"
You're just not a nice person.
I am really sorry that my comment was offensive. I really didn't mean it that way and I am sorry I hurt people feelings.
Yes, I know that everyone wants to shit their pants when people come on and fuss at the same person over and over again, but I really don't give a flip.
@MMason12 You've never really been one that sticks out to me as the humble type, but I generally let it go.....because let's face it: you're a stranger and whether or not I like you is irrelevant. The thing is, I DO like @trebekastan and consider her a friend. So when I see someone intentionally acting like a bragging cuntwad (let's not even pretend that it wasn't intentional) I feel like I need to say something: You suck.
What possesses a person to say something like that? That's the equivalent of someone saying "Hey, I'm super bummed because my grandma died, T&P appreciated." And you coming in and saying "I LOVE my grandma, we spend all day, every day together! She is amazing! OOH! She's calling now, we are going to the mall!!"
You're just not a nice person.
I am really sorry that my comment was offensive. I really didn't mean it that way and I am sorry I hurt people feelings.
Re: WTF Wednesday, yes?
Where is this cup of coffee?
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Gage Douglas 09.04.2014...my sunshine after the rain.
She had an appt yesterday and was hoping to be released, not so much. She's only cleared to lift 15 lbs and the Dr told her he does not think she will be fully released until next summer. After giving us this info she is still pissed at us for telling her no she cannot watch DS.
We just want her back to heal properly since she has had so many problems with it and she is trying to turn it around on us that we are keeping her grand kid from her. Um no we are not, she still sees him atleast once a week and even then we are catching her twisting and bending in ways she has been told she can't be doing yet.
Sorry it's so long, this has been an ongoing problem with her not taking care of herself. The woman has had at least one surgery every year for the 7 years DH and I have been together. I just needed to vent about it.
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
WTF fate - could have picked a worse time to start demanding $$$ we don't have at the same time? My car is going to cost at least $1500 to fix, the dog needs $350 worth of meds for his ear infection, annual check up and flea and tick and heartworm meds (which we all just happened to run out of at the same time - which never happens), the awesome $400 bill for 1% tax to the city that I didn't even know existed until I got the delinquent payment notice last week (with a penalty fee mind you) that is due right now...and all this when the house payment is due.
This is not helping my squirreling away of funds for maternity leave. Dammit. X(
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
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Gage Douglas 09.04.2014...my sunshine after the rain.
^^^ September Signature: TV series I plan on binge watching with my newborn I do what I want. ^^^
Gage Douglas 09.04.2014...my sunshine after the rain.
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
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I'm sure rubbing that in their faces is really going to make them feel a whole lot better.
Here's your cookie. Maybe go over to Winning Wednesday with it.
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This comment really fucking sucks.
DH and I have been apart since before LO was moving so he hasn't felt her and likely won't get to because he might not make it here for her birth. So my situation isn't the same as PPs who spoke up but just to add another perspective...
I'm super glad you have such a great husband who likes to lay around feeling the baby. Good for you. Maybe next time don't post about it on WTF Wednesday where women are upset about having the complete opposite experience.
Tact: you have none.
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Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014