Rooming Q - share or separate?

KTdidit · June 2014

Next month we are moving from our 2br house into a 3br. Right now DS2(4mo) is in our room and DS1(4yo) has his own room. DS2 will NOT be in our room when we move. Momma and Daddy need their adult alone time!!! We have two options, obvs. 1. Boys each get their own room, their toys and books are in their respective rooms. or 2. Boys share a room and have a dedicated playroom.

I like both ideas. But I LOVE the idea of having all the toys in a playroom and not all over the house. Also, no worries about DS1 playing with his toys instead of taking a nap or when he is in time out. BUT.... is 4mo too young to share a room? He still wakes up once a night and DH is concerned that he will wake DS1 up and then we will have two kids to get back to sleep, and that DS1 will be cranky every morning from broken sleep. I'm not so concerned about getting him back to bed, he likes his sleep and that's never been a problem. Thoughts? Has anyone had littles that have roomed together around these ages?

Lolapop29 · June 2014

I would want separate rooms at this age, so they don't wake each other up. If they were older I would think the play room is a great idea.

FalconCrest · June 2014

My DDs share a room. They are 6 and 14 months. They started room sharing when the baby was around 9 months old. So far, so good.

KTdidit · June 2014

@FalconCrest did your DD still wake up MOTN at 9 months?

@Tangerine01 we would have to disassemble the crib to get it out of our room and into DS1s room. Otherwise we def would try it for the next couple weeks to see. I suppose it wouldn't be too hard to do a trial when we first move in....

KTdidit · June 2014

ScoutNumbers05 said:

Personally? I wouldn't have them share if I didn't have to. I kind of put sleep above all else, though. I worry about them keeping each other up.

Sleep is a big thing in our house too! They go to bed about the same time at night and I try to get them to nap at the same time on the weekends....

I've always been pro "everyone have their own room" too. But I just can't get that playroom out of my head...

FalconCrest · June 2014

Yes, the baby still does not sleep through the night. DD1 is a pretty heavy sleeper though, so it has not been a problem. They love sharing a room, and I hope it encourages a close bond for them despite the age difference.

KTdidit · June 2014

FalconCrest said:

Yes, the baby still does not sleep through the night. DD1 is a pretty heavy sleeper though, so it has not been a problem. They love sharing a room, and I hope it encourages a close bond for them despite the age difference.

Oh I forgot about this aspect! DS1 has been wanting DS2 to sleep in his bed since he was born. I mentioned when we move that they might be sharing a room, but then when we went to the house last week I showed DS1 which room would be his, which would be DS2's and which would be mine and DH's. DS1 got upset because he wanted to share a room with DS2. Now I don't let a 4yo call the shots and still have to weight the pros and cons but it's definitely a factor

ToastieSimons · June 2014

We only have 2 bd right now so my boys share. DS2 stayed in our room until 8 months when he was reliably STTN. We haven't had a problem with them sharing.

ToastieSimons · June 2014

I have no idea how this posted here...so I removed it. made no sense whatsoever

KTdidit · June 2014

Another thing I hadn't thought about is that DS2 won't be able to play unsupervised in the playroom for a long time anyway because of little pieces in DS1's toys. So DS2 wouldn't have anywhere to sit and play with his baby toys aside from the living room. And toys in every damn room of the house is what I'm hoping to avoid.

And about the sleeping issue - I'm not worried about once they are asleep but I have a feeling DS1 might try to play with DS2 is he's not fully asleep. He loves the crap out of his little brother.

KTdidit · June 2014

I want to move RIGHTNOW so I'm obsessing over this!!

RondackHiker · June 2014

Do you still have the dog?

RondackHiker · June 2014

I would still like to know about the dog.

Do you still have him (her)? Can't remember, I'm sorry. Is the pup doing okay?

KTdidit · June 2014

@TyrannosaurusLex yes we still have her and she's doing great. My dad is putting up a privacy fence at the new house for us before we move in.

@RondackHiker

pdh2008 · June 2014

Separate!

KTdidit · June 2014

TyrannosaurusLex said:

@TyrannosaurusLex yes we still have her and she's doing great. My dad is putting up a privacy fence at the new house for us before we move in.

@RondackHiker
So glad, is a privacy fence special in any way from another type of fence?

It is 6ft high so they can't jump it.

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