BFP!!!

SHN1113 · May 2014

Had 3 BFPs yesterday!!! Husbands more excited now but thought I was joking and told everyone he was with!! Confirmed with doc at urgent care. I am guessing I'm only 3-4 weeks along won't know for sure til I make OB appointment but they are all closed today for holiday! If my calculations are right I'll be due at the end of January

super super super excited!
I want to tell people but I'm afraid it's too soon. Also having cramping and gassiness. Is this normal?
This will be our first baby so brand new to all of it

MrsFreeman2010 · May 2014

Congrats and welcome! Sounds like normal symptoms so far. It's our first baby as well

SHN1113 · May 2014

Have you all told anyone yet?? I'm wondering if I should wait til 6 weeks?

lsangel304 · May 2014

Congrats! Yes very normal symptoms. I'm 4w4d and just found out a couple days ago as well. I told my husband and we decided to wait until 8 or 10 weeks to tell anyone else, primarily bc we had a loss 9 months ago and want to tell ppl when the chances are lower than something might happen. The wait is killer though!

IHeartScience · May 2014

Welcome and congrats!

MusicFanatic · May 2014

CrazyMonkeyBear said:

How about apologizing to TTGP for your drive-by bfp post?

Seriously man.
You haven't lurked much on TB, eh? You've made like 3 posts EVER on this entire forum and one of your first was to tell the TTGP board you're pregnant- pointless since you're not TRYING. And rude.

But anyway. Congrats.

MrsMCBMar2014 · May 2014

MusicFanatic said:

CrazyMonkeyBear said:

How about apologizing to TTGP for your drive-by bfp post?

Seriously man.
You haven't lurked much on TB, eh? You've made like 3 posts EVER on this entire forum and one of your first was to tell the TTGP board you're pregnant- pointless since you're not TRYING. And rude.

But anyway. Congrats.

Stupid mobile bumping quote function is broken.
I couldn't agree more. Drive bys on the TTGP board is rude and uncalled for. I think you should definitely go apologize.

However, congrats!!!!

Eta: broken bump mobile bumping.

motherboy · May 2014

I agree with the others that apologizing would be the decent thing to do.

Congratulations on your bfp.

Why did you go to urgent care to confirm? Isn't three positive HPTs confirmation enough? It's not like they can really give you any more info, right? I'm just curious why you'd go. Seems like a waste of time and money. Not my time or money, so I don't care, just don't get it.

alibc123 · May 2014

Congrats and welcome!

Josie400 · May 2014

I agree with others that going to Urgent Care was a waste of time and money. Please realize many first OB appointments aren't until you're 8-12 weeks. Please be patient with what your doctor's office suggests.

Congrats on your pregnancy.

MusicFanatic · May 2014

Totally missed the urgent care part /:)

Christina_Diane · May 2014

Congrats, but please explain why you felt the need to go to urgent care? Not only was it unnecessary, it was a waste of their time and resources.

brendisimma · May 2014

So exciting! Enjoy every minute of this amazing adventure into motherhood..I would have gone too urgent care too .just to make sure everything is ok..I would certainly tell my closest family members

MusicFanatic · May 2014

brendisimma said:

So exciting! Enjoy every minute of this amazing adventure into motherhood..I would have gone too urgent care too .just to make sure everything is ok..I would certainly tell my closest family members

You give bad advice, just so you know.

What the everlasting hell is urgent care going to do to make sure everything is OK? Do an ultrasound on you to see.............nothing there? At like 4 minutes pregnant? Do you expect to see something? To maybe get a magic potion to make sure all is OK? Special meds? A blood test to tell you..... nothing? Wait... a PEE stick? Like the ones you can take at home?

FFS!

Manateearmz · May 2014

brendisimma said:
So exciting! Enjoy every minute of this amazing adventure into motherhood..I would have gone too urgent care too .just to make sure everything is ok..I would certainly tell my closest family members

What's "urgent" about this situation? Urgent care does not have the resources to tell you everything is "ok" beyond a "yes there are two lines on this pee stick, just like the 3 other sticks you had at home".

Way to drive up healthcare costs! ::slow clap eye roll::

MusicFanatic · May 2014

Manateearmz said:

So exciting! Enjoy every minute of this amazing adventure into motherhood..I would have gone too urgent care too .just to make sure everything is ok..I would certainly tell my closest family members
What's "urgent" about this situation? Urgent care does not have the resources to tell you everything is "ok" beyond a "yes there are two lines on this pee stick, just like the 3 other sticks you had at home". Way to drive up healthcare costs! ::slow clap eye roll::

EXACTLY. I freaking HATE that. And way to take up space for people with, I dunno, urgent matters. Your pregnancy is just like the other 100+ ladies here- it's not any more special, even if it is to YOU. It isn't urgent. Clueless.

SHN1113 · May 2014

I don't understand why everyone is so rude I have been trying to get pregnant for a while and didn't find the bump board til a week ago. I've been nothing but attacked by rude comments on all of these boards. We should be bringing each other up not knocking each other down. I'm so over this shit. Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag.

SHN1113 · May 2014

I'm extremely excited and wanted to be sure that why I went to urgent care.

MusicFanatic · May 2014

SHN1113 said:

Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag.

And you're not at ALL rude

If we ruined your happiness over some posts, you definitely don't belong here. www.babycenter.com. They may suit ya better. Byeeeee!

motherboy · May 2014

SHN1113 said:
I don't understand why everyone is so rude I have been trying to get pregnant for a while and didn't find the bump board til a week ago. I've been nothing but attacked by rude comments on all of these boards. We should be bringing each other up not knocking each other down. I'm so over this shit. Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag.

Sorry to see you go!

Sincerely,
A rude old Betty

Manateearmz · May 2014

SH
N1113 said:
I don't understand why everyone is so rude I have been trying to get pregnant for a while and didn't find the bump board til a week ago. I've been nothing but attacked by rude comments on all of these boards. We should be bringing each other up not knocking each other down. I'm so over this shit. Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag.

My spirits are always lifted after fucking myself. Thanks for the pep talk!

Enjoy your urgent care bill, that was the most expensive dollar tree test you'll ever pee on. I'm sure the people with the real urgent problems are really excited that you were impatient.

MusicFanatic · May 2014

Manateearmz said:

My spirits are always lifted after fucking myself.

This literally made me lol! hahaha

Manateearmz · May 2014

I guess she used up all the dandelions and the nearest Lowes was closed.

ginger1228 · May 2014

I'm visiting from TTGP. This thread makes me wish I was a January 2015 mom!!! You ladies are hilarious.

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24karat · May 2014

SHN1113 said:
I don't understand why everyone is so rude I have been trying to get pregnant for a while and didn't find the bump board til a week ago. I've been nothing but attacked by rude comments on all of these boards. We should be bringing each other up not knocking each other down. I'm so over this shit. Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag.

SHN1113 said:
I'm extremely excited and wanted to be sure that why I went to urgent care.

::lurker::

You're pregnant and yes, it's exciting. But that's not an excuse to discard common sense and decency. I sure hope if you ever have true need of Urgent Care services or an ER there won't be a bunch of "those people" impatiently doing what you just did, taking the doctor's attention away from medical issues to squee over pregnancy test results or other non-urgent matters.

You haven't been attacked, your actions have been called out for the crazy and rude ones they are. You're the one who is being rude (and breaking TOU) around here.

Josie400 · May 2014

SHN1113 said:
I'm extremely excited and wanted to be sure that why I went to urgent care.

What everyone has been trying to tell you is that you already had your answer when you took the tests at home. Urgent care cannot do anymore than what you did in the privacy of your own bathroom (or dandelion field).

Babies are expensive. Don't waste all your money on unnecessary hospital visits.

vjdk07 · May 2014

I truly didn't even know that was a thing. People really go to to urgent care to confirm their pregnancy?? Whatever happened to the health dept or an OB?

MusicFanatic · May 2014

vjdk07 said:

I truly didn't even know that was a thing. People really go to to urgent care to confirm their pregnancy?? Whatever happened to the health dept or an OB?

No, just people that think they are more special than others and totes excited!!!!1111!!!!!!!!

Also- clueless people. It shouldn't be a thing.

Christina_Diane · May 2014

SHN1113 said:
I'm extremely excited and wanted to be sure that why I went to urgent care.

I'm excited too. Actually, I think we are all excited, but we aren't going to urgent care. Had you done an inkling of research, you would have learned that most prenatal physicians don't see patients until 6-8 weeks. Perhaps you should have bought some baby books instead of wasting a hundred bucks on an urgent care copay.

VolMomma · May 2014

Lurker...
From someone who's ttgp multiple times with medicated cycles, and lost 7 in the past year and a half, I'm sorry you're pregnancy is no more legit than mine.

Announcing to a ttgp'er is rude. Yeah I'm a rude bitch because quite simply my pgal brain is on overdrive anxiously awaiting a beta tommorrow. But you don't see my ass at the ER.

MNgirl326 · May 2014

Psssst..... It's old Bitty.
An old Betty is an attractive older women, which is not quite the insult I think you were going for.

PrimRoseMama · May 2014

SHN1113 said:
I don't understand why everyone is so rude I have been trying to get pregnant for a while and didn't find the bump board til a week ago. I've been nothing but attacked by rude comments on all of these boards. We should be bringing each other up not knocking each other down. I'm so over this shit. Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag.

Wow. Way to demonstrate maturity.

dragontears507 · May 2014

Wow. Just wow. People like you are the reason I had to wait 4 long hours at the hospital in severe pain, blacking out, and vomiting. Waste of everyone's time going to urgent care. Congrats on your pregnancy...and on being an inconsiderate idiot.

MNgirl326 · May 2014

Firefly3911 said:

MNgirl326 said:

Psssst..... It's old Bitty.
An old Betty is an attractive older women, which is not quite the insult I think you were going for.

Is it 'Biddy' or 'Bitty'? I've heard the phrase, but not sure on the sounding it out and never actually thought to look it up on Google.

Bitty And biddy can be used interchangeably. Betty is a whole different meaning

brendisimma · May 2014

It's my personal opinion, that's all.I have a right to voice my opinion in whatever forum, I'm sure you do too however, I would never waste my time criticizing others and giving back handed compliments. Just stop.

YaMrWhite · May 2014

Fightersince83 said:
"Everyone here is a bunch of rude old Betty's go fuck yourself for ruining my happiness you old bag."

Let's look at that, shall we...
"Everyone (plural) here is a bunch of rude old Betty's (something belonging to Betty-what exactly is not stated) go fuck yourself (singular) for ruining my happiness you old bag (singular)."

That is all.

...oh and it was fucking stupid for you to have gone to urgent care to pee on a stick. Especially when you've done 3 at home.

<<drop mic>>

I love you.

MusicFanatic · May 2014

katnhiding said:

brendisimma said:

It's my personal opinion, that's all.I have a right to voice my opinion in whatever forum, I'm sure you do too however, I would never waste my time criticizing others and giving back handed compliments. Just stop.

Your personal opinion = bad medical advice. Would you want everyone to silently sit by while someone gave you bad medical advice or supported someone else's bad medical advice? I certainly hope not. Therefor, you probably do not actually want some of the knowledgeable ladies such as @MusicFanatic to just stop. However, if you are searching for a place that will welcome your bad advice may I suggest Baby Gaga or a similar site?

@katnhiding :x I miss you.

YaMrWhite · May 2014

ICarriedAWatermelon said:

I truly didn't even know that was a thing. People really go to to urgent care to confirm their pregnancy?? Whatever happened to the health dept or an OB?
People come to the ER to see if they're pregnant bc they don't want to pay for a pregnancy test.

W.O.W. @-)

MusicFanatic · May 2014

ICarriedAWatermelon said:

I truly didn't even know that was a thing. People really go to to urgent care to confirm their pregnancy?? Whatever happened to the health dept or an OB?
People come to the ER to see if they're pregnant bc they don't want to pay for a pregnancy test.

wait a second.

I can get a pregnancy test at the dollar store for..... $1.

My ER copay is $200.

This wouldn't work for me.

peggels24 · May 2014

MusicFanatic said:

ICarriedAWatermelon said:

I truly didn't even know that was a thing. People really go to to urgent care to confirm their pregnancy?? Whatever happened to the health dept or an OB?
People come to the ER to see if they're pregnant bc they don't want to pay for a pregnancy test.

wait a second.

I can get a pregnancy test at the dollar store for..... $1.

My ER copay is $200.

This wouldn't work for me.

Stop being logical!

MusicFanatic · May 2014

peggels24 said:

MusicFanatic said:

ICarriedAWatermelon said:

I truly didn't even know that was a thing. People really go to to urgent care to confirm their pregnancy?? Whatever happened to the health dept or an OB?
People come to the ER to see if they're pregnant bc they don't want to pay for a pregnancy test.

wait a second.

I can get a pregnancy test at the dollar store for..... $1.

My ER copay is $200.

This wouldn't work for me.

Stop being logical!

Right? It's not getting me very far.

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