I check DS everyday and before and after each visit and the only time we have an issue is when DS comes back from exs. It could be as little as a 3 hour visit and he'll have live bugs (no nits since there wasn't enough time for them to lay eggs). I've brought it to exs attention and he tried to place blame on me until I told him our routine for checking DS then ex told me to stop treating DS with the chemical lice solutions and to essentially stop treating DS. I've tried putting preventative in DS hair before he goes over (he showers after each visit anyway) and ex just gets mad at me tells me it's gross and washes DS hair. This has been going on for over 3months now. I'm not sure what else to do. I can't continue handling the chemicals since I'm pregnant and due soon. DS is tired of having to get treated for lice and it's such a big expense too.
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Re: lice at exs
It's very frustraiting...i contacted my attorneyin regards to the lice. She basically told me to start a case for neglect on ex by having a dr document each time I take DS in to get some sort of treatment for lice...
With my experience, if we didn't have an address, SK's do not go. It was in our C/O that BM had to write the courts as well but we did not have to send them if we didn't know where they would be.
My mom is also going through this and her attorney told her the same thing.
My Loves= SD 18 SS 16 SS13 DD13 DS10 SD6 SD5
We were not in contempt for it and neither is my mom with her situation. I also don't think it matters how old the child is.
My Loves= SD 18 SS 16 SS13 DD13 DS10 SD6 SD5
My kids and I got lice when I was 7 months pregnant last year too. It was awful.
There's a spray called lice freeeeeeee at Walgreen's, you can also get it on Amazon. I bet whoever DH is taking DS around isn't treating their kids/themselves and the ugly cycle continues.
LF is basically salt water that smells like black licorice. It dehydrates them and they die within 30 minutes. Comb them out with a bad ass lice comb that has ridges on the teeth. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
ETA: send a bottle to that sack's house for the sake of your sanity. Just keep spraying it on DS. It couldn't be easier.