I don't want to chose and honestly hope I never have to. Jude is a little piece of my husband and my husband is one of my favorite people ever. If we are talking burning building scenarios: saving Jude is kind of like saving both of them but not having my husband around would crush me. Plus he is crucial to having more little Jude's. Again, I can't chose. I love my husband and I love Jude. No love is greater than the other.
It's a different kind of love, but I love my daughter unconditionally. I don't think I can say the same for DH.
Back when I was pregnant, we had the discussion about what to do if something went wrong. I said if he had to choose between me or the baby, he should save the baby. He said he'd choose to save me, because we can always have another baby, but he didn't want to lose me. It was something we actually fought over.
I love my husband completely and totally. I would be a mess without him. The same goes for my children. It is a very different type of love though. We have had the "who do you love more" conversation, and we both agreed that it isn't a matter of who you love more, but how you love them. I always say that I love them equally but in different ways.
However, DH knows if it is him and LO hanging over a cliff, he is going down. We both would put our children over one another in these types of scenarios.
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However, DH knows if it is him and LO hanging over a cliff, he is going down. We both would put our children over one another in these types of scenarios.