I'm starting today . Where is everybody? Board has been very quiet. Taking my LO to the doctor. She's so congested it's awful and we got almost no sleep last night. I'm currently on my third coffee. What's everybody else have going on?
Mmm.. This makes me want Starbucks but I can't get any because were supposed to be writing down everything we spend and DH would give me grief about it. Wahh. [-(
We're going to start writing everything we spend money on, I'm nervous to see the end results. I'm getting my car windows tinted! We leave for vacation in Saturday and I only work 2 days this week. But I feel there is so much to do and plan with LO. I'm 3 lbs to pp weight but nothing fits the same so I have to find some cheap pieces for vacay so I'm comfortable. Like jean shorts (gasp) and stretch neck off shoulder tops.
LO has banged her head a couple times on the hardwood- she does a roll flop and hits her head every time. It doesn't seem to phase her though lol. Dr said LO has a summer cold hopefully it will go away soon.
The board is dead. It sucks. And a part of my thinks it's my fault. Which sucks even more. On a bright side, I leave Wednesday for the beach. LO's first time to the beach. I'm sorry @SailorTink. Just try not to stress about it. I'm sure she will be fine! I have trouble leaving my kids because my parents or in laws don't do exactly what I do, but then I think "they love them and would never harm them" and it puts my at ease.
I'm getting anxious about DH's and my anniversary trip a month from today. 5 days. I'm struggling with not controlling DD's well-being for that long! Not that I'm so hot at it. She banged her head on the hardwood floors a lot this weekend...
Also, I had a nightmare last night that I was clothes shopping and NOTHING fit. So stressful lol.
That's the reason we decided to get mostly carpet in our new house. We were going to pay to upgrade to hardwood or tile but decided we would rather have a softer place for her head to land when she's little. Both DH and I are clumsy so I have a feeling there is no hope for DD.
I'm getting anxious about DH's and my anniversary trip a month from today. 5 days. I'm struggling with not controlling DD's well-being for that long! Not that I'm so hot at it. She banged her head on the hardwood floors a lot this weekend...
Also, I had a nightmare last night that I was clothes shopping and NOTHING fit. So stressful lol.
at least it's hardwood? I feel like the hardwood floor in our hallway/dining room is "softer" than our tile floor in the family room. We put down those foam abc squares for LO to play on, but he always crawls off of it onto the tile. Then he rolls over and thumps the back of his head.
Wait until they are walking around. The floors will be the LEAST of your worries.
I really don't like the thought of this! But LO can scoot from one room to the next with the greatest of ease, so I guess I'm kissing the good ol' days goodbye.
My son used to bang his head off everything with an edge. I finally gave up trying to put foam on things. They have surprisingly tough hard heads that are meant to be resilient. Scares the crap out of us as parents but barely phases them.
I don't mind the quiet board. Seems like there were a couple people who would purposely start threads about hot topics and act shocked when not everyone agreed with them. So silly. Other BMB's had similar conversations and nobody was called a name or anything for disagreeing. Very cool.
So are you taking absolutely no responsibility for what has occurred in those threads and instead passing sole responsibility onto the "couple people" you refer to above?
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
I want to ignore this but I can't. The reason people hate you and get angry has nothing to do with your beliefs and everything to do with your personality.
Congratulations on creating this terrible division within the group, grown completely out of your inability to argue a point or state an opinion without spewing judgmental borderline hateful garbage for the last year. I guess you win.
I hate the quiet board..when I wake up to feed my LO I need it to keep me from passing out in the rocking chair. Also, social group? I'm so out of the loop.
On a side note - LO is finally figuring out her tummy sleeping and is only getting up once (sometimes not at all! woop!) Although she woke up twice last night...... I can not recall if I got out of bed the first time. I definitely fed her at 430, but no idea if I did earlier. Scary.
I don't mind the quiet board. Seems like there were a couple people who would purposely start threads about hot topics and act shocked when not everyone agreed with them. So silly. Other BMB's had similar conversations and nobody was called a name or anything for disagreeing. Very cool.
It's fine when people don't agree. But you don't have to act like a raging asshole to get your point across.
There were just as many private group bumpies who were extremely rude in their responses.
And the fact that it is NOT just me left out of that group means that group is separated by beliefs.
That's terribly sad.
actually I am in that group and I disagreed with some things in the "hot topic" threads but I did it civilly. They know my beliefs but also know I'm not a psycho about it... So...
I wasn't "psycho" in any of those posts. But thanks. And everything was fine before the posts this past week. So don't give me the bologna about this whole past year. This is firmly a division of religion.
Actually I never stopped not liking you. From the moment I saw you wish infertility on someone who was obviously a troll I have not liked you. From being racist toward your kids and calling them "yellow people" I have not liked you. But I'm done now. I am a Christian. My dh is in school to be a preacher. This is not about faith. This is about you.
On another note I could really go for some key lime pie.
When I pay for a rather expensive yummy yummy drink at Starbucks, I now justify it in my head as helping someone go to college. I am so glad they offer that perk to their employees.
I don't drink Starbucks, but that is nice of them.
It's laughable if anyone thinks the issues began last week. It's also laughable that anyone thinks the division is due to religion. It's like a horse with blinders on.
It's laughable if anyone thinks the issues began last week. It's also laughable that anyone thinks the division is due to religion. It's like a horse with blinders on.
Christians can disagree and have polar opposite views from other people and go about stating it in a way that doesn't condemn or judge those with the opposing view. Apparently those people are allowed in the group...hence my presence there.
So I judged and condemned people then? Because I thought I was being respectful?
I wasn't "psycho" in any of those posts. But thanks. And everything was fine before the posts this past week. So don't give me the bologna about this whole past year. This is firmly a division of religion.
I guess there are different definitions of psycho.
I'm not the owner of the group. I don't decide who gets in and who doesn't. But if I were, then all I would say is that I don't like you, Herc. And I don't like you, Julia. And for those two reasons, I don't want you in my social group. Those groups aren't regulated. Create your own. Call us all terrible people, pray for our spouses and children. Or don't. There are people on this board who like both of you, so why isn't that enough?
And that's what I wanted to know. I don't understand what I did wrong for people not to like me. But thank you for being honest with me.
Re: SPAMbucks coffee
I'm getting my car windows tinted!
We leave for vacation in Saturday and I only work 2 days this week. But I feel there is so much to do and plan with LO. I'm 3 lbs to pp weight but nothing fits the same so I have to find some cheap pieces for vacay so I'm comfortable. Like jean shorts (gasp) and stretch neck off shoulder tops.
Dr said LO has a summer cold
I'm sorry @SailorTink. Just try not to stress about it. I'm sure she will be fine! I have trouble leaving my kids because my parents or in laws don't do exactly what I do, but then I think "they love them and would never harm them" and it puts my at ease.
at least it's hardwood? I feel like the hardwood floor in our hallway/dining room is "softer" than our tile floor in the family room. We put down those foam abc squares for LO to play on, but he always crawls off of it onto the tile. Then he rolls over and thumps the back of his head.
My son used to bang his head off everything with an edge. I finally gave up trying to put foam on things. They have surprisingly tough hard heads that are meant to be resilient. Scares the crap out of us as parents but barely phases them.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Also, social group? I'm so out of the loop.
On a side note - LO is finally figuring out her tummy sleeping and is only getting up once (sometimes not at all! woop!)
Although she woke up twice last night...... I can not recall if I got out of bed the first time. I definitely fed her at 430, but no idea if I did earlier. Scary.
And the fact that it is NOT just me left out of that group means that group is separated by beliefs.
That's terribly sad.
actually I am in that group and I disagreed with some things in the "hot topic" threads but I did it civilly. They know my beliefs but also know I'm not a psycho about it... So...
On another note I could really go for some key lime pie.
Has herc said some crappy things in the past.. Duh! But other people act like bitches too.