FTM here. Never thought I'd struggle with the "baby blues" because having a beautiful, healthy newborn is all I could want.
But, it turns out the "baby blues" is a real thing, and since it's the result of my hormones going wild/regulating, I haven't really been able to control it. Just deal with it as best I can.
I can't imagine I'm alone in this. Anyone else dealing with the blues? How are you handling it? Are you talking about it with your SO?
Re: Baby blues.
When I'm at my worst, I pick up DS for a snuggle because it reminds me that the prize is sweeter than the blues are bluesy.
Take care of yourself.
Mommy to my sweet boy, JG, born May 15, 2014
Baby #2 due 4/26/16!
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
I have made a concerted effort to shower and put makeup on everyday, and I think that has helped (good tip @hhegyesi
For most, it eases up after the first few weeks. It really does get better. PPD isn't as common, but if low mood persists past 2 weeks or so postpartum, talk to your doc. It can be treated safely even for breastfeeding mamas.
Hoping you are feeling better soon!
I have def found it's much better when I do get in a couple good naps so I'm being betting at making that happen between feedings.
My H and I went out to a movie and dinner last night. It helped to get out and talk for a bit. I appreciate you all!
It is ridiculous.
This sounds exactly like what I'm dealing with. I feel so guilty that I didn't have that life changing moment like everyone says you will have... But when she was born I was so distracted with feeling like I was having a heart attack during my section, I almost feel like the experience and doctors I had took that away from me. I'm doing better, haven't had another crying day since the day I wrote that post, so here's to hoping my blues are coming to an end.
Mommy to my sweet boy, JG, born May 15, 2014
Baby #2 due 4/26/16!