That's why I said that maybe my comment about it being disrespectful if both parties are okay with it should be void.
I would love to provide you with a statistic of what percentage of performers are forced into it, but there isn't one. Why would the people who illegally force them into it provide that information? All we can go off of are the numbers of the survivors who speak out about it. You can google it and lots of links come up. The number is alarming. And to think that there are still people being abused that we don't know about on top of the ones who speak out!
So you make ASSumptions about porn being bad because people are forced into it but yet you have no idea how many people are actually forced into it? Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
Are you lumping all global sex work in as "porn"? Because it seems like you're pretty ill informed on this topic beyond "It's bad because I say so!"
Six years of infertility and loss, four IUIs, one IVF and one very awesome little boy born via med-free birth 10.24.13.
That's why I said that maybe my comment about it being disrespectful if both parties are okay with it should be void.
I would love to provide you with a statistic of what percentage of performers are forced into it, but there isn't one. Why would the people who illegally force them into it provide that information? All we can go off of are the numbers of the survivors who speak out about it. You can google it and lots of links come up. The number is alarming. And to think that there are still people being abused that we don't know about on top of the ones who speak out!
So you make ASSumptions about porn being bad because people are forced into it but yet you have no idea how many people are actually forced into it? Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
Are you lumping all global sex work in as "porn"? Because it seems like you're pretty ill informed on this topic beyond "It's bad because I say so!"
Just because I don't know how many people are forced into it doesn't mean people aren't forced into it. I never said I knew how many people there were. I said there were a lot. If you read the stories online, you'll agree with me: there are a lot. Add that number, whatever it is, to the number of people still being abused, and you'll get a grand total of a lot. There are no statistics on it, simply because it isn't available. But there is proof.
That's why I said that maybe my comment about it being disrespectful if both parties are okay with it should be void.
I would love to provide you with a statistic of what percentage of performers are forced into it, but there isn't one. Why would the people who illegally force them into it provide that information? All we can go off of are the numbers of the survivors who speak out about it. You can google it and lots of links come up. The number is alarming. And to think that there are still people being abused that we don't know about on top of the ones who speak out!
So you make ASSumptions about porn being bad because people are forced into it but yet you have no idea how many people are actually forced into it? Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
Are you lumping all global sex work in as "porn"? Because it seems like you're pretty ill informed on this topic beyond "It's bad because I say so!"
Just because I don't know how many people are forced into it doesn't mean people aren't forced into it. I never said I knew how many people there were. I said there were a lot. If you read the stories online, you'll agree with me: there are a lot. Add that number, whatever it is, to the number of people still being abused, and you'll get a grand total of a lot. There are no statistics on it, simply because it isn't available. But there is proof.
I'm not saying that people aren't forced into it...but I'm now questioning this because you are getting your facts from stories online...
DH and I pull out the old porn DVD's every now and then. I'm ashamed to say I got really into one of the story lines one time (when I was by myself) and wanted to fast forward through some of the sex scenes. Eep!
@shanbp I know DH has watched porn, and maybe he has since we've been married (5 years). I know he doesn't have any movies, and we don't have Cinemax. He doesn't get any magazines.
He would tell me if he did because it doesn't bother me. If it was a situation like @karissa2009 experienced with a porn addiction, that would be a different story.
Honestly, I don't even know when he would look at porn unless it was on his phone while driving on the freeway to or from work.
He does masturbate, I'm sure of that.
I suggested we watch the pirate porn movie recommended by @flitterin and he just laughed. I told him I was serious but I think he believes I'm just teasing.
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Are you lumping all global sex work in as "porn"? Because it seems like you're pretty ill informed on this topic beyond "It's bad because I say so!"
Are you lumping all global sex work in as "porn"? Because it seems like you're pretty ill informed on this topic beyond "It's bad because I say so!"
Just because I don't know how many people are forced into it doesn't mean people aren't forced into it. I never said I knew how many people there were. I said there were a lot. If you read the stories online, you'll agree with me: there are a lot. Add that number, whatever it is, to the number of people still being abused, and you'll get a grand total of a lot. There are no statistics on it, simply because it isn't available. But there is proof.
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...and the freak circle is complete.
He would tell me if he did because it doesn't bother me. If it was a situation like @karissa2009 experienced with a porn addiction, that would be a different story.
Honestly, I don't even know when he would look at porn unless it was on his phone while driving on the freeway to or from work.
He does masturbate, I'm sure of that.
I suggested we watch the pirate porn movie recommended by @flitterin and he just laughed. I told him I was serious but I think he believes I'm just teasing.
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