This check in is for anyone on this board to participate in and will occur every Wednesday. If you are new here and haven't made a separate intro on the main board please do so before checking in so we can "meet" you! It's easy to do just click the new discussion button in the top right and post away.
For the 40+ers out there, I've decided to discontinue the Thursday ladies over 40 check-in so we can have all posts together on one thread. Many were posting in both places so I just feel like it makes better sense to go back to keeping everyone together. However, I've added a few things I loved from the 40+ check in (shout out and weekly vent) as optional components (:
Also, just a reminder that we've got a new grad check-in on the board. So happy that we'll have a place for our graduates to return to so they don't have to completely leave us. Thanks to
@tlc35 for being the leader.
1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Bonus Round (optional):
- Shout Out - Want to give a special shout out this week to someone from our board (or even a non-bumpie if applicable)? Just put their screen name and a little message.
- Weekly Vent - Go ahead, vent on one thing that is really irking you this week, promise you will feel better after.
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food?
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44
- Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"


Re: Weekly Check In - (6/11/14)
1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from. Kelley in Georgia
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? 2nd cycle ttc 6, 2nd for my dh
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? charting cp, cf, started temping but I think the new therm. I broke is messing up! dang
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww? I'm 6 dpo... I might *test Sunday just bc it's Father's Day but it would be very surprising to get a + first bc we only had intercourse once during best fertile days and I've never tested +
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) Ok, just trying to get used to temping/charting again without reading into every tiny thing. Aggravated about the thermometer, waste of $.
Shout Out - All the recent grads!!! When I was ttc last time very few women were conceiving and it was disheartening... now I just feel hopeful and so excited for the other ladies!
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food? Southern favorites: Fried chicken, biscuits, mashed potatoes, mac n cheese, green beans =yummy!
edited to add ttc info
2. #1 since 2009, with RE since 2012
3. IVF #3
4. ER was yesterday. We retrieved 8 eggs and this afternoon we will receive our fert report. We are really leaning towards banking again and doing another retrieval to get more. But first we'll see what they report back to us on egg maturity and fertilization.
5. I felt really good on this new protocol and feel I had a very good response. Also, feel I can do it again so I can get more eggs out of my ovaries. All these happy feelings may come crushing down when I get the actual results today, but for now I'm happy.
Shout Out - @thirtyninetoforty, so proud and excited for you for going after what you want in life. Though I'm sure it is not easy at times to be going it alone, but I'm sure it will be so worth it in the end.
Weekly Vent - Saw my sister over the weekend and she was in a pissy mood like she was unhappy with me. I had to leave her daughters ballet recital a little early because of another commitment. That is I'm sure what she is annoyed at. As well, she has no idea I was in the midst of cycling again and I just wanted to tell her leave me the f alone you have no idea what I'm going through. But I didn't and now I'm sure I'll have to smooth out her ruffled feathers. Why can't you ladies be my sisters, lol.
QOTW: Yesterday to treat myself after ER I had one of my favorite comfort foods that were frozen in my freezer waiting for me. My MIL makes these little appetizers made out of mashed yuca (like a potato) with cheese stuffed inside which are then deep fried. She had made me some awhile back and I froze a bunch for a later date. Sooooo goooood, but soooooo bad for me.
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"
2. TTC #1 since beginning of year.
3. Hoping to do the IVF cycle, if AF would ever show up!
4. Waiting for AF to show up...
5. Frustrated!
Bonus Round (optional):
Me: 43, DOR FI: 44, SA normal
TTC Since Nov 2013
01/2014: Meeting with RE to discuss options
02/2014: Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
03/2014: on the bench
05/2014: meeting with RE to discuss Donor IVF options
09/2014 - IVF#1 - converted to IUI - BFN
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? TTC #1 since March
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
charting and temping
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
2ww. I'm 4dpo. No real phantom symptoms yet but I just want to test now!
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
I am all over the place. Anxious but hopeful. I'm worried that I'm too hopeful and will be crushed by a bfn.
Bonus Round (optional):
Shout out to @privateone and @beckyP005 for always being supportive to everyone. Hoping both of you get great new on your cycle.
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food?
Doughnuts and potatoes
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
3. Just charting for the time being.
4. Well, I am in the 2WW, CD27 and I am either 13 or 11 DPO because I'm not sure exactly when I O'd this month. I've tested on CD days 22, 24, and 25 and I'm holdingout until tomorrow to test on CD28 which will be my official test to determine if I was successful or not. I've been feeling very light cramps and have totally psyched myself out to thinking that it's a symptom of a BFP and not a symptom of overeating or AF's arrival.
5. I'm anxious. I just want to know already if I am successful or not so I can focus on next months schedule.
Bonus Round (optional):
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food?
1. Becky from PA
2. Started with RE 4/11
3. DE FET #1
4. 2ww probably testing day before beta 4/17
5. I'm so scared.
Shout out to @JimBobCooter!! Hoping for better days ahead
QOTW: Mac n cheese plus all that good food @kelley72 mentioned!!
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"
Omg I thought the same thing I was like noo!! Aww sorry their dog died but hoping this one creates many fun memories too!!
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
BFP #1: 12/05/2012; EDD 08/09/2013; MC 01/2013 (missed, D&C)
BFP #2: 12/19/2013; EDD 08/25/2014; MC 01/2014 (natural)
Hard job right? Haha. Even though I bitch every time we go (need to bring xanax with me) I LOVE it there. Would never be able to afford going. Problem is they are all snobby (guests that stay with us) and my wardrobe sucks right now especially what they wear and I hate shopping and plus not like I have all this extra $ on hand. Guess I really need to buckle down and start eating healthier.
One year I posted on here every other day to complain about these wackos lol. That was my saving grace!! Blah....
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Margaret from Michigan
TTC#1 since June 2012
I just completed a medicated cycle (Gonal F and Ovidril) for an IUI on 6/6. Also continuing acupuncture treatments and taking Chinese herbs and natural supplements.
I'm 4DPO.
I do not feel good about this cycle. the FW came and went to quickly and my DH and I couldn't get the timing down for BD. Plus, the screw-up with the first IUI being cancelled really threw us off. I continue to hope and pray. If this cycle doesn't work, I really should move on to IVF and find a new RE.
Big shout out to all of you amazing and supportive women on this board. You're the best!!
No additional vents than the one I mentioned above.
QOTW: mac and cheese for sure!! If anyone has a killer recipe, please post!!
TTC#1 since June 2012
Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA
BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14
IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN
On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15. Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F. Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.
On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
@PrivateOne, FX for a fabulous fert report today!
@SillySally24, hoping AF gets it together and shows up soon.
@tlc35, hope the rest of the 2WW goes by quickly--and, of course, that you get your bfp!
@mamabear904, hope your test tomorrow is good news
@beckyp005, I have everything it's possible to cross crossed for your beta
@lesliem0901, good luck! I hope you're pleasantly surprised in a week or so.
1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
Davie813, Chicago
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC #2, 6th cycle
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Charting, temperature, acupuncture, too many supplements. When AF comes, DH and I are heading off the get the last tests we need for RE referral.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
10 dpo. If my temperature looks promising, I'll test Friday. Otherwise, feh. Why bother?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Not hopeful. My chart had been looking pretty good until my temp plummeted yesterday. It partially recovered today, but I think that's more about being up until 3:30 with DD than anything else. And I'm having some ominous cramps.
Bonus Round (optional):
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food?
My go-to meal when things are really bad is red wine and a fried egg sandwich. Yes, that's bizarre.
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
Can't you see my screen name? Ohio
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC#2 (but more of a "see what happens") x6 cycles
3. What are you doing this cycle?
Just counting cycle days for now. The plan changes next month if we still have a BFN
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
O towards the end of this week
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Anxious. Debating if this is really the right time
Eh, we're doing a no-carb diet right now. Any sort of carbs are AWESOME. Seriously, I would kill for a plate of pasta right now.
**siggy warning**
Current Age 35, DH 33
Married 9/2011
BFP 8/2012, Miscarried 9/2012
BFP 9/2012, DS 6/2013
BFP 6/2014, Miscarried 7/2014
BFP 7/2014, DD 4/2015
1. URMySunshine77 from Northern California
2. TTC#2 for three months
3. Temping, charting, PNV, some acupuncture
4. CD6. My period just ended.
5. I do not feel hopeful because DH will be on travel during my usual ovulation day, CD17. Some of you may have seen my thread, but my LP extended last month, so FF extended my expected O day to CD19. DH will be back that morning, but I'm not convinced that I will O later than usual.
QOTW: My favorite comfort foods would have to be pizza and mashed potatoes with cheese and sour cream. A SF pizzeria called "Escape from NY Pizza" has a great pie with pesto, sliced potatoes, and cloves of baked garlic. It is to die for.
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
My Ovulation Chart
TTC#1 since June 2012
Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA
BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14
IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN
On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15. Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F. Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.
On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
2. TTC#1 Since Nov 2012
3. Stupid diet. Need to lose 15 more lbs to have my first IUI.
4. CD20, ttw
5. Not much feeling really. Just feeling disappointed lately.
Bonus Round (optional):
QOTW: This is a horrible question for me right now but I'm gonna answer it anyway. I love mac & cheese beyond reason. I make a killer version and by god I want some right this second! Second is yellow cake with chocolate frosting. Oh lord, I better go eat some baby carrots to sooth this craving!
Me: 40 DH: 38
TTC since November 2012
Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!
PS - would love for you to share your mac and cheese recipe only if it doesn't trigger you to eat unhealthy.
TTC#1 since June 2012
Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA
BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14
IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN
On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15. Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F. Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.
On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.
My Ovulation Chart
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
@URMySunshine77 that so stinks
We will just have to keep your mind off of him not being home!!
@Soontobeshrader like Leslie mentioned...we are here for you!! @efhoping2010 sorry your cycle got pushed back
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
1. Paige from PA
2. #1 since January
3. RE, temping, clomid, steroid, vit/min++, IUI with donor sperm (2nd attempt)
4. CD 10 - go to RE on Friday to see if any activity to try again this month
5. I really didn't think anything would happen last cycle and it didn't but I feel oddly hopeful about this one
Bonus Round (optional):
QOTW: anything sweet - cake, ice cream, candy...
TTC #1 with IUI and donor sperm
First IUI May, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
Third IUI Dec, 2014, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = BFN
Fourth IUI Feb 2015, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = C/P
**** siggy warning - bfp & loss **** ---- All Welcome ---
Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)
IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
IVF #2: Apr '14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
IVF #3: June '14 ... Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
Currently benched while determining how to proceed.
"Keep going until you can't fail"
@BeckyP005 - I can only imagine how nervous you are. Fingers and toes crossed for the 17th!
1. Cara in FL
2. TTC #2 for 1 1/2 years
3. This is a natural cycle with temping and acupuncture. We are also starting on the IVF prereqs.
4. I'm in the middle of the 2ww. I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated. FF says one thing; I think a day or two later. My acupuncturist agrees with me. No phantom symptoms, not even the tender to the touch breasts I usually have the second half of my cycle. (I do have this stabbing pain pretty regularly in my breasts, though. Its weird.)
5. Weirdly enough, I started off this cycle feeling hopeful for no apparent reason. We timed things pretty well and my temps are still high (approx 7 dpo), so that's good. But, frankly, it seems unlikely that lightning would strike twice and we'd get pregnant again on an unmedicated cycle.
Bonus Round (optional):
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food? Pasta with red sauce or a peanutbutter and banana sandwich, depending on my mood.
Doing this on my iPhone while we just DTD.
I am from Brooklyn ny
TTC1 since summer 2013 and counting the months the timing was right this is cycle 5.
Temping charting CM and cervix feeling, acupuncture, ferity tea, Arvigo maya abdominal massage. Cut out ice cream mostly and drinking a lot. I took basic robitissen a few days before O.
Today is cd22 or possibly 2dpo. I am in a different time zone and working crazy hours plus drinking wine with coworkers so my temp went up drastically but I can't tell if it really did.
Luckily my DH is with me on this biz trip yay!
Feeling good bc we got the timing right.
Shoutout to @tatumami I hope the gallbladder surgery recovery is getting easier. I feel like we bonded having that one cycle buddy together.
Vent is my boss was laid off today in a restructuring plan!!!!!!! I'm now on vacation till Monday so when I go back I will be reporting to someone in London! Not sure how it's going to be but I liked my boss a lot. I feel awful for her.
Love you ladies! Great organization on the posts by the way. Digging the grad posts.
Me: 40 DH: 38
TTC since November 2012
Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
2. Trying for 1 year, working with an RE since 2/2014
3. What are you doing this cycle? Temping, charting, Clomid, trigger shot, ultrasound, IUI, FX & prayers! Ha!
4. Where are you in your cycle?
CD 6
5. How do you feel about this cycle?
Feeling like we had our best shot this month. FF says I O'd last fri (DTD so hopefully we are covered) and had my IUI last Saturday. I think I want to move onto IVF if this didn't work, but I'm hopeful this could have happened.
Shout out: @kristenAlecia I understand about the move thing. MH just put in for a transfer and if he gets it we will be going to denver. Scary!
Vent: My boss, can't stand her! She does these stupid power trips, micro manages me and it drives me nuts. I think I'm going to start looking for a new job. I've had enough.
QOTW:
Comfort dinner food ~~soup from this hole in the wall soup place. It always makes me think of Seinfeld, and the soup is to die for!!! We nickname him "the soup Nazi", but he's actually wicked sweet!
Ciara from Indiana
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC #1 since 11/13
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Went to a doctor. Talked about "the plan". Will be getting blood work done next cycle. DH bought one of those at home sperm tests and the number is there. It was kind of funny when we did the test. Then I told the doc and she has never heard of such tests (lol). Apparently it's cheaper to just get it done at the clinic! But it wasn't about the cost...
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
Waiting to O (on Sunday), but DH is on a "guys weekend", so we're missing the 2 days before playtime
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Meh, see above.
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We're both healthy, fit, young - shouldn't it just HAPPEN already?!?! LOL. *sigh*@URMySunshine77, @Davie813, @PrivateOne - thanks for keeping the conversation flowing and continual contribution and support!
QOTW: What is your favorite comfort food?