Even little details such as I had a boy/girl in month/year could be a way for those crazies to identify some of us and it wouldn't be good.
Great, so basically you're bringing a virus to our board. Awesome. Why not stay in your social group until you guys feel safe?
No, do you not read? They were already here apparently. We did not know. We came here to escape
Why the hell are you getting nasty? My point is that if they are here and you are trying to hide from them, or if you are trying to hide from anyone, perhaps you guys should stay off public boards and stay in your private group for a bit.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Omg FFS this is getting old real quick. Working graveyard I've read all the newb threads ( pages and pages of crap!) Entertaining at first now just one big yawn fest! :-S
------> Side note @hercules03 is my snark hero! Most entertainment all night. (((Many creepy internet hugs)))
It was the post on BBC yesterday that essentially said "Yo, we are moving to the bump." If you wanted to ditch the BBC crazy, that probably wasn't the best strategy.
That post was actually made by a bumpie, not us.
There were multiple posts. I thought the first one was by a BBCer based on the "banned" part of the SN. I could be wrong, that has happened before.
By a bumpie making that post...then you all kinda unleashed the crazy on yourselves then.
Nope, there were multiple posts but they were all the same person from here. Just saying we didn't make a post announcing we were here.
Not sure since for some reason I can't seem to see anyone's activity. Either way lurker or not, we had no idea to know they were here and would start shit.
I'm pretty sure the crazies that came out yesterday only came because of the initial migration. Some of them may have had TN or TB accounts from ages ago but they weren't using them. They for sure weren't posting until yesterday, but there's no way to know if they were lurking.
I don't blame anyone for bringing the assholes over, although Herc's post on BC probably alerted them to your whereabouts. I think she was just messing around and didn't know that it would start all of this. At least I hope that's the case.
Link pleeeeeease!
**Warning: Losses and living child mentioned** BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy. BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you. BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13Myrainbowbaby!
Not sure since for some reason I can't seem to see anyone's activity. Either way lurker or not, we had no idea to know they were here and would start shit.
I'm pretty sure the crazies that came out yesterday only came because of the initial migration. Some of them may have had TN or TB accounts from ages ago but they weren't using them. They for sure weren't posting until yesterday, but there's no way to know if they were lurking.
I don't blame anyone for bringing the assholes over, although Herc's post on BC probably alerted them to your whereabouts. I think she was just messing around and didn't know that it would start all of this. At least I hope that's the case.
Link pleeeeeease!
BBC deleted. Full on lockdown over there.
"Everyone has to have a taint. It is anatomically required."-Vork in The Guild
Just because some of us have reason to be cautious doesn't mean we shouldn't get to participate. Just that's the reason not much info was given. I'm only trying to provide some insight to why some people may not share some information. You guys are annoyed with newb threads, we get it. but this is getting a bit outta hand. No one was trying to be rude on either side.
To answer a few questions, I was unaware of any BBC post directing people here. That place is for the birds, imo. Secondly, I have no reason to hide from anybody. Again, I wouldn't have announced myself if that was the case. And lastly, anal is not a position. I'm just speculating here, but I'm guessing it can be achieved in nearly any of the same positions as traditional P in V intercourse.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
I planned on making my way around the board but as Meghan said, the navigation is pretty whack. Are you waiting for me to try to prove myself here? Because my effort in doing that is likely not going to happen.
I think instead of rolling in and just asking where all your BBC friends, you could act like you want to integrate into TB. (collective you). It seems that pretty much everyone from BBC has come in asking where all the other BBCer's are. It's just perpetuating an us vs. them mentality instead of more joining into our already (well) established group.
Do you (BBCer's) not understand that all of us bumpies have been posting together for over a year now? So yeah, when you come and in and are trying to turn this into your group it's going to rub people the wrong way.
@ClaireFraser said it best. Kind of like when the baby buzzers tried to take over.
BTW Claire, are you in Houston?
ETA: how funny is it that the Baby center peeps are worried about stalkers and I'm asking about your location. Ha.
It was the post on BBC yesterday that essentially said "Yo, we are moving to the bump." If you wanted to ditch the BBC crazy, that probably wasn't the best strategy.
Well I most certainly didn't post that..I am blacklisted
We have a social group, but we are here to join the board. We are not trolls. We are participating with everyone, this thread was just a place to find each other too.
And I think I REALLY dig that you guys are all funny/witty/snark without being over the top obnoxious mean. We had an awesome snark level during pregnancy over at BBC, then post baby-ing (that's a verb) it all got creepily mean and weird.
My approach at integrating into the group through identifying the people I know was not to your liking. That is ok. Why make such a big stink about it? Your countermeasure was not all that effective.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
And I think I REALLY dig that you guys are all funny/witty/snark without being over the top obnoxious mean. We had an awesome snark level during pregnancy over at BBC, then post baby-ing (that's a verb) it all got creepily mean and weird.
My approach at integrating into the group through identifying the people I know was not to your liking. That is ok. Why make such a big stink about it? Your countermeasure was not all that effective.
Because you did it in a way that caught people off guard and made them feel disrespected, especially during a time where we don't know WTF is going on. We just experienced a random influx of people and we have no idea when and if we are being trolled by said individuals. Our community has been experiencing a ton of abnormal drama and so it's only normal for members to close in on each other and be a bit skeptical.
I seriously think you need to let go of it at this point. If you want to integrate, participate on the board and get to know people, including non-BBCers.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14. TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
We have a social group, but we are here to join the board. We are not trolls. We are participating with everyone, this thread was just a place to find each other too.
Hi, new friend!
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Heeeeeey! Now, were you one of the pie haters? Cause I love pie. Pie and wine were my dessert last night.. YUM.
Re: Oh hai, I go here now.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
------> Side note @hercules03 is my snark hero! Most entertainment all night. (((Many creepy internet hugs)))
(And that's my last comment about this site design. promise)
J/k Is it really that serious? LOL Didn't know I had to disclose my life before I posted.
BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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BBC deleted. Full on lockdown over there.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
C&P because none of the buttons work for me.
But... doesn't this statement kind of go against y our entire argument...? A chat thread. That's exactly what this was intended to be.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Kind of like when the baby buzzers tried to take over.
BTW Claire, are you in Houston?
ETA: how funny is it that the Baby center peeps are worried about stalkers and I'm asking about your location. Ha.
Once I figure out how to bump.... consider it done.
I am attempting to integrate.
I said this days ago.....
You're not.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
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Heeeeeey!
Now, were you one of the pie haters? Cause I love pie. Pie and wine were my dessert last night.. YUM.