Still undecided if I want to go back on the (mini) pill (didn't like coming off the hormones lady time) vs condoms. Curious what u all are doing. We don't know if we are done or not yet.
Will be talking to my doctor about an IUD soon. I'd prefer the no-hormone version, but I'll see what my doctor recommends. My mom and my grandmother have both had IUDs fail on them... I'm hoping they've become a little more reliable since then.
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe DD2: October 2016 DC3: coming May 2019
Rhythm/pull-out method. I think we're going to go for #2 sooner than later, so we are ok with risking it. I don't want to go on horomonal for the short-term.
When my midwife asked me what I was going for birth control at my PP appointment, I told her I was never having sex again. I don't think she believed me...
For reals, though, H is getting a vasectomy. We're done with two kiddos and after 10 years on the pill, 18 months of pregnancies, and 2 births, it's time for him to do something for our family planning.
I've been on the pill for years but before I got pregnant I really wasn't liking it so I can't decide whether to try an IUD or just be officially done and have my H get a vasectomy. Although to avoid that he'd probably want another baby lol
Condoms and then charting once I ever get my period back. I jokingly say I don't think I can get pregnant on my own, which probably means I'll end up with spontaneous triplets or something.
Condoms then vasectomy is the plan. I am a little sad about something so permanent but I really don't want more and am not digging any of the other options.
Condoms then vasectomy is the plan. I am a little sad about something so permanent but I really don't want more and am not digging any of the other options.
I'm finally on the laptop and can see siggies and have to say your girls are freaking adorable!!! Gah, holy cuteness!
NFP for us. We managed it fine before and I'm seeing no reason to not get back into it.
I'm a bit worried with the whole not knowing when my cycles will start again that we may end up pregnant again and DH is anti BC outside of needing it for health issues so I'm not sure how much we will be doing the deed in the next few months.
Was on the pill for 2 years and it made me feel like crap. DH and I successfully did a mix of NFP and using condoms for over a year before getting pregnant. Will probably go the same route again because we would like #2 in about 2 years (if it happens sooner that's ok too). So an IUD seems pointless. After #2 we'll look into a permanent form of BC.
Paraguard or Mirena, I can't decide... I have horrible periods so Paraguard makes me nervous, but I would LOVE to stay away from all hormones. . . Even tho I liked my Mirena last time despite my cysts, mentally I felt so much better when we got it taken out
The emotional block I felt on Mirena was bad enough without the added in PP issues. It gives me goosebumps to imagine what a mess I would be right now had I gone that route.
Paraguard or Mirena, I can't decide... I have horrible periods so Paraguard makes me nervous, but I would LOVE to stay away from all hormones. . . Even tho I liked my Mirena last time despite my cysts, mentally I felt so much better when we got it taken out
The emotional block I felt on Mirena was bad enough without the added in PP issues. It gives me goosebumps to imagine what a mess I would be right now had I gone that route.
I had mirena for 2 months and absolutely hated it. My moods were all over the place
Condoms then vasectomy is the plan. I am a little sad about something so permanent but I really don't want more and am not digging any of the other options.
I'm finally on the laptop and can see siggies and have to say your girls are freaking adorable!!! Gah, holy cuteness!
Thank you, fellow twin mama! They look even bigger and cuter now :-)
Thinking paragard as DH is petty set on being done ( I would consider a 4th, but not for at least 3 years) he refuses the big V and I won't do hormonal...
I've been looking at paragard; but does anyone have first hand knowledge of copper toxicity? It's the only thing making me rethink it...
FX my cycles don't come back till I wean fully ( with DS I was AF free till after his 2nd birthday)
#1 DD June 2009
#2 DS July 2011 #3 DD June 2014 CP December 2015 M/C 8/2016 Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18
Back to what DH calls the P2 (pronounced p squared)- aka the pull and pray method. It's what we did before we decided to start trying for a baby, which happened the first or second try...
Back on the pill for me but this time I will actually take it correctly . I was ready for baby but DH wasn't, I told him if he wanted me on the pill still that he would have to feed them to me, because according to him it isn't that hard to remember a pill at the same time everyday. Ha and then I ended up knocked up hehehe silly DH I guess it is that hard to remember!
Re: Birth control
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe
DD2: October 2016
DC3: coming May 2019
For reals, though, H is getting a vasectomy. We're done with two kiddos and after 10 years on the pill, 18 months of pregnancies, and 2 births, it's time for him to do something for our family planning.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
After we have baby #2 in a few years, DH will get a vasectomy.
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Married DH 7/30/11
CSC arrived 5/7/12
CHC arrived 6/2/14
BFP: February 2016 EDD: October 17, 2016
Baby #1: expected June 2014
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I've been looking at paragard; but does anyone have first hand knowledge of copper toxicity? It's the only thing making me rethink it...
FX my cycles don't come back till I wean fully ( with DS I was AF free till after his 2nd birthday)
#3 DD June 2014
CP December 2015
M/C 8/2016
Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18