I thought this was a pretty interesting article: https://news.nationalpost.com/2014/06/24/u-s-should-join-rest-of-industrialized-countries-and-offer-paid-maternity-leave-obama/
I know there are great arguments for either side of the discussion but after finding out that I only get 6 weeks paid (2 of which I've already used for doctor appointments) I think it would be awesome if this passed before November.
Re: The US is the only developed country without paid maternity leave
October Challenge: How I feel about the 3rd trimester:
Throwback: Hubby and I on our first date (Nov 2007), and then again on our wedding day (Nov 2012)
I would love to have 6 weeks paid!
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I know that there are many that are worse off than me. I am really thankful that I get anything at all and also thankful that I have a second household income. I also totally understand the argument that higher taxes suck. My “maternity leave” is essentially my “sick” time. So any time I’ve got an appointment or get sick – I lose that time at home after the birth. When I lost a twin at 13.5 weeks I had to stay home for a few days – which is a few days I don’t get in November/December. I am saving all of my vacation time, but it still doesn’t add up to much.
I chose a job that gave good benefits for families because I knew I wanted to have one. My job recently instituted a 40 hour alllowance for medical reasons per calendar year that is allowed to be taken in as little as 15 minute incriments, so that will cover most if not all of my doctor's visits. We also get 12 weeks paid maternity leave and up to another 8 unpaid. Fathers even get 2 weeks paternity leave here, DH's job also gives him 2 weeks.
I'm employed by a Catholic diocese that does not cover birth control in its health insurance policies for moral reasons. However, I'm irritated that the diocese refuses to offer any paid maternity or paternity leave or short-term disability insurance to its employees (who are predominantly female). It seems to contradict their "family first" values.
I think it's a fine idea. On the other hand, I don't know that others should help pay for my decision to have a child.
This isn't passing before November. Lol at the thought that it might.
I knew I wouldn't get any paid leave and purposely sought out an individual hospitalization plan before getting pregnant to help cover lost income.
I almost wish there was a system in play like STD - you pay for the elective benefit if you think you'll need it. So people of childbearing age could put $X amount in per paycheck and then if/when they use the benefit, you get your salary at 100%. Then, when you're done having children, you don't have to pay in. I don't think the 65 year old who is close to retirement should have to be forced to pay into a benefit he or she will not use.
For me, personally, my company pays my STD premium and I will receive 2/3 pay for 6 or 8 weeks (vaginal vs. C-section) and have to supplement the remaining weeks with PTO or without pay. I've calculated it out and I should get some sort of pay for all but maybe 2 weeks (assuming I don't need to take much time off before then).
NACHOS FOR EVERYONE!
Move to Canada, ya its cold here but you can snuggle your babe all winter long?!
I wonder how that works if you're on STD?
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Mo 11/4/14
Wait, What?!? - EDD 11/1/19
I understand the "I'm smart with money, I don't need it and I don't want to pay for it", the "government should play a smaller role in our lives", and the "other developed governments pay for it, ours should too" standpoints. I think that the government has some major issues with funding, taxes, and lobbyists, and don't think it is a smart decision to leave it in their responsibility.
The thing with maternity leave is that FMLA is just the required leave. Your employer has every ability to grant you extra time off and still not replace you if asked. Your employer can give you time off even if they don't fall under FMLA. They have the ability to offer some sort of compensation, even though it isn't required. But most corporations don't understand or care that taking care of your employees results in less turn-over, higher productivity, and job satisfaction, and isn't a stupid expenditure.
But, that's just me and my value system.
I work in architecture and unless you work at a big international firm or a firm with numerous offices chances are you are working somewhere with under 50 people. I work currently work for a firm that is 18 people total in two offices and we are considered a medium size firm. We do not get FMLA protection and STD is not offered.
I tried to sign up for individual STD prior to try to get pregnant and found that NO indivdual plans offered maternity coverage it had to be a group plan to get maternity coverage. We planned ahead prepared for 12 wks unpaid just like we did with DS and we already have my 12 wks of take home pay set aside but having the option to purchase my own STD would uave been nice.
& our employer must reserve our job for us for 6-12 months, if we choose to return to work after the baby is born.
I know nothing about the taxes in the US, but in Australia the paid parental leave scheme has been a government initiative for so long now that no one questions the taxes.
With DS I had 12 weeks 100% paid - my company had 100% reimbursement for STD (I had 6 weeks for a vaginal delivery) and they provided a maternity benefit - 2 weeks 100% paid for every year of service up to 3 years - so I had another 6 weeks 100% paid. They valued their female employees, had a larger women's professional development group within the company, really wanted to attract and retain talent. While I realize not all professions care, I think the value of female employees is changing. More women than men are receiving undergrad and graduates degrees. For the first time, girls are testing with higher scores than boys in almost all subjects. It would be nice to think more companies would consider this on their own. Perhaps a tax incentive (they exist for everything else in business).
The issue is it would have to go into the payroll tax. Nearly half of Americans have no federal tax liability (this is key for those not from the US - in other countries you don't have so many credits and exemptions in the tax code that half your citizens pay nothing, with 10% of those getting back more than they actually pay). There is not enough collected in the payroll tax now to cover future liabilities in Medicare and SS benefits. So even adding the proposed 2 cents per every $10 made for a maternity benefit wouldn't probably go to cover that - the US will end-up further in debt. Really with the state of finances, I don't see this happening until the government can get spending under control to the point that certain liabilities are safely covered, there will be no "locked-box" for this - the money will be diverted to other programs which have had their funds diverted to pay for yet even more programs that aren't collect enough to pay on promises. That would be my issue with this. If it was done, there would have to be obvious caps - 2 or 3 pregnancies perhaps after a certain # of years of service.
I saw a facebook post on Obama's announcement yesterday. It's amazing how many ignorant comments there were. There were people under the impression that something like this would be paid to all women who deliver, including non-working women, and how great that would be. It's paid leave - you wouldn't get it if you don't work!