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jenandbrettjenandbrett member
edited May 2014 in Late Term and Child Loss
Hello ladies, I have finally started commenting on this board and wanted to introduce myself before I go any further. I am including the links to where I shared my full story in my birth club below if anyone wants the full story, but we received the devastating news at our 20 week ultrasound that our son had no amniotic fluid surrounding him and after many tests, he was diagnosed with LUTO (a urinary tract obstruction), a hole in his heart, and Downs Syndrome. We were told he would not survive since he could not produce amniotic fluid and his lungs could not develop. 

I went into labor at 34 weeks and he lived for a little over 3 hours. He was born on April 27. Isaac Allen was beautiful and the time we had with him was precious. I miss him so much and hardly know how to go on right now, but without a doubt, I know this was God's plan for our lives. I know He will use this for His glory, but right now, I feel so lost most of the time. 

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Married May 2008 
Beautiful daughter Alyssa born April 23, 2011 
Precious son Isaac born at 34 weeks in April 27, 2014 with Potters Syndrome Type 4 and Down Syndrome - trusted into the arms of Jesus after 3 hours.
Pregnant again! Due August 8, 2015 please be healthy, little one!

  (results on 2/4/15 showed no Down's and it's a girl!) Lilypie Maternity tickers
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    ikrystalikrystal member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Your son is beautiful.  This board has been a tremendous support to me, and I know that the community will support you as well.  Lots of hugs and prayers to you and your family. 
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    luckyclover0922luckyclover0922 member
    So sorry for the loss of your son Issac. ((Hugs))

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    stefugestefuge member
    I am so sorry for your loss of your Isaac and that you find yourself here.  This is a group of strong, encouraging women, and we are here for you whenever you need us.
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    Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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    shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    I am so sorry for your loss of sweet Isaac

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    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
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    dadaloudadalou member
    I'm sorry for your loss of Isaac. I'm glad you have peace about the situation. We are here if you need us.
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    krice79krice79 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet boy.  Your strength and perspective are to be admired!
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    DevonBedfordDevonBedford member
    I'm so sorry for your loss :(

    Married August 20th, 2005 to the love of my life.

    1st BFP August 6th, 2010. Missed MC discovered at 13 weeks. 

    2nd BFP January 5th, 2011. Beautiful Harper born September 28th, 2011.

    3rd BFP March 15th, 2013. Treated with methotrexate for ectopic pg at 7 weeks.

    4th BFP August 2nd, 2013. Sweet Micah born sleeping at 21 weeks with full T13. 5th BFP July 1st, 2014. Praying for a healthy, full term rainbow!

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    LyndseyTSLyndseyTS member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear son Isaac.
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    jonahsmajonahsma member

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy issac allen

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    NoetholaNoethola member
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    So very sorry for your loss. Beautiful photos of your son Isaac. Big ((hugs))!
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    VyD81VyD81 member
    edited June 2014
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    I'm sorry for your loss of Isaac. 
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    jenandbrettjenandbrett member
    Thank you all so much. You are so wonderful
    Trigger Warning (LC and loss) -- 
    Married May 2008 
    Beautiful daughter Alyssa born April 23, 2011 
    Precious son Isaac born at 34 weeks in April 27, 2014 with Potters Syndrome Type 4 and Down Syndrome - trusted into the arms of Jesus after 3 hours.
    Pregnant again! Due August 8, 2015 please be healthy, little one!

      (results on 2/4/15 showed no Down's and it's a girl!) Lilypie Maternity tickers
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    hsabyanhsabyan member
    Isaac was beautiful and your story brought me to tears. I'm so sorry you didn't have more time with him, but you were truly blessed to have the time that you did. ((hugs))
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    Maybe JoleisaMaybe Joleisa member
    Your story brought me to tears, as well. Your strength is admirable. I'm so sorry for your loss of Isaac. ((hugs))

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    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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    Jellybean71514Jellybean71514 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of Isaac xo
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