im to tired to. and when Im not to tired DH isnt in the mood. But at keast when we do it niw he doesnt squish me with his weight.
Pregnancy #1 DD 08.30.2007 Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014 Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015 Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019 Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
The spotting is totally blowing my sex life up. Every time I think I'm in the clear and want to get some Mr Nasty action... Stupid flow kicks in. Apparently this will be my norm :-<
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Loss and IF veteran. Current mom of DS 5.5, DD 2, and sometimes DH 40. Due June 2021 with TWINS
I've been too exhausted and out if the mood lately, I can tell he's totally in the mood but right now once a week even seems like much to my aching body.
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It was awesome for the first few weeks, but then one time I spotted after, and it scared the crap out of me and DH. We know it's normal, and since its stopped it was probably fine. But still, it caused us so much anxiety. My husband is awesome, and he said we should wait until my doctor's appointment. It's Tuesday, so hopefully I'll be sexing it up asap!
Same thing happened to me the first time. I waited for my first appointment and they said its fine. We tries again and no spotting!
DH loves pregnancy sex because he doesn't have to worry about getting me pregnant. He has been out of town, but he gets back soon. Hopefully MS won't make everything too miserable.
My hubby actually told me today that he is so excited we're having so much sex. lol All his coworkers and friends said that once I got pregnant that would be the first thing to go. WRONG! I'm in constant hornball mode. It's getting a little ridiculous.
Last night was the first time in a month. I've had MS at night. It was our anniversary and I felt pretty good. Today I'm sore, my abs and back are tired.
DH and I have an opposite schedule so we end up having a lot of weekend sex, but I'm loving it. I'm so much more sensitive down there. If I were spotting I probably would be avoiding too but thankfully we've been lucky so far.
I'm definitely not one of those that likes pregnancy sex. it feels SO different right away (and not in a good way). I do it anyways but yeah, much better when I am not pregnant!
My sex drive has actually declined!! I feel so bad for him because I'm not in the mood at all, so the frequency has decreased in the past couple of weeks - but i'm try to suck it up so that it's not non existent. But if it were left up to me initiating, we wouldn't be doing anything!
I loved pregnant sex when I was pregnant with DD...enjoy it while you can. Honestly, I haven't really had a sex drive at all since she's been born. Apparently breastfeeding hormones inhibit your libido, plus I am exhausted. Sigh. One day I'll feel sexy again.
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Not a lot of sex going on here spotting off and on for the last 3 weeks has had me on edge & my poor hubby is getting frustrated. I know that there are other ways to make him happy but oral is out of the question with my gag reflex & I'm to tired to do anything else. Hope we can pick things back up again soon lol
My sex drive has actually declined!! I feel so bad for him because I'm not in the mood at all, so the frequency has decreased in the past couple of weeks - but i'm try to suck it up so that it's not non existent. But if it were left up to me initiating, we wouldn't be doing anything!
I haven't been in the mood almost at all lately, but I have been making an effort for DH. Hoping things pick up for me after the first tri. Although, I may just be a bit burnt out from TTC.
BFP #1 11/02/13, EDD 07/04/14, BO diagnosed 12/12/13 at 9w5d BFP #2 6/12/14, DD born 2/21/15
Ughh.. I want to and keep telling DH it is okay but he is SO scared! Cannot wait for our Doctor appt Monday ao he can hear it from the professional that it is safe and normal to get it on while pregnant!
I'm in the "too tired/feel too sick" boat. Poor hubs. We'd had it a couple times in the past 4 weeks, but not anything close to what was the norm. Hopefully that will change soon!
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I have not felt up for sex very much. We've had sex a few times a week, but mostly that's just because I felt sorry for DH if we didn't.
Being on my period never stopped us. We would just put a towel down.
so what little sex i was getting will now be none. had sex with DH today and afterwards i took a shower. the towek i used to try off has some pink on it. i cried forever after that.
Pregnancy #1 DD 08.30.2007 Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014 Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015 Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019 Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
I've been all about the sex this week!! I can't get enough! I'm enjoying it while I can, because I know this probably won't be the norm for the next 33 weeks!
I'm 7 weeks but I've lost sex drive unless I'm very emotional and crying..? It's annoying and sad but my fiancé hates it .. He feels like I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore .
I love preggo sex. Like, a lot. This is my third pregnancy and with the other two I loved it through the entire 40 weeks. I'm hoping the same is true with this one because after the baby is born I want nothing to do with sex for months.
been loving it, it actually helps my nauseous feeling go away, only drawback hips really ache when I get up in the morning, enjoying it while I can until I get my cerclage and will be too nervous to do anything even if we have the go ahead
Maybe we'll enjoy it more when I'm not so tired. I feel bad for DH. He said he'd like to do more fun things with me this summer but I'm so damn tired I goto bed early with DD.
Re: Sex
Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
Waited a long time, tried a lot of stuff, science made me a mom.
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1/7/2015 Twins born @ 34 weeks
FVL/History of PE/Gallbladder removal 8/7/14 @ 14w1d
My hubby wants to every night. I'm fine with every other night to 3 (nonconsecutive) nights a week.
My libido has been pretty low.
He has been out of town, but he gets back soon. Hopefully MS won't make everything too miserable.
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BFP 5/21/10, Missed m/c 7/5/10 at 11w3d (baby measured 7wks), D&C 7/7/10
Aug/Sept 2010 - CD3&10 b/w & u/s, genetic testing, SA, HSG, & Lap/Hyst to remove septum
12/09/10 BFP -- 7/05/11 DS born at 33w5d. Came home after 23d in NICU at 37w0d
June 2012 - TTC #2! -- 10/05/12 BFP -- 5/23/13 DS2 born at 37w1d! Yay full term!
Surprise BFP 6/25/14 LO#3 due Feb2015!
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Same here. Glad it's not just me.
BFP #2 6/12/14, DD born 2/21/15
I'm in the "too tired/feel too sick" boat. Poor hubs. We'd had it a couple times in the past 4 weeks, but not anything close to what was the norm. Hopefully that will change soon!
January siggy challenge: Tying my own damn shoes again.
Being on my period never stopped us. We would just put a towel down.
Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
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