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July 2014 Moms
***FFFC 6/20***
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Re: ***FFFC 6/20***
"Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."
TTC since March 2013. BFP 4/13/13, blighted ovum discovered 6/6/13, m/c 6/8/13.
BFP 11/10/13, EDD 7/25/13 - stick little owlet!
FFFC - I fucking hate whistles and squirt guns. If I'm at your house and your kids have those to play with, I kind of hate you.
I told S/O this and he's probably stockpiling them for the baby just to enrage me.
"Your truth is different from my truth, and we're both right."
TTC since March 2013. BFP 4/13/13, blighted ovum discovered 6/6/13, m/c 6/8/13.
BFP 11/10/13, EDD 7/25/13 - stick little owlet!
FFFC: I often assume that the soapy run-off from the rest of me is good enough.
I have no farking clue where the infant seat is packed up. I hope we find it this weekend since we already have FOUR bases for it. This is despite the fact that my OB said it could be any time now this past Monday. I'm so blase I figure I can just send DH out to buy one to get home and we can unearth the Chicco later.
I also forgot today was beach ball day at DD's school so I had to go to Fred's to buy her one and bring it back.
I'm basically mother of the year.
#2 I masterbate just about every night because I love sex but DH won't put out for all the reasons people have already mentioned.
#3 I have felt so sad and guilty for DH having to take care of all of us these last two months of bed rest (basically 2 full time jobs) that for our anniversary yesterday I impulsively bought him his dream grill that was uber expensive. He was so excited he couldn't touch it at first! I logically know I just used savings for a grill but truly DGAF because he deserves it for his 2 full time jobs he's had these last two months and all the shit I put him through being a hormonal bitch. So guilt and my DGAF attitude has me spending savings money on not necessary purchases.
And here's an AW pic of him
DD born 7.27.2014
BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
They didn't hire me because her words exactly "By the time I train you, you will be on maternity and I can't hire you for that reason." I told her I have no intention of taking more than a few days which has been my mantra even with my current job. She told me they legally have to give me maternity leave (lies, fmla doesn't protect me unless I have been there for a year or 1250 hours) and they have to follow the doctors orders (more lies as it is up to the mother whether to follow doctors orders or not). She also asked me if I planned to have more children, and who would take care of this child while I was at work.
She asked me a whole bevy of illegal questions. While I realize they are valid questions, they are illegal and discriminating against me while pregnant because I am pregnant is illegal too. Yes, I realize I am 35 pregnant...means jack shit.
Yes.
Baby G born 6/6/14, 37 weeks 1 day due to preeclampsia. 5lb12oz 19"
#2 due Christmas 2016.
@1982babies I was living within my means. I was able to pay my bills, and keep food on the table until I was forced out onto maternity by the daycare 2 months early because they said " I don't know how to work your because you are 7 months pregnant. As such, like I was before I was hired at the daycare was looking for a job.
Yes, yes it does. Especially when you're taking BC prescribed for someone else...
Seriously. You VERY clearly expect people to do shit for you. Weren't you also the cuntwad who got mad at her husband for having a broken ankle and thus couldn't open her pool?
Also, re: interviewing at 35 weeks pregnant, I think it's an absolutely douchey thing to put someone in the position of turning you down. Because of COURSE they're going to. And if you hurt your absolutely moronic self after going back to work against doctors' orders, guess who's liable, and likely to get used by a struggling mother who needs some quick cash?
Do you think he hasn't been looking? He has. No luck, yet. Since I am the one sitting around right now, yes I need to pick up the slack. He isn't forcing me to do it. I am doing it because I want my child to have a better life than I did.
@suzelizabeth I didn't say I wasn't paying those bills. They start calling when you miss one payment. Up until this month, I was able to pay my bills.
@Literachick Pre-K ended, and starts up again until August 1st. I was hired in March by them and not told this. They said they would work me during the summer with driving, lunch reliefs, standing in for people who went on vacation and would get about 20 hours a week. I was ok with that, because it would still pay my bills and I figured I would have a second job by then to supplement. 3 weeks into June, and I have not worked a single hour. So they said you are on maternity. I have had no issues at work. I have not had to leave early. I have no complaints. So I have no idea why they put me on early maternity other than that one phrase that they said to me when we had the maternity talk, 3 weeks ago.
So you haven't paid your bills since July (presumably of last year, since we're not to July of this year), or you're only a month late? Which is it?
But you weren't paying your bills before you got pregnant. You said you stopped paying them last July. Or did I miss something???
Do you really think that you can just go back to working 3 days after you have had a c section??