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  • iJustCant10iJustCant10 member
    Ok here's my bitch...
    Friday night DH and I decided to have a fire outside after the baby went to sleep. After an hour and a half our friend Brent and his girlfriend came over. We were all sitting and just casually talking... Nothing loud or anything to suggest "party".
    Well I went inside to get a drink and as I came back out I see a girl and guy walking into my yard. I realize who they are and I'm just like ok whatever. As long as they're not loud.
    The girl then asks to use my bathroom and I kindly said I would rather she didn't since the baby is sleeping and you can hear EVERY SINGLE FOOTSTEP everywhere in the house. She understood and said she would go across the street to her friend's house.
    Well, up walks said friend who also asks to use the bathroom. I told her the same thing I told the other girl. Well this one had a huge attitude and was all "fine I'll just go back to my house. I didn't know it'd be such a big deal". I just let it go. I don't feel like arguing with a drunk person lol.
    Well the next day I am told that she was talking all sorts of crap about me for the rest of the night saying things like "oh she just think she's better than everyone" and "I have a kid, I know how it works. She's just a dumb bitch"...
    All because I wouldn't let you use my bathroom so my 3 month old didn't wake up from drunk ass girls?? All of this after you were JUST calling me saying you needed to come see the baby?
    Ugh. I'm not going to say anything to her because it's really not worth my time, but it just reaffirms why I don't have many girlfriends. YOU LIVE ACROSS THE STREET!! I did not ask you to come over!! Not my problem you didn't pee before coming over.
    People are just so immature and catty.
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  • ProudMommy030614ProudMommy030614 member
    FFwifey said:

    @shellsbells1980 did you tighten the leg gussets? I'm assuming you know that Charlie Bananas can tighten around the thigh for better fit. I have them too and have had no leaking problems... they're the best ones I have for containing everything. However, different diapers fit different babies best. Try tightening the leg gussets though and make sure you do the top up tight- my little guy is over 15lbs and we still do the top the tightest... maybe that's part of the problem if your little one is small?


    Everything I was going to say :)
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  • amholley1amholley1 member
    edited June 2014
    Pretty sure my BC is putting a stall in my weight loss. During the placebo week I am always drop like 4+ lbs by the end of that week. Once I start on my active pills again I gain it all back and stay 4+ lbs heavier till I'm on my period again. I should just stop it and go back to condoms (since I hate BCP anyway), but I'm scared of my endo coming back bringing the periods from hell.

    ETA: I am not calling myself fat, or am trying to make anyone feel bad. This is just the biggest I've been, and it makes me uncomfortable.



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  • twinlove314twinlove314 member
    scooter028 said:

    I thought after nine weeks, I'd be more comfortable with BFing positioning. I hate the boppy, the brest friend pillow, all throw pillows, etc. I've tried them forward, backward, and, sideways. None are working for me and I have a squirmer that also makes things uncomfortable. I usually just wear a nursing tank, but when I add a shirt on top it adds another annoyance because she constantly unlatches and the shirt will slide down the twenty times she does it. We still have latch issues so I'm trying to keep an eye on her but my shirt completely covers everything. Then LO usually settles in for an hour long marathon feeding and my dogs both sit at my feet starting at me. DH is also asking me stupid questions about some tv show I'm not paying attention to. I do the cradle, cross cradle, laid back, sitting up, and football holds. It's all just annoying the shit out of me for some reason. And this turned more into a general whine session than a BF, sorry.

    When I wear a nursing tank and a shirt, I tuck my shirt under the strap of my nursing bra. It keeps it from falling down when my boys unlatch :)
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  • wildhoney4508wildhoney4508 member
    WisconsinCheese12 said:

    We should have a feelings hurt thread, but I guess I can turn this into a bitch.
    My mom hasn't been here since lo was born, hasn't seen her since April 21st.
    I sent her Mother's Day present with my aunt and she gave it to her yesterday... We made her a really cute pot with lo's feet into butterflies on it.
    She didn't even text me or anything acknowledging she got it!
    I wish I would have kept it for myself.



    Hugs to you @WisconsinCheese12‌
    :(

    And yes, a feelings hurt thread would be nice...I could go on and on but then everyone would think I was so pathetic....and sensitive.... so wait, maybe not!?!
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  • Sanibel21Sanibel21 member
    Sore throat.

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  • amholley1amholley1 member
    @CaseAndDave‌ it's okay lady! I hope your day has gotten better and that you get some sleep. Muchos love to you.



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