Finally got some lovin with DH this week. It had been WEEKS since our last roll in the sheets. Partially due to him being out of town. Partially due to exhaustion, lack of mood, etc... He's apparently not finding it uncomfortable positions and loves my bigger titties. Due to our lack of consistency, poor guy is, uh, "quick to toss his cookies" now. We will be working on building up his endurance after we get cleared by the Dr after LO comes.
We've been in pelvic rest, due to previa since week 20. We've been creative very regular. Today our restrictions have been lifted!!! Back to intercourse.
daisypath
Unexplained infertility
HSG-clear, DH SA-Great
3 cycles Clomid TI with OB/GYN
Switched to RE Jan2011
Feb2011 100mg Clomid + trigger + #1 IUI=BFN
Mar. 12,2011 100mg Clomid + Estradiol + #2 IUI
BFP 3/20/11, Beta #1 12dpiui 174, Beta #2 17dpiui 1660, Beta #3 21dpiui 6687
We are still but it's only once every 2 weeks or so. That's still a win because the last two pregnancies we were done by this point. My sex drive usually takes a nose dive, but not this time. Normally, we run closer to once, maybe twice a week on a frisky week, so this isn't too far from the non-pregnant norm for us.
I haven't been able to do woman on top positions since early on, it just bothers my cervix too much and causes spotting. But we've found a missionary style position with DH sitting up more that works really well for both of us.
Still once a week usually modified missionary with DH propping himself up or spooning. DH is very gentle and slow now since I can't move as easily. It's still nice, but different. DH likes all my extra curves a lot (the more the better, I guess?). He has to go wash himself off afterward since he gets covered in pasty white goop. It's sorta yucky, but he doesn't mind.
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Oh hells yes he still does lol. I'm having a harder time climaxing and this is one way it's a guarantee. I always warn him that I haven't seen down there in a while & apologize for the state of things lol. He's never commented on it at least!
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Oh hells yes he still does lol. I'm having a harder time climaxing and this is one way it's a guarantee. I always warn him that I haven't seen down there in a while & apologize for the state of things lol. He's never commented on it at least!
FI is not into oral.. Getting or giving it I'm trying my best to change that. We are getting busy about 2 times a week now.. I wish it was about 4-5 times a week. I have always had a VERY high sex drive.. FI is on anti anxiety meds and it has killed his drive.. He's not that into sex right now. Sigh. When we do have sex it's either me on top or doggy style. If you're not into all fours, we've found that doggy style on the couch is awesome.. I just kneel on the cushions and lean against the back
We're still very active though maybe slightly less than before and less adventurous (I used to like to get pretty tipsy then fool around). Usually doggy or at the edge if the bed, or like tonight in the shower. As for oral, it's been a while. He said my belly gets in way, so I said its a two way street then. My lebido is still going strong, tho, do most nights I just go at it alone. Believe me, I can tell my obsessive Keggels are definitely paying off!
On another note, remember when June14 chided us for our previous sex thread? "Wait till they hit tri3" they said... Well, here we are and it sounds like most of us are still having a great time! Take that, junies! I don't plan on stopping any time soon!
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Yup! DH is really into it and enjoys spending some extra time there. The only thing that's changed since becoming pregnant is he'll wait until right after I shower before he'll venture just due to the change in consistency of things.
BFP #1 12/19/13 We lost our Fenix 7/31/14 at 36 weeks due to torn umbilical cord
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Oh yes, definitely he does. I've told H that he's getting BJs from now on. Despite still having a drive, sex is really uncomfortable. It sucks because neither of us have issues with the belly and we aren't on pelvic rest.
Yes, same amount as before. I surround myself in pillows and elevate my back so missionary works still. I actually find the process a lot easier to achieve the big o since about January. Going to enjoy it as long as I can.
Our situation has changed. Two nights ago we got it on and after my vagina burned and felt like it was falling off. I used an icepack. I was up every hour because of being uncomfortable. And it wasn't long sex. Ughhhh so now BF is scared and quite frankly so am I. Looks like no more sex for 3-4 months.
Our situation has changed. Two nights ago we got it on and after my vagina burned and felt like it was falling off. I used an icepack. I was up every hour because of being uncomfortable. And it wasn't long sex. Ughhhh so now BF is scared and quite frankly so am I. Looks like no more sex for 3-4 months.
This was happening to us too! I asked my doctor and she said it was normal. I started using a good lube ( even though I didn't really need it) and the burning went away! We had a quicky one day and I didn't use the lube; sure enough it burned again. So now I use it every time.
Hmm may try! We've never really used lube. I'll be picking some up because I'm not ready for a dry spell yet. And I know i don't have long before the bellystarts to throw him off. To Walmart i go! Lol
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Yes but only after a thorough shower since I feel super gross down there all the time.
We go through phases. Some weeks it's practically every night. Some weeks I'm lucky if I can stand it even once. It all depends on how physically active I've been and how sore my body is. Lucky for him I like giving him BJs so he isn't going without... for the time being.
We have slowed down for sure because I am so uncomfortable all the time but we still try for some intimate time once every week or two. Me on top works ok but what we have found works best is to stick to oral, we just take turns pleasuring each other ;-)
We have slowed down more and more each month. Up until today it had been 4 1/2 weeks, which is by far the longest we've ever gone. It just ended up being painful...don't think we'll be doing that again any time soon .
Im curious now, because some have mentioned bjs. Do any of you ladies lets your hubs give you oral? Its not my cup of tea to begin with unless I'm crazy horny. I just wondered since we all kinda complain about excess fluids, if any you were actually comfortable with that right now.
Yup! DH is really into it and enjoys spending some extra time there. The only thing that's changed since becoming pregnant is he'll wait until right after I shower before he'll venture just due to the change in consistency of things.
Edit: quote fail Same here except I'm the one that only lets him venture down there after a shower or else I'm way too paranoid. He gets his fair share of bj's and sex still. We get down about 2-3 times a week.
************* First BFP: 12/16/13 EDD: 08/23/14 Baby BOY born: 08/29/14
We still do it. It's is actually usually pretty uncomfortable for me afterwards but I can't help it he is soo sexy to me these days! We used to do it once it twice a day, now it's only every week or so. It makes me feel so close to him.
We went to bed early on Friday night for some quality time together. Just as things were starting to get really good with more exciting foreplay than we've had in a while, a bat flies into our room. I jump under the covers and we both had to scramble to find clothes, run out of the room, shut other doors, then go back in with a broom, dustpan, etc. DH tried to stun the bat with the broom when the bat was hiding in our curtains, then had it under the broom, smacked again with a boot then finally took it out in a plastic bag. Our curtains fell down in the process so it looks like I'll be washing them now. We did resume where we left off 45 minutes later but it wasn't quite the same.
Sorry I'm late to the party! My Dr recommended no oral for me. Has anyone else been told that? I don't even remember why now.
What??!! You must find out and come back and tell us!
Just did a search and found an article on the mayo clinic website. It's considered safe, but you dont want your partner to blow air in, as it can block a blood vessel to the baby. I'd link the article, but I'm mobile and can't figure out how! Sorry!
I think it's been about a month. He definitely doesn't bother me as much as he normally does during a dry spell, so I have a feeling that he's resigned to it being a no go until after baby is here. I should really just put out already. I really enjoy it when we do... and thankfully he's quick due to lack of consistency... I am just so freaking tired and I have been dealing with a congested cough that I will start hacking from just from walking or simply laying down. Between that and life, the last thing I want is to feel like a whale when I could be napping. Sounds horrible, doesn't it.
We're making love pretty much every night... as long as I don't pass out first. This pregnancy has been amazing for my sex drive. I've never felt sexier lol and my husband seems to think everything I do is the most beautiful thing right now. Whatever works! As long as he's giving it up I'm taking it Lmao!
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He's apparently not finding it uncomfortable positions and loves my bigger titties.
Due to our lack of consistency, poor guy is, uh, "quick to toss his cookies" now. We will be working on building up his endurance after we get cleared by the Dr after LO comes.
We go through phases. Some weeks it's practically every night. Some weeks I'm lucky if I can stand it even once. It all depends on how physically active I've been and how sore my body is. Lucky for him I like giving him BJs so he isn't going without... for the time being.
BFP - 01/04/2016; EDD - 09/15/2016 DS #1 - 07/2014
Edit: quote fail
Same here except I'm the one that only lets him venture down there after a shower or else I'm way too paranoid. He gets his fair share of bj's and sex still. We get down about 2-3 times a week.
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14