Horror Story and Let's Talk About Sex Again

MrsTinMKE · June 2014

persephonerose said:

We have had sex once since December 2013. It was great during, for me at least. Poor DH though he did not get to finish because after an hour I was just too tired to keep going. I was sore for the next 3 days.

Sorry about your fire ants. I guess you guys got to finish though right?

Oh man... this... me too

but once since February. Kind of feel like there is something wrong with us, but I think we have just both been so tired... Think I just need to make a better effort.

Lauren1184 · June 2014

I'm sorry you disinfected your vag, just reading your post made me cringe.

We were doing it every day or every other day until m/s hit around week 7, didn't try at all until it passed by week 15 or so. It was super uncomfortable, even with lube, so we didn't try again until a few days ago. It was much better, but my lady parts were swollen and uncomfortable for a couple days. I'm not in the mood as often as usual, but I feel bad for him and try to take care of him whenever I can. The belly is starting to get in the way, and I know he's going to freak out if he sees the baby trying to push out of my belly like an alien while we're in the middle of it. I'm curious to see how it feels after baby comes out.

ETA words

lrobi13 · June 2014

archi35 said:

We are on again / off again. In between the 1st tri fire-boobs (in a bad way), and recent move we had a good run. Since the move however DH is stuck with all the manual labor so sadly he isn't as interested and seems more tired than I do these days.
I also have a TMI situation where Lady V seems to have squeezed herself shut since the bfp. Like she put up a "closed for business" sign or something. If we don't have regular sex its hard to get anything <ahem> in there. I'll be very good to go, no dryness, but Lady V makes the actual business not so enjoyable for me if its been more than a week. She's a fickle bitch.

I lolled that you called you Lady V a fickle bitch!! Hope she stops being so trifling and lets you get some!

Maggie6424 · June 2014

We've slowed down. I'm always hot and ready, but I'm also so damn tired all the time. Plus, he's always up later than me. I want it more, but schedules and sleepiness always win.

willamina28 · June 2014

I'm at week 8 of pelvic rest too... sadness

Saragoeswest · June 2014

kfitzguerra said:

noonandj04 said:

I'm on pelvic rest (for the third time this pregnancy), so nothing going on between the sheets at the moment. I'm definitively missing it, though! I haven't even thought of solo action... I suppose orgasms are off-limits during pelvic rest even if there is no penetration, hey? [-(

Someone PLEASE let me know what their doctor says. 8 weeks off limits for me, too. Unfortunately, I seem to be having very...ahem...active dreams almost every night now. I'm not even trying. How am I supposed to ask my doctor about that one?

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I asked my SIL for y'all since she is an OBGYN. She said in her opinion it varies due to the reason you are on pelvic rest. Orgasms can cause contractions, which super high risk ladies who have had contractions already will obviously want to avoid right now. But really-- just ask your doctor for clarity on your specific pregnancy.

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