I told my husband and daughter right away but I waited until my first ultrasound to tell most of my family. Just yesterday, I'm 10 weeks and 3 days, I posted this picture of my daughter for facebook friends and extended family
We're 8 weeks and one day today, due date: January 25th, 2015. Super excited as my birthday is the 31st so we will see what happens We've told my mom, and my boss at work as my job is a little too stressful and I may need a new client who is not so aggressive. I've already mc'd twice, the last one was three months ago.
I missed my period in May, but tried to not get my hopes up as after miscarrying I always felt like I had pregnancy symptoms and had so many negative pregnancy tests to show for it...but since my period was 3 days late, I decided to try another test, and...it was positive!! I ran and told my husband who was asleep and barely woke up when I told him..I'm not very good at surprising people...he gave me a kiss, but was so tired from working he fell back asleep.. And the next morning he had to clarify that it wasn't a dream lol. I've told a few of my friends, and have asked one of them if she wants to come and see the birth as she is a nursing student and will probly be more help then my husband is and she was so excited. She knew about my two previous mc's and was super happy for me. I'm super excited and so hopeful that this pregnancy will work out!
I don't know how we're going to announce it. The first time we were pregnant, I had some bleeding, went and got an ultrasound, saw the baby and it's heartbeat, but then miscarried five weeks later right at the end of our first trimester a week before we were going to announce anything...then we had to tell my family the opposite. We made onesies the last time but then miscarried at seven weeks as I wanted to tell everyone right away as we waited last time and mc'd anyways. So now my husband wants to wait a little while. We have a few family reunions in August and at that time we should be 15 weeks, so we could announce it there..and tell our immediate family beforehand...or it's my husbands birthday coming up at the end of this month, so I'm debating giving him a present in front of our family to announce it, but I don't want to take away the focus of celebrating his birthday...and it might be too early...I have no idea...
I Took A test Friday, mid day and it was positive. My husband was cooking dinner and I took the test into the kitchen and showed him. I texted my good friend right away. I took the second test Saturday morning around 3 am. Again it was positive. I then told my BMB, because I just wasn't happy about being pregnant. I told my husband the second test was positive and I had a good ugly cry in bed. My friend texted me and I told her the second test was positive. I didn't want to tell family until the Dr. Confirmed it with blood work, and after I had an ultrasound to date my pregnancy. I called my mom and told her, then my dad, then my grandma. I texted my brother because he's training right now. I'll tell my other Grandparents on Saturday when we see them and my husband's parents on Monday when we see them. I'm thinking I'll announce on fb in the next few weeks to the rest of the family and friends. It's most important to us that we personally tell our parents and grandparents first hand.
I was thinking of getting shirts for my boys that read Biggest brother, bigger brother, and big brother.
Will see though.I may just post a picture of the ultrasound on facebook I don't know Yet. I don't really plan tell anybody before 10 Or 12 weeks.
So far I've told my mom, siblings, and DH's family. My dad is in Alaska until Sunday, so he's going to have to wait!
For my mom and sis, I glued a blueberry inside a ring box and told them that's what I got dad for father's day. They looked really confused until I told them that's the size of the first grandbaby (had an u/s the day before, so I got a ruler out and made sure I found the perfect blueberry!).
My brother wasn't home and I couldn't wait for him but didn't want him out of the loop, so I left a letter on his desk with a picture of the u/s saying "dear uncle C, hi! I'm 8 weeks old, this (----) long, and I can't wait to meet you January 2015." It said "psst, can you keep a secret" on the front.
My in-laws were actually given the blueberry for father's day. DH's sisters were there too so that made it easier. The looks of confusion - shock - joy are possibly the greatest thing I've seen so far (except the pic of my little gummy bear that is)
My dad is yet to be told, but I'm going to meet him at the airport with a sign that says "Welcome home grandpa" and a pic of the u/s. I'm kind of hoping he takes a while to figure it out and walks right by us lol. I think he's going to be the most excited
How far along were you? I was 2 weeks when I found out! But now I'm 9 wks 5 days due January 21st
Who did you tell? How did you do it? My doctor called and confirmed it, my entire family knew before I did .. It was a huge shock to my husband and I
Any funny or interesting reactions? My husband was silent for over 10 mins on the phone when I told him, it was an interesting conversation is all But now we are both very excited!!
For my family h and I came up with a poem for my dad that we put in his Father's Day card (we celebrated a week late). He read the poem out loud and at the end it said something about use having a baby in January. I recorded it with my iPad. It was great.
For H's family we played Heads Up on my phone and created our own deck that said baby, January, surprise, DD's name, big sister. It recorded their reactions when it finally clicked and I saved the video to my phone. It was priceless!
Hi everyone! I am due January 2nd and super excited because this will be my first little one. I am currently 12.5 weeks pregnant and very nervous as I've miscarried this past January. It was very hard on me and I seeked out miscarriage support groups to get through it. I'm still very scared the same thing is going to happen but I'm trying to keep a positive outlook on everything.
I waited till this week to tell everyone about my pregnancy even family members, because sharing that pain of miscarrying with family just made it so much more difficult. My husband is very excited as we were hoping for a little miracle to come along. I was in shock when i first found out that I had to take 3 additional pregnancy tests to confirm that the test wasn't playing mind tricks on me. My nausea has been awful but this week has subsided significantly so I hope that isn't a bad sign. I'm already starting to show and switched into maternity pants already. I'm really happy to see threads like this because I could use all the advice I can get at this point.
I've tried reading the baby books but they scared the living crap out of me. My husband had to hide them because I became super paranoid about everything and anything I was experiencing and doing. I just hope that my appointment on the 30th which will be my very first appointment with the OB/GYN goes smoothly and all is okay. I fought from the day i found out that i was pregnant to get an appointment sooner but the nurses did not budge. One told me to stop calling because I was calling in every week to see if I could get a sooner appointment due to a cancellation.
We found wine labels on etsy that you can personalize. It read "Drink this for me, I'm a mommy to be, Baby ______ coming January 2015." We put it on a wine bottle and gave each of our parents a bottle.
It was a fun way to tell our parents were are expecting.
How far along were you?5.5 weeks when we told parents and siblings with the attached picture in mother's day cards, will be 13.5 weeks when we tell the rest of our family and friends.
Who did you tell? How did you do it? See picture attached.
Any funny or interesting reactions? My parents did not expect it at all....even though we have been married for a year and I had been talking non-stop about my nephews and my pregnant BFF and pregnant sister-in-laws. They were in complete shock.
We live in Colorado but both of our families are on the east coast. We decided to wait until our first ultrasound (at 8 weeks) to make sure everything looked healthy before we told our family. We sent onesies that said "Made in Colorado" with a copy of the ultrasound saying Due January 5th. When the packages arrived we facetimed with our family as they opened them. Between 11 and 12 weeks we decided to post on Facebook for our extended family and friends. I made a collage photo of us when we were dating, at our wedding, and the ultrasound picture with dates of those major milestones in our life. I attached the picture below.
Who did you tell? I sent my younger sister a picture of my test right after I took it and we told our close friends and family when I reached 6 weeks. I wanted to wait until I was 12 weeks to tell the rest of the world but this past weekend we went on a trip to Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure with my husbands family and I bought a shirt that says "Future Thing" (My profile picture). My husband was so excited about the picture he couldn't wait to post it to facebook. He added the caption "When you see it, it's true."
How did you do it? We have been planning to have a baby for awhile and we both decided early on that we wanted to do something unique to tell our family members so we decided to make a movie trailer. As soon as we started trying my husband started working on it. We both love Disney so we decided to use songs from Beauty and the Beast. It started with pictures of us through out our relationship and ended with pictures of our puppy opening a present with baby stuff in it. At the end there was a picture of one of my pregnancy tests (yes, one of, I'm the crazy lady who took a million tests lol)
Any funny or interesting reactions? Let me start by saying that both my husband andI have an older sibling that had children very young, so both of us had told our families for a very long time that we wouldn't be adding to the grandchild count. Late last year we decided that we were ready to start a family! I got my IUD removed in March and come May I was pregnant! Everyone was really excited to hear that we were having a baby but did think that we were joking at first. Both of our fathers travel for work and when we sent the video they both happened to be in meetings. My father-in-law was the first to respond and he sent my husband a text that said "I'm in a room full of big burly men and they are all starring at me, wondering why I'm balling like a baby"
My dad sent us a message next and said that he saw the video during a short recess they had and tried to do a presentation after but ended up crying half way through it.
My mom was at work so it took her longer to see the video but when she did she called and as soon as I answered she screamed "Oh my god! Please tell me this isn't a prank!" then she started crying which made me start crying in the middle of the grocery store lol
His mom called right away and said she was so excited after seeing the video she jumped up and dropped her Ipad.
I found out I was pregnant on Mother's Day, so we took a picture of the pregnancy tests & wrapped it in frames that said 'grandkids'. We gave them to our moms at the same time. They started yelling and screaming. It was the best Mother's Day gift we could have given them.
I think my sister's reaction was pretty good too.. She just kept say 'is this real, are you serious?!?'. It's a first grandchild on both sides.. It was a special day.
I knew in my first week. Figured that was impossible so went for tests that (of course) all came back negative. On Father's Day, my books felt huge, so took a test and it was positive! Husband called at the same time I took the test so I think I stuttered the news. First prenatal was a week later and I called close friends and family to tell them. That night my husband couldn't take it anymore and made the Facebook announcement heard round the world! I'm still at just 10 weeks, but so far so good.
Was a day late, and very well aware that the month before my period was a little off too. So at 4/5 weeks along.
Told our best friends immed. but we waited until after first appt. to tell family. Announced to our Inlaws at a family cookout at about 8 weeks, told my parents at Father's Day Cookout, our two kiddos wore big sibling shirts & gave Grandpa a card from all "3", with ultra sound picture. My mother has leaked it slowly despite request to keep hush for a bit...But tomorrow we will announce it to everyone with family picture, at this point can't hide it very well so timing is perfect.
well my grandparents sorta spilled the beans already on facebook...but we had planned to send the attached to all friends and family....we'll be sending it out this week!! So excited to finally go public!
We used this pic of our pup. Put them in cards for our parents telling them they are getting a "promotion". Also gave the photo to our siblings and posted it on fb. Told our families around 11 weeks and made it public at 14.
We sent the grandparents our first ultrasound picture and M&M's I had made that said "Due with baby #2!" - for everyone else, they got the good old Facebook announcement!
Inspired by the movie, "Up". I pick a "one little word" for each year, and this year's happened to be "adventure" as we build a new home...and welcome our greatest adventure yet, our first child!
We told immediate family on my birthday in early June. We told extended family on the 4th of July. Facebook public just now! Just had wonderful NT scan today putting us at 13 weeks 7 days today. Due Jan 11th now. Finally sinking in!
How far along were you?We told family and our best friends at 6 weeks and have slowly been telling other close friends and family ever since. We were cautious at first but then decided we are too excited to hide it! We won't be doing a facebook announcement, but rather just telling people when we see them and sending some personal messages to people who live afar. Who did you tell? How did you do it? We told my husband's parents with a onesie that said "I love my grandparents" disguised as a mother's day gift...it is their first so they are very excited. We had my 2 year old nephew tell my mom that "there's a baby in Aunt M's belly". Any funny or interesting reactions? Just the typical "It's about time" since we've been dating since grade 8!
I actually took the pregnancy test on Mother's Day morning. The results had been negative so many times before that I was really just walking back to the bathroom counter to throw the test away. But then I saw two lines and just froze! Haha, I gasped in surprise and my husband came running in and he saw right away so I didn't get to plan anything clever. But we hugged each other and cried as we jumped up and down in excitement! I video chatted my parents back home and just kind of held up the positive test to the web camera and smiled. My mom started screaming and running around and telling my grandmother and my dad. it wasn't too fancy, but it was a really special moment to discover I was expecting on Mother's Day! Now that I'm 13 weeks I have officially shared the news publicly. Here's a photo...
I'm 11 weeks 3 days! We told my husbands parents, two grandparents and my best friend but no one else. I'm waiting as long as I can to tell my side of the family and the rest of relatives.
I was almost 6 weeks pregnant when I found out... I was sick for two days or so before and I thought it was strange. I never ruled out pregnancy because my boyfriend and I hadn't been using protection for almost 3 years. So when I went to the dollar store and bought 3 tests. I took the first one and literally burst in tears. I was balling. I didn't think it was real.
I ran downstairs and wanted to tell my boyfriend but he had taken the dog out... I was pacing and sitting and thinking and stressing.. finding out changed my hormones in an instant and left me a blubber mess. When I saw my boyfriend walking back home I jumped him. crying and waving the positive test around. He was a tiny bit skeptical but was supportive.
I told my mom, my grandparents and my dad right away. Then scheduled an appointment. My mom was so excited and happy and I went to tell her in person later that night so I could tell my brother as well.
My dad was excited. My grandpa and grandma were less excited (probably because their first pregnancy made them marry and they were broke and stuff but I don't even care cause they seem cool about it now)
when I got home later my boyfriend informed me that my dad said if we weren't ready we could get an abortion and even though my dad said it in a concerning way my boyfriend had a talk with him cause he was passed that my dad would even bring that up. (My mother had a few abortions before me... not that you needed to know) over all what I'm getting at is ......
When I went to my first appointment at 6 weeks 1 day , we saw the sack and the heartbeat and that's what changed my boyfriend and I completely. He was balling and jumping up and down just as I was when I took the test. I was crying too. I mean... boyfriend is 29 right now and I'm 21 so like he never thought he'd ever be a dad. He didn't even think he worked correctly down their with his surgeries.
This pregnancy is very calming for me. I just want to do the best I can with having anxiety or stress...
Btw, I swear the funniest reaction in this story is seriously from my mother.... I went to see her later that night after I got the test back.
She was all goofy.. she is my nutty mother... she seriously scolded me every time I swore and said the baby could hear. That might be annoying for many women out there but if you saw they way she sounded.. (she acts like a little girl in a grown up body .. sometimes it can literally be adorable but you know growing up with someone who sometimes acts more like a kid than I did is hard..to say the least) anyway.. she was just so flipping excited and a bit overwhelming...
she called me a up a few days later asking what stuff she could buy for the baby and then told me she has two months of vacation time built up to babysit... hahaha ahh...
Sorry for the rant... I really haven't written down anything since I've been pregnant and I just couldn't stop. I hope it wasn't a bore.
We both teach yoga and made a fun announcement card to mail to our family and friends 'the birthing pose' with a monkey (baby nickname). It was easy to include our dog, we also made another photo of him wearing the shirt 'I'm being going to be a big brother Jan 2015. We thought it was pretty funny:)
This is how we announced, I thought I was 6 weeks but when I went in for u/s we were only 4. Scared me! But now we are 13 and besides normal pregnancy issues (sickness, tired, mood swings) everything seems to be fine! We got a lot of congrats and then a few "again" or "you know how babies are made right". This is baby #5 and I love having a big family. I just turned 27, so I think this may be our last. Our other kiddos are 7,6,4,2.
I told quite a few close friends way before 10wks, mostly those with medical background as we had a scare initially. Their advise and support was very much appreciated. I told a few others for various needed reasons.
We waited until 10wks (after our first US when we heard the heartbeat) tell our family. We invited his parents, my parents, my 2sisters and their families. I'm sure it was a tad suspicious as it wasnt thanksgiving and everyone was there. Lol. They all played their parts well. Haha. I made home made spaghetti, first time and it rocked. Then were to have cake. I had a beautiful cake made with lots of pink and blue and a stork on it. It said "Welcome Baby Aldape 2013" it was in large paper bag so they couldn't see it. As everyone was gathered around the table I said to mom as I pulled it out, "Mom, do you think in 7 months we could borrow grandmas rocking chair?" Everyone went nuts. The grand mamas cried, the DH cried, and so did I. Most beautiful moment.
Over the next couple wks we called ALL family and close friends to share with them. I didn't want my cousins, Tia's and Tio's finding out via FB.
After I was sure I had told everyone I wanted (around 12wks) we then shared this on FB. It was so amazing to hear the congrats and love from everyone.
I'm due January 22, told our parents at 11 weeks. Telling some other family tonight. Will probably start telling other family and friends this week :-) I've been nervous to tell people and I'm not sure why!
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I'm thinking I'll announce on fb in the next few weeks to the rest of the family and friends.
It's most important to us that we personally tell our parents and grandparents first hand.
I was thinking of getting shirts for my boys that read Biggest brother, bigger brother, and big brother.
Will see though.I may just post a picture of the ultrasound on facebook I don't know Yet. I don't really plan tell anybody before 10 Or 12 weeks.
For my mom and sis, I glued a blueberry inside a ring box and told them that's what I got dad for father's day. They looked really confused until I told them that's the size of the first grandbaby (had an u/s the day before, so I got a ruler out and made sure I found the perfect blueberry!).
My brother wasn't home and I couldn't wait for him but didn't want him out of the loop, so I left a letter on his desk with a picture of the u/s saying "dear uncle C, hi! I'm 8 weeks old, this (----) long, and I can't wait to meet you January 2015." It said "psst, can you keep a secret" on the front.
My in-laws were actually given the blueberry for father's day. DH's sisters were there too so that made it easier. The looks of confusion - shock - joy are possibly the greatest thing I've seen so far (except the pic of my little gummy bear that is)
My dad is yet to be told, but I'm going to meet him at the airport with a sign that says "Welcome home grandpa" and a pic of the u/s. I'm kind of hoping he takes a while to figure it out and walks right by us lol. I think he's going to be the most excited
Who did you tell? How did you do it?
My doctor called and confirmed it, my entire family knew before I did .. It was a huge shock to my husband and I
Any funny or interesting reactions?
My husband was silent for over 10 mins on the phone when I told him, it was an interesting conversation is all
But now we are both very excited!!
For my family h and I came up with a poem for my dad that we put in his Father's Day card (we celebrated a week late). He read the poem out loud and at the end it said something about use having a baby in January. I recorded it with my iPad. It was great.
For H's family we played Heads Up on my phone and created our own deck that said baby, January, surprise, DD's name, big sister. It recorded their reactions when it finally clicked and I saved the video to my phone. It was priceless!
BFP #1: 4/2/12 -- DD born 12/15/12. BFP #2: 4/1/14 -- CP. BFP #3: 4/28/14 -- EDD 1/10/15
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I waited till this week to tell everyone about my pregnancy even family members, because sharing that pain of miscarrying with family just made it so much more difficult. My husband is very excited as we were hoping for a little miracle to come along. I was in shock when i first found out that I had to take 3 additional pregnancy tests to confirm that the test wasn't playing mind tricks on me. My nausea has been awful but this week has subsided significantly so I hope that isn't a bad sign. I'm already starting to show and switched into maternity pants already. I'm really happy to see threads like this because I could use all the advice I can get at this point.
I've tried reading the baby books but they scared the living crap out of me. My husband had to hide them because I became super paranoid about everything and anything I was experiencing and doing. I just hope that my appointment on the 30th which will be my very first appointment with the OB/GYN goes smoothly and all is okay. I fought from the day i found out that i was pregnant to get an appointment sooner but the nurses did not budge. One told me to stop calling because I was calling in every week to see if I could get a sooner appointment due to a cancellation.
Who did you tell? How did you do it? See picture attached.
Any funny or interesting reactions? My parents did not expect it at all....even though we have been married for a year and I had been talking non-stop about my nephews and my pregnant BFF and pregnant sister-in-laws. They were in complete shock.
Between 11 and 12 weeks we decided to post on Facebook for our extended family and friends. I made a collage photo of us when we were dating, at our wedding, and the ultrasound picture with dates of those major milestones in our life. I attached the picture below.
Who did you tell? I sent my younger sister a picture of my test right after I took it and we told our close friends and family when I reached 6 weeks. I wanted to wait until I was 12 weeks to tell the rest of the world but this past weekend we went on a trip to Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure with my husbands family and I bought a shirt that says "Future Thing" (My profile picture). My husband was so excited about the picture he couldn't wait to post it to facebook. He added the caption "When you see it, it's true."
Any funny or interesting reactions? Let me start by saying that both my husband and I have an older sibling that had children very young, so both of us had told our families for a very long time that we wouldn't be adding to the grandchild count. Late last year we decided that we were ready to start a family! I got my IUD removed in March and come May I was pregnant! Everyone was really excited to hear that we were having a baby but did think that we were joking at first. Both of our fathers travel for work and when we sent the video they both happened to be in meetings. My father-in-law was the first to respond and he sent my husband a text that said "I'm in a room full of big burly men and they are all starring at me, wondering why I'm balling like a baby"
I think my sister's reaction was pretty good too.. She just kept say 'is this real, are you serious?!?'. It's a first grandchild on both sides.. It was a special day.
Told our best friends immed. but we waited until after first appt. to tell family. Announced to our Inlaws at a family cookout at about 8 weeks, told my parents at Father's Day Cookout, our two kiddos wore big sibling shirts & gave Grandpa a card from all "3", with ultra sound picture. My mother has leaked it slowly despite request to keep hush for a bit...But tomorrow we will announce it to everyone with family picture, at this point can't hide it very well so timing is perfect.
Who did you tell? How did you do it? We told my husband's parents with a onesie that said "I love my grandparents" disguised as a mother's day gift...it is their first so they are very excited. We had my 2 year old nephew tell my mom that "there's a baby in Aunt M's belly".
Any funny or interesting reactions? Just the typical "It's about time" since we've been dating since grade 8!
Now that I'm 13 weeks I have officially shared the news publicly. Here's a photo...
I ran downstairs and wanted to tell my boyfriend but he had taken the dog out... I was pacing and sitting and thinking and stressing.. finding out changed my hormones in an instant and left me a blubber mess. When I saw my boyfriend walking back home I jumped him. crying and waving the positive test around. He was a tiny bit skeptical but was supportive.
I told my mom, my grandparents and my dad right away. Then scheduled an appointment. My mom was so excited and happy and I went to tell her in person later that night so I could tell my brother as well.
My dad was excited. My grandpa and grandma were less excited (probably because their first pregnancy made them marry and they were broke and stuff but I don't even care cause they seem cool about it now)
when I got home later my boyfriend informed me that my dad said if we weren't ready we could get an abortion and even though my dad said it in a concerning way my boyfriend had a talk with him cause he was passed that my dad would even bring that up. (My mother had a few abortions before me... not that you needed to know) over all what I'm getting at is ......
When I went to my first appointment at 6 weeks 1 day , we saw the sack and the heartbeat and that's what changed my boyfriend and I completely. He was balling and jumping up and down just as I was when I took the test. I was crying too. I mean... boyfriend is 29 right now and I'm 21 so like he never thought he'd ever be a dad. He didn't even think he worked correctly down their with his surgeries.
This pregnancy is very calming for me. I just want to do the best I can with having anxiety or stress...
Btw, I swear the funniest reaction in this story is seriously from my mother.... I went to see her later that night after I got the test back.
She was all goofy.. she is my nutty mother... she seriously scolded me every time I swore and said the baby could hear. That might be annoying for many women out there but if you saw they way she sounded.. (she acts like a little girl in a grown up body .. sometimes it can literally be adorable but you know growing up with someone who sometimes acts more like a kid than I did is hard..to say the least) anyway.. she was just so flipping excited and a bit overwhelming...
she called me a up a few days later asking what stuff she could buy for the baby and then told me she has two months of vacation time built up to babysit... hahaha ahh...
Sorry for the rant... I really haven't written down anything since I've been pregnant and I just couldn't stop. I hope it wasn't a bore.
We got a lot of congrats and then a few "again" or "you know how babies are made right". This is baby #5 and I love having a big family. I just turned 27, so I think this may be our last. Our other kiddos are 7,6,4,2.
We waited until 10wks (after our first US when we heard the heartbeat) tell our family. We invited his parents, my parents, my 2sisters and their families. I'm sure it was a tad suspicious as it wasnt thanksgiving and everyone was there. Lol. They all played their parts well. Haha. I made home made spaghetti, first time and it rocked. Then were to have cake. I had a beautiful cake made with lots of pink and blue and a stork on it. It said "Welcome Baby Aldape 2013" it was in large paper bag so they couldn't see it. As everyone was gathered around the table I said to mom as I pulled it out, "Mom, do you think in 7 months we could borrow grandmas rocking chair?" Everyone went nuts. The grand mamas cried, the DH cried, and so did I. Most beautiful moment.
Over the next couple wks we called ALL family and close friends to share with them. I didn't want my cousins, Tia's and Tio's finding out via FB.
After I was sure I had told everyone I wanted (around 12wks) we then shared this on FB. It was so amazing to hear the congrats and love from everyone.