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Re: OPK time / and busy DH schedules

  • lilsneezylilsneezy member
    LindsRockies said:
    lilsneezy said:
    bibliothecary said:
    LindsRockies said:
    TTC sex sometimes is mechanical and not fun, it comes with the territory.  I think wearing a sexy getup every time would get really old.

    If it was me, I would just not tell my H that I'm fertile and have sex with him when I have the opportunity.
    Is it bad that I start off Fertile Week with "let's get fuckin!"? Subtlety is not my strong suit.
    ^^ Same here. I'm very open about when it's time and not too worried about it being fun. I mean, we try to make it fun but sometimes it just is what it is. Today I walked into the bedroom and he said "do you need my weiner?" Why yes, DH, I do.  
    Dude, I'm totally using this.  "DH!!  I NEED YOUR WEINER!!"  Brilliant.
    Works every time! ;)
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  • ChaoswithGraceChaoswithGrace member
    etoille said:
    oursecretelopement said:
    ChaoswithGrace said:
    LindsRockies said:
    ChaoswithGrace said:
    Second question: why are some girls like really big B's on this site? They are like hardcore mean to some girls ripping them apart. Granted I just read a post about from attention chick posting BFP's on the TTC boards, etc etc. I get that, but other times, and correct me if I'm wrong, it's like some girls pick just to pick. I just finished OITNB, and I feel like I need to find my personal Red, or fight
    someone to earn some street cred. LOL 
    I'm so confused.  Are you shitting where you're eating, or what?
    Clearly a joke, I didn't mean to offend anyone. ^
    This joke went waaaay over my head.
    See its funny because she gets to call people bitches then say later 'oh I was just kidding, my sense of humor is a little fresh' when it goes over like a fart in church.

    Do you get it now?  I think its hysterical - don't you?
    Whooaaaa wait a second.

    Let me just clarify my intentions. I referenced a tv show and earning street cred. I wasn't ready to roll up my sleeves and starting fighting. I referenced that because I would see it on the knot, and the nest and the bump, some girls would just pick to pick on people, NOT all, some warranted granted, but some saw it for pure amusement. I get it. I'm new to this and this world of TTC isn't an easy one. I get the filter process and the whole WK that was reference earlier. Anyone can start posting - and before you open up about something personal - you want to make sure it's genuine, not an attention seeking troll. I'm just someone who's looking for a possible daily break from the whole two week wait, and hoping I don't go through another MC series. I'm hoping to meet some like minded ladies, who need a small laugh mid day with funny GIFS and Bacon. (God Bless Bacon.) I tried to make a joke referencing a tv show and that's it. Clearly it wasn't received well. I'm not trying to cover my tracks with a "jk folks". I didn't mean to offend anyone and treating the response by continuing the joke was the wrong avenue. I had I know my comment would be taken really offensively, I wouldn't of said anything. *white flag* and sincerest apologies. 
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  • ChaoswithGraceChaoswithGrace member
    "I referenced that because I would see it on the knot, and the nest and the bump, some girls would just pick to pick on people, NOT all, some warranted granted, but some saw it for pure amusement." I asked if it was just me who saw it. I honestly expected a whole "yeah, there are some, if you're looking to start trouble" or "yeah, make sure you don't this and that, etc." That's it.image That's all. If you scroll back, I joked offering lotion (which is how Piper & Red squashed an disagreement on being a newbie (another OITNB reference.) AGAIN, Didn't mean to offend anyone. 
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  • ChaoswithGraceChaoswithGrace member
    KateRN08 said:
    I am so confused.
    I've offended people and I've apologized several times. :/ newbie looking for a second chance 
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  • KatzKissKatzKiss member
    OP your trying a little too hard right now. Just relax and lurk for a while. Get a feel for the board and you'll be okay.
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  • Wine&CupcakesWine&Cupcakes member
    divinemsbee said:
    I read these threads and I feel like I am a terrible wife and you should all feel sorry for my husband. Pretty much since we started trying I just tell him when it's go time. I've never shied away from telling him it's my FW and we need to get crackin'. So we do it. He wants a baby, I want a baby, and decently well-timed sex is how we get a baby (unless we move on to more medical interventions next). It's not always sexy (but it's a good 70/30 split in favor of sexy) and it's not always fun (again, 70/30), but it gets the job done.

    I totally get if you're just starting out wanting to do the whole sexpot/outfits thing, but I am lazy. We do make sure to have plenty of good, sexy, relaxed, non-baby making sex for the rest of my cycle, but for about 5 days it's business time. Works for us.
    @divinemsbee: I was just thinking the same exact thing! Andplusalso, I'm a super prude. Like, a super duper prude...the idea of sending DH a pic of my titties or a detailed explanation of the inappropriate things I hope to do with his body is both a) a lie - I'm lazy and b) super embarassing for me...super.prude.
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    Me: 31  DH: 29
    DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
    DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder! 
    7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
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