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Myaflowers
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WWYD Plans & DD's schedule
Myaflowers
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OK, I'll try to keep this short, but I'm not good at getting to the point. 
Anyway, DH has a friend whom he has known for years but we haven't seen them since before DD was born because they live about 1 hr and 15 min from us. Before we had DD we would get together occasionally (maybe 1 x per year). His wife is nice but we are not close. DH also used to be friends with the wife. They have 2 kids, ages 8 and 4.
Anyway, DH has a friend whom he has known for years but we haven't seen them since before DD was born because they live about 1 hr and 15 min from us. Before we had DD we would get together occasionally (maybe 1 x per year). His wife is nice but we are not close. DH also used to be friends with the wife. They have 2 kids, ages 8 and 4.DH and this friend are both into Hockey, which is a big deal because we live in Alabama, where no one is into hockey! With the Stanley Cup finals going on (and DH and friend's second favorite team playing), they are wanting to get together Friday night at friend's house to watch the game (if there is one). DH is home with DD on Friday while I work, so he would take DD over there in the afternoon, and I would drive over there after work (at least an hour with traffic). I would probably get there around 6:30 and would leave around 8:00 after dinner.
I would then head home with DD, who would sleep all the way home in the car and would be up until probably 12:30 or 1:00.Her usual bedtime is 10:00 but if she naps after 3:00 pm, she won't go down until much later. Last night, she was up until 11:30 after a 30 minute nap at 3:30. DH would stay behind to finish watching the game.
None of this sounds fun to me, but I'd probably just deal with DD's schedule being messed up except that I've already committed to hang out with my BFF (who has a 1 year old DD and I haven't seen since the fall) on Saturday, so we won't be able to sleep in much if DD is up half the night due to a late 1 hour car nap on Friday night.
I really want to tell DH to go to his friend's house without us and maybe we could go over there on a Saturday sometime soon. For some reason I feel guilty even though I know the who thing would be no fun at all for me.
WWYD? Thanks in advance and thanks for reading my novel! Also, I'm not sure if I mentioned this, but DD is 16.5 months old.
Also, I'm not sure if I mentioned this, but DD is 16.5 months old. ETA: XP on Jan '13
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Re: WWYD Plans & DD's schedule
Not sure if you have made your mind up yet, but I also say stay home.
Maybe you can skip your lunch break and leave an hour early (from work) so your H can get on the road a bit earlier to see his friend?
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12