Exccuuuusseee me???

NavyFlyer · June 2014

A secretary in my office just asked me if I'm carrying in my butt, because she "doesn't remember it being that big."

wow.

With that being said, I do have a big butt :0), I always have. But I rock it! Still, no one but my DH should be commenting on it!

MrsSinner402 · June 2014

:-O

ohioloveyou · June 2014

Whaaaat? Not ok.

DaniGrace89 · June 2014

Yeah not at all acceptable. Wtf!!!

jenndub · June 2014

What an asshole.

bumpuser10309732 · June 2014

lrobi13 · June 2014

Nope, throat punch for that one! The only things that should be said to a pregnant lady are "you look wonderful/ you are glowing" and "can I bring you some more food/water"

MrsL2B · June 2014

Ugh.

MrsTinMKE · June 2014

I second the throat punch

bumpuser10309732 · June 2014

Nicb13 said:

MrsBabe614 said:

Yes! Bad ass pic!

I love Clint Eastwood!

staryb · June 2014

Well that's rude! I had a coworker joke that soon we wouldn't be able to fit past each other in the hall. Why do people think this stuff is ok?

NavyFlyer · June 2014

I texted DH and he said "I love your butt and that's all that matters" :x

ETA: That was after he said "what a b****! That's the rudest thing I've ever heard!"

vrj0522 · June 2014

bumpuser10309732 · June 2014

This morning a co-worker told me I'm getting bigger every day. What does that even mean?

femail · June 2014

jesslinnn · June 2014

What a dick!

Off topic, but I'm jealous of your big butt. I wish my butt would grow... it's small and sad.

igotaprettyring · June 2014

Yeah, that's pretty rude...unless you are close friends that just tease each other all the time, but it sounds like that's not the case. My dad and little sis have no problem telling me that my butt is getting bigger...I just have to laugh it off, because my family always teases each other.

[Deleted User] · June 2014

What a jerk!

supplycloset · June 2014

Totally off the subject- We got a delivery at work today on a semi-truck, which means we unload it. Supposed to have 24 hr notice so I am not alone when it came, but that didn't happen. Truck driver asked if I was due today. No. Then said good, because delivering a baby is not on his delivery manifest today. He then proceeded to watch me unload 798 pounds worth of heavy boxes off the back of the truck. Thanks for the help ahole.

colacrock · June 2014

Wow! I cannot believe the lack of filter on some people. The cashier at Arby's asked me today if I was 8 months along

I said "No, not due until October". This is my 3rd baby in 5 years so I know I'm bigger but not
8 months big!

Glas43 · June 2014

Ugh. Seriously people! I dont get the comments people make! How rude!

bumpuser10309732 · June 2014

TicketTuesday said:

This morning a co-worker told me I'm getting bigger every day. What does that even mean?
Well... we ARE getting bigger every day... :-/

It was more like, what do I say to that? All I could say was thanks? I think?

Emerald27 · June 2014

What nerve! How did you respond?!

NavyFlyer · June 2014

I just sarcastically said "nope, I've always had a big butt and hips, thanks!"

atraveller · June 2014

How completely rude - I would have followed up with something equally as rude back, but just me!
:-O

Emerald27 · June 2014

NavyFlyer said:
I just sarcastically said "nope, I've always had a big butt and hips, thanks!"

I'd like to say you're a better person than I am, but truth be told, even though I would like to have had a snarky comeback, I probably would have mumbled something incoherent and headed for the restroom to cry and examine my butt in the mirror for a half hour.

ANGnJON · June 2014

Sorry OP! That's just rude & unnecessary! I would have definitely shot back a snide remark, you are better than I am at biting your tongue!

NavyFlyer · June 2014

Emerald27 said:

I just sarcastically said "nope, I've always had a big butt and hips, thanks!"
I'd like to say you're a better person than I am, but truth be told, even though I would like to have had a snarky comeback, I probably would have mumbled something incoherent and headed for the restroom to cry and examine my butt in the mirror for a half hour.

I headed to my office, teared up for about 30 seconds, looked at my butt in the mirror on the back of my door, and decided it's not getting BIGGER, which was enough to make me happy.

BreandMikewedding · June 2014

Why were they looking? I would have simply pointed to my wedding ring and walked away.

kaniela17 · June 2014

If it's a stranger who didn't know I was pregnant, I've always wanted to look at them blankly with confusion and say "I'm not pregnant". Then laugh histerically when they look horrified for being such a jackass to begin with. Unfortunately, no strangers have said anything to me before or lately so I haven't be able to do that.

NavyFlyer · June 2014

just to clarify, the secretary who made the comment is a woman.

WiFiMom2be · June 2014

WTF??? That is so rude and inappropriate. That's probably considered a sexual harassment violation. Not that it would be worth it to report her, but it just amazes me how dumb some people are.

mcclan03 · June 2014

Does she have a pancake ass? She's probably jealous. Be proud of your booty.

NavyFlyer · June 2014

She's old and has 4 kids, I think somehow that makes women feel entitled to make those comments.

cbriggs567 · June 2014

Wow, the nerve of some people! The other day at Cracker Barrel this older gentlemen asked me when my twins were due! I politely told him I'm not having twins and I'm due in October. His wife was pretty mortified and told him you don't ask people that! And he said "well everyone always wants twins!" I told him since this was my 4th baby I don't want twins!

Jesslynnsell · June 2014

I have a friend who is also due in October. She works in a retail store and she has had multiple people ask her if she is having twins since she is so big...she is NOT having twins. She got so upset the other day that she told a lady, "Nope, not twins, just fat!"

tacosandtums · June 2014

That is unbelievable but sounds like you handled it really well! When I was 14 weeks my BIL's girlfriend asked me "So what does it mean that you're so big already? Does that mean it's gonna be a boy or something?" Smh....

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