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Fireworks suck AKA Saturday spam

Hello. Up too early after being up too late. Just got a giant coffee and I'm hoping for a nap soon.

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There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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  • We are up. I have a feeling today will be a lazy day. DD looks EXHAUSTED. Good thing we purposely didn't plan anything today (DH has to work). Tomorrow we are visiting friend and family, so we decided today is a day of rest. 
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  • We got to sleep in today. I canceled my plans for today because we have had something to do all weekend and I just want to sit around. We have so much food left over from yesterday that I won't have to cook today.


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  • Taking it easy this morning, just working on laundry & house stuff. Going to another BBQ/fireworks show this evening (will be in the country, so no worries about keeping the neighbors up!)
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    Doing yard work today. Then seeing some of H's work buddies. I hope today turns out better than it sounds.

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  • I'm up! My family isn't! Debating if I should at least wake ds to keep a more normal schedule.
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    -My son was born in April 2012. He pretty much rules.
  • We're watching Frozen. E yells at me when I try to sing along to "Let It Go". Party pooper.

    My kid won't let me sing along either. :/

    I went on a 6.8 mile run this morning! Now I'm eating the biggest salad in the world. No real plans for the day, kids are exhausted after yesterday. I didn't see or hear any fireworks tho, so I consider that a win. I am a curmudgeon.

  • I don't want to do anything at all today. I just want to lay in bed with my blankie and watch Star Trek.
  • I'm in Bed ignoring my child and SO just told me he is going fishing. RUINS my plan to let him parent and me sleep since I was up all Night with his snoring and Sam's tossing and turning.

    Thank good for willing aunties
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  • Oh and I wonder if I Am getting sick or if this is just from being in the Sierra mountains and dry air.
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  • DH is eating all the crackers after I balanced the checkbook & pointed out that he single handedly spent nearly $500 last week on his "vacation" & has not a damn thing to show for it. Sure, some of it was fun stuff with the kids, but a large portion of it was just bullshit frivolous charges.

    WTMF bc obviously money just grows on trees for us. Jackass
  • Ughhhhhhhhhh, @pobrecita!

    I had to take DS to another family July 4th weekend event alone and it ended with both of us in tears. I have seriously never felt like a shittier parent than I have the past five months. And I'm so sick of hanging out with DH's family and having it be so obvious that MIL loves the other grandkids more than DS. I feel like such an Eeyore lately, sorry guys. Parenting is so fucking hard. 



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  • @littlestjerry‌ um I'd be a fucking wreck if my kid's grandparent was ostracizing them and withholding affection, let alone showing preference to other children in front of us. Yeah, I'd be a mess. Does your DH see it too? Does he say anything?

    It's an ongoing fight in our marriage actually. He sees it, but doesn't care. I think he doesn't care because he's subconsciously devalued himself due to his mom constantly favoring his brother their whole lives. He's just used to it and thinks this is normal or ok. He has said "even if my mom came out and said she loves DS, but she loves the other grandkids more, I wouldn't care because it's not a contest." Which seems nice in theory, but is a little fucked up in my opinion. MIL isn't awful to DS or anything, but it's very very obvious who the favored grandkids are.



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  • So sorry @littlestjerry‌ :( Unfortunately i can relate to that bullcrap. My mother (in addition to numerous other issues) ignores my kids...and lives 2 miles away. No excuse to not see them or spend time with them. She's never even met DD because she is holding a grudge over not being allowed to attend her birth (we didn't have MIL there either). Yet she is currently about 900 miles away having flown to greet her 'very special granddaughter' that my brother and his wife just had. She is plastering pics all over fb about it and how overjoyed she is. Yet she has no problem ignoring the 7 grandkids who live right down the road from her, as well as my sister's kids who are maybe a half hour away. What. The. Fuck.
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  • It's just so hurtful...I don't know how she can be so cruel. But I know what you mean...it just makes me all the more determined to make sure that my kids all feel just as loved and cared for as their siblings.

    And I love the typo...that's awesome! ;)
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  • Welp looks like DD has hand foot mouth after all. Doc said it would present with fever and then a rash. She didn't have the rash at all, but she does now that her fever is gone. Doesn't seem to itch though, so hoping it doesn't bother her. Poor kiddo. :(
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  • I'm so freaking tired for some reason. I even slept in, but I feel like I could sleep for another eternity. All the coffee for me!
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