I'm like in tears...you ladies are sooo brave! I've struggled with weight and body image my whole life. The only time I really liked my body was when I was pregnant. I'm not at all happy with where I'm at 4 1/2 months PP. I just feel fat. All of you look AMAZING!!!!
You ladies all look amazing! I don't post pics on here, but I'm not sure I could anyway.... I'm really not there yet with how I feel about my body. I am the first of all my friends, so they are not really in a place to understand yet. They are not mean, just not understanding..... I will get there I'm sure. I go out with LO allllll the time so it's not serious, just won't be in a bathing suit any time soon, or tight fitting tops. Seeing you ladies has helped me enormously. I'm very similar to a lot of you guys which gives me more confidence. It's difficult not being around any other mums and only slim ladies with perfect tight tums.
Also, I LOVE the pic someone posted about how you are a tiger and earnt every stripe (stretch mark) - I feel this couldn't be truer and will wear mine with pride! It helps that I have a husband who still finds me attractive thank goodness
I'm at least a month further out than most of you and he didn't fully cook, but I wanted to share just to show how crooked I am. See how my linea negra dips way to the left? If you saw me from the side that side has a definitive pooch whereas the other side looks flat because it has been pulled taut. It's so odd. This picture also is oddly more flattering than in person so don't think I have a flat stomach like it appears.
Everyone looks great! My bruise looks horrible and extends all the way down to my lady parts! Which hurt like hell also, this is worse than having a baby.
Here's mine. 11 weeks pp. I'm definitely struggling with my new body, but I'm trying to focus on regaining strength. The women on this board are so amazing!
I'm going to say it again: I love this thread. You ladies look amazing. Seeing all of you share your pics, despite your insecurities, makes me feel better about my own body and less insecure. Maybe I'll never look like I did when I was 18 ever again, but I have two beautiful babies and tiger stripes to prove it. Roar
And for a little laugh, I found this pic when I did a google image search for the earning your tiger stripes pic I posted earlier in the thread. I wish I could hug this woman:
I needed this thread, thank you! My stepdaughters have made some comments that have made me feel like crap so it's nice to feel supported. I know they're kids but still hurt. The 8yr old keeps asking when I'm going to get skinny again and the 11yr old laughed when I had DH's shirt on and makes a comment of how they use to be HUGE on me but now they fit me and how I use to be tiny and now I'm not :-/
Sorry for the vent. You all look so beautiful!!!!!
It's so nice to see how supportive everyone is! I've been lurking on this thread since it started, and trying to decide if I wanted to post or not. I'll be back to post in the morning (getting the twins topped off and ready for bed)
I am completely smitten with this thread - I have been checking it all day from work and it is very empowering and positive. I want to participate! In my time on TB (through 2 pregnancies and babies) I've never posted a picture of anything, me or my kids, but this makes me want to. Perhaps I will do a brief intro (many months late) and then figure out how to put my PP body up here on the interwebs.
You all look fierce and powerful. And those bodies made some beautiful babies
This is the second time I'm saying this, but honestly, you M14 ladies are amazing and beautiful and so supportive. I've been feeling awful since I can't fit into my pre-pregnancy clothes yet (9w pp) and wearing the same two yoga pants is getting annoying and I'm kind of dreading the warmer weather since I can't fit into any of my shorts, skirts, or dresses... but thanks for reminding me that we just had wonderful babies and they were worth it!
TTC #1 since 2007. Dx: Unexplained infertility. 4 IUIs in 2008 = BFN. IVF #1 07/09. DD #1 born April 2010 (40w5d). TTC #2 since 2011. Dx: Endometriosis and hypothyroidism. 2 FETs in 2012, BFP 6/12 but m/c @ 7 weeks. IVF #2 06/13. DD #2 born March 2014 (40w1d).
@Laura8388 full term or not, you made Ryker and your body has changed in some way. This is about reminding each other how beautiful that is! I don't care if you carried to 26 weeks or 45, a post partum body is a lovely thing.
I remember thinking last fall "I hope I don't get that weird dark line..."
When I look at it now I always smile! It reminds me of how powerful my body is. I created, protected and nurtured a beautiful little life-we all did and it's amazing!
Beautiful ladies! I love this thread, you all look amazing. I'm mobile so I can't play:(. But I did post a pic of my PP body (c section scar and all) wayyyyy back when only a few of us were moobs;). We are an awesome group of women and it's been such a great journey!
I'm so happy you made this thread. A few weeks ago I was told I still look like I have another one in there by my grandmother. My linea negra is still there and my tummy is very dark compared to the rest of my body (I'm African american). I only have a few shirts I can still fit since I have boobs now lol! love this thread and you ladies look awesome!!! I love my pp body! Maybe one day I'll share why but I'm not sure many people here would understand what I've been through.
As promised, 12 weeks pp with twins. Not pictured, crazy amount of stretch marks on my inner thighs that go all the way to where my knees bend. Oh well, if that's what it took to grow my healthy boys it's fine with me. Also, my belly button is still an outie (used to be an innie), not sure if it's going to stay that way
I love this thread ! I went back to work Tuesday and I've been so swamped getting into a new routine .so I'm playing TB catch up ! I'm super self conscience about my body and always have been . I struggled with a eating disorder in highschool , so embracing my new body has been an adjustment . I love the end result though and wouldn't change it for the world ! All you ladies are absolutely gorgeous !! This is my 11 week PP bod !
Being 6'1 has always been a struggle for me,growing up being teased was rough to say the least. The only time I have liked my height was when I was carrying my babies.
@desertmouse39 you look great! And your underwear is super cute
well thank you, that is very kind! i am so critical when i look in the mirror - but i guess we all are, hence the importance of this thread. you too can sport these undies care of Fruit of the Loom!
First off, you all look great and I truly admire your bravery for posting these pics! I have been in this thread about 10 times now trying to get up the courage to post a picture. Pre-pregnancy (even after my first) I was really fit. I've never been 'skinny' but I was in awesome shape and really worked for it. I lost the weight last time very quickly and have been feeling really bad about myself this time because regardless of how hard I'm working and how well I'm eating, it isn't coming off. So...here goes..this was 10 weeks pp. thank you ladies for giving me the courage to put it out there. And please excuse the mess!
I've been a bad girl and hanging out on FB more than here lately. I heard about this thread and hopped over. Since I looked at yours I figure I better share mine. This thread reminded me that this body made my Emma and I should love it. I've always been on the fluffy side. Now I'm running off to American Eagle to replace my size 10 shorts with 16s. Might as well embrace it, right?
Took this at 11.5 weeks pp. This picture doesn't show it well but my linea nigra is crazy dark! Thanks to all you women participating and being so supportive. This is an awesome thread!
Re: Post Partum Selfies!
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Also, I LOVE the pic someone posted about how you are a tiger and earnt every stripe (stretch mark) - I feel this couldn't be truer and will wear mine with pride! It helps that I have a husband who still finds me attractive thank goodness
Have the csection overhang too! But I wear my scar with pride! Everyone looks great! Way to celebrate our beautiful bodies!
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I wish I could hug this woman:
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I wish the energy from this thread could be transferred to the way our society feels about body image.
Emma Rose
Born 3.11.14
8lbs 14oz, 21.5 in
Sorry for the vent. You all look so beautiful!!!!!
TTC #1 since 2007. Dx: Unexplained infertility. 4 IUIs in 2008 = BFN. IVF #1 07/09. DD #1 born April 2010 (40w5d).
TTC #2 since 2011. Dx: Endometriosis and hypothyroidism. 2 FETs in 2012, BFP 6/12 but m/c @ 7 weeks. IVF #2 06/13. DD #2 born March 2014 (40w1d).
I remember thinking last fall "I hope I don't get that weird dark line..."
When I look at it now I always smile! It reminds me of how powerful my body is. I created, protected and nurtured a beautiful little life-we all did and it's amazing!
Having a sappy moment over here :x
17 weeks pp ... I'm a fluffy girl to begin with
11 weeks pp. I'll be all kinds of happy to have a waist again, not just a tube-like torso-ass that just runs into my thighs.
9w pp
11 weeks PP. Yes, I'm the silly girl who got hip tattoos at 19.
born March 8th, 2014 at 9:08pm
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
** BFP 2 : 01- 05-15 ** EDD 09-11-15 **
My h calls my stretch marks and cs scar his little buddy hahaha
And i apologize they have it so low i have to lower the undies.
Oh and ignore my clothes and dirty house.
Being 6'1 has always been a struggle for me,growing up being teased was rough to say the least. The only time I have liked my height was when I was carrying my babies.
39wks and 8wks PP