I know I do not post often, but wanted to send my hugs and positive thoughts and prayers to you. You are a symbol of strength to me even though I realize you may not feel strong right now. Sorrow exist so we may one day know joy when we receive it. I am sorry you have experienced such great sorrow and pray that the scales will now tip and allow you joy. Hugs to you!
Bora, your strength and grace throughout all of this has amazed me. You truly showed unconditional love to your sweet Madeiline. I am sending all of my thoughts and positive vibes your way.
While I cannot imagine what you are going through please know that we are here and we care. I admire the strength you have shown and the love you have expressed for Maddie. My wish is that you find peace and strength during this difficult journey.
Thank you to everyone who participated in the hour of silence!! Even though I messed up the title like 150 times, I still think it mean't a lot to bora.
Bora, words can't describe how incredibly strong I think you and Aly are. I admire your strength through this absolutely painful time. You're little Madeline, Micah and both of your families are in my prayers. I pray that you are given strength and peace during this time.
@BoraBoraBaby I would like you to know just how touching your story is. I decided to tell my husband your story. I told him all the things that you did to show your little miracle all the love you could while she was here. It moved us both to tears. My husband doesn't show emotion easily. He broke down and said he could feel your strong motherly love without even knowing you!
I pray you know how much of an effect you have on people you don't even know! I also pray that your healing will be just at the pace you need it. Your heart is gorgeous, please remind yourself of that daily. Or I can, I don't mind a bit!
I have one more thing I wanted to share. These sisters are such beautiful singers and when listening to the song last night it made me think of how important it is to have people to lean on.
Been trying to think of the perfect thing to say to you ladies going through this hard time but words fail me. I think of all of you often and wish the best for the future of your families. You are truly an inspiration of strength and courage.
Bora, I'm deeply taken away by your recent experience! I will never forget you although I've never met you. Your sweet angel was needed in heaven and you will be with her again one day.
Many things have been said about you already, and I just can't add enough words to show how much of a strong being you are. I look up to you! You are one special woman, and the support you showed to all throughout these past months was just amazing. Thank you for being you!
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. You traveled such a difficult road with grace, courage, and wit. I know many of us found a lot of inspiration in your journey. God bless your little girl and your family.
Again I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your sweet Madeleine will never be forgotten. Look how many lives she has touched in her short life! She was so lucky to have you as her mama. I know that while she was here she knew how much you love her.
Many of us on this board have had losses and I like to imagine that our babies are all playing together up in heaven. We'll never know why they had to go, but they all have each other.
To you, Aly, and the other ladies whose July babies were taken too soon, I send you love and peace. I hope you all are finding comfort in the arms and words of those around you.
Bora, I've been praying for you and your family. You've made such an impact on all of us on the board, and I hope you know how much you're loved. You've handled yourself with such grace and composure, while continuing to support others in need. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you as you go down this road. You are an incredible woman and mother!
June Siggy Challenge: Dad Fails
Married 7.28.2012 DD born 7.27.2014 BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
Bora- I have been thinking of you and your sweet girl the past few days. You are such an inspiration to so many and I am so sorry for your loss. Madeleine was very blessed to have you as her mom to cherish her life. She will continue to be in my prayers.
BFP #1: 3/23/13, EDD: 11/22/13, MC: 4/2/13
Convinced it was a boy and missing him every day!
BFP #2: 10/25/13, EDD: 7/3/14, Grow baby Grow! Anabelle Rose born 6/6/14
@BoraBoraBaby Words cannot express how sorry I am. You have been so strong and awe-inspiring these past few months. Madeleine knew so much love in her little life and she was so lucky to have you as a mom. Continued thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Bora, thinking of you, Madeline, and your family tonight. Even though the time was shorter than was fair, Madeline was lucky to have such a wonderful mother.
So many people live their lives without knowing what true love looks or feels like. Both you Bora and Alygoo have given your babies lives where all they've ever known is absolute, unconditional love from their mothers.
I pray that both of you will be surrounded by peace and love.
Bora- I know nothing I can say can make things better but I do know that Maddie was very loved and am glad you got to spend some time with her. I will be thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
The reality is you will grieve forever. You will not get over the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same again. Nor should you be the same nor should you want to - Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
It takes an unimaginable amount of strength to go through your situation. Know you don't have to always be strong. Allow yourself time to grieve. That sweet baby girl is now your perfect angel. Much love to you and your family at this difficult time.
I have delayed posting as well, for fear of not posting the right thing, or not posting something good enough. So I have decided that I will just go with it and type what comes.
I joined the July club a few months ago, and mostly through lurking, I have "Gotten to know" a lot of you. Reading about your struggles, and all of the emotional days you've had to endure, have completely changed me as a person. For the better. I can't even begin to imagine how you have managed to stay so strong, and so positive, but I know that you, for myself and everyone else on here, have become someone that we can admire, and someone to look up to. I can only hope, that if I were ever to be in the same sort of situation, I could handle it like you did. You are stronger than you could ever know, and have affected more people than you will probably ever know. What an amazing gift of life you have given, if even for a short time, and what an amazing angel you have gained. Sending all of my thoughts and prayers.
Re: +++Stay Positive for Bora and Madeleine+++
Mommy to R (8.23.11) and K (6.21.14).
Systemic Lupus Erythematosus
TTC Post Chemotherapy
Unexplained Infertility
DH- SA Normal, Lap on 8/8/13
BFP! 11/7/13 EDD 07/15/14 changed to 07/23/14 after first u/s
My Ovulation Chart
I pray you know how much of an effect you have on people you don't even know! I also pray that your healing will be just at the pace you need it. Your heart is gorgeous, please remind yourself of that daily. Or I can, I don't mind a bit!
Many things have been said about you already, and I just can't add enough words to show how much of a strong being you are. I look up to you! You are one special woman, and the support you showed to all throughout these past months was just amazing. Thank you for being you!
We have our "Irish Twins"
DD born 8/7/2013
DS born 7/28/14
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DD born 7.27.2014
BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
Words cannot express how sorry I am. You have been so strong and awe-inspiring these past few months. Madeleine knew so much love in her little life and she was so lucky to have you as a mom. Continued thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
I pray that both of you will be surrounded by peace and love.