Here's my FFFC. Most mornings I wake up and find myself rubbing DH penis... I can't help it! I am just drawn to it. Sounds like every man's dream right? Except I really have NO interest in having sex it's just a reaction I have in the mornings. Sometimes, I have pity sex cause I feel bad that I got him all excited..... BUUUUTTT many times I don't ... poor guy! I really do feel bad, but there is NO way I am having morning sex every day!!!!
@ineedmorecoffee Congrats! Just remember that tomorrow, when everything is underway, you'll be way to involved to think about the break out. Enjoy your day!!
Lisaren's comment about her naughty phone stuffs made me think of the confession I was going to post last week but forgot about. DH is always, always in the mood these days. Apparently my pregnancy hormones have him turned on instead of me. Mostly, I could take it or leave it, but if he's willing to put in the effort, I'll go along with things. Unfortunately, he has three crushed discs in his back so sometimes he just hurts to much and just wants his jollies with out the added effort, which I totally get. So he grabs the iPad and we watch porn for a little bit. Laziest foreplay ever, lol.
Here's my FFFC. Most mornings I wake up and find myself rubbing DH penis... I can't help it! I am just drawn to it. Sounds like every man's dream right? Except I really have NO interest in having sex it's just a reaction I have in the mornings. Sometimes, I have pity sex cause I feel bad that I got him all excited..... BUUUUTTT many times I don't ... poor guy! I really do feel bad, but there is NO way I am having morning sex every day!!!!
Lmao I do the exact same thing ! I think my mind is telling me yes but my body is not aware. My DH tells me I'm looking for trouble
@MrsAdventure- my husband has a bad back too (surgery after two herniated discs were healing and then re-injured, now scar tissue spiderwebbed into the nerve) so I totally get what you're saying. That's why my 4 words to describe how I got pregnant were "you don't wanna know" haha!
I totally just pissed my DH off. He wanted to have a shower, but wanted me to come and 'visit'. This really only means one thing. I fucking hate shower sex. I always end up freezing and it just doesn't turn me on. And honestly, it can be painful. He knows I don't like it and he knows the reasons. I will do it every so often because he likes it but he goes through phases where it's all he wants. It's super frustrating and I hate it so much. And now I totally feel bad. Ass.
@MrsAdventure- my husband has a bad back too (surgery after two herniated discs were healing and then re-injured, now scar tissue spiderwebbed into the nerve) so I totally get what you're saying. That's why my 4 words to describe how I got pregnant were "you don't wanna know" haha!
I'm in the same boat. My hubby had spine surgery to fuse two vertebrae using his rib and it failed. So now he has a gap between them and they'll pinch his nerves. They now want to do a 7 layer fusion, but that's a lot at 26 years old. Sucks though because sex hurts him and I have a really high sex drive even when I'm not pregnant. He always jokes about me getting a guy on the side to keep me satisfied in that area.
@Maelara I'm the opposite. I am short so shower sex is damn near impossible... and if not impossible, very awkward. And I love shower sex...
Lol! I'm not short so it's not a problem but I hate being that cold. It's a complete buzz kill for me. It also gets more uncomfortable the more pregnant you get.
@tugglek23 That sounds terrible for your poor DH! Also, DH told me they are doing new things with disc replacement technology. Something so new only 3 drs in the US are experimenting with it now. That kind of fusion at 26 sounds so extreme, and I can't even imagine the pain he's in, but I'd say keep holding out if possible. We are really hoping that future generations of the new technology will help DH someday. Sorry I'm not being more specific. DH told me about it a few months back and I'm struggling to remember, and think he was a little vague to begin with.
My DH is only 30, was first injured at 28. It's hard for people that young to have back pain because their bodies feel so old.
Shower sex it's the one scenario in which being taller than my husband is very beneficial. It's not my favorite, but I'll oblige without too much convincing.
I really don't get the shower sex. I'm bent over, water is getting in my face and my eyes, everything is slippery, there are parts of me that are getting cold....I can't do it.
dh and i have only had shower sex a handful of times. most of those times were on our honeymoon in a big ass awesome shower. i think we're both too clumsy and would kill ourselves lol.
TW*** Child and loss mentioned Married 10/12 DS 11/14 Ectopic 2/16 PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16 IUI x 3- BFN Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos FET- 6/17- BFP! Due Feb 15, 2017
@Lizzielu82 I was feeling the same way but towards ds too last night! Not in the fact I wish I didnt have him but more the responsibility. I told his dad Id be home the latest 8:15 and I get the 'when are u coming home' text at 8:05. He has taken him overnight once in the past 4 years.
@Wicked22 Me too! I think because of how irresponsible ds' dad is Id just rather do it alone. I know this ones dad will be different but Im just sick of the half ass parenting I get. The 'ill play with him, give him a bath, buy lemonade, but im done at that responsibility' crap
Re: FFFC
Lisaren's comment about her naughty phone stuffs made me think of the confession I was going to post last week but forgot about. DH is always, always in the mood these days. Apparently my pregnancy hormones have him turned on instead of me. Mostly, I could take it or leave it, but if he's willing to put in the effort, I'll go along with things. Unfortunately, he has three crushed discs in his back so sometimes he just hurts to much and just wants his jollies with out the added effort, which I totally get. So he grabs the iPad and we watch porn for a little bit. Laziest foreplay ever, lol.
My DH is only 30, was first injured at 28. It's hard for people that young to have back pain because their bodies feel so old.
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
@Wicked22 Me too! I think because of how irresponsible ds' dad is Id just rather do it alone. I know this ones dad will be different but Im just sick of the half ass parenting I get. The 'ill play with him, give him a bath, buy lemonade, but im done at that responsibility' crap