@Soleil3 What is that you do for a living? So someone can make a funny joke at you too.
I'm a professional croissant connoisseur, dog and baby walker, and mocker of creepy men who talk about masturbation on a board for women on forums. It doesn't pay much, but what can I say, I love my work
I was spanked once as a kid. I was 5, and I darted across the street without looking. There was no cars, and I definitely knew better. My dad was so mad, and I ended up getting spanked. But I never did it again.
That being said, I think that spanking isn't something that should be done every time a child is doing something wrong. Strong verbal correction can teach right from wrong. But I also know that the one time that I was spanked, I knew I was in trouble, and the severity of the "crime", and I definitely learned my lesson.
@V&G I am not wholly against spanking either. I don't by any means think it should be used as the only method of discipline (not saying you do either). I don't think spanking and abuse go hand in hand.
Agreed.
I'll state for the record that my parents didn't go straight to spanking either. We were all given fair warnings prior to getting spanked.
@Soleil3 What is that you do for a living? So someone can make a funny joke at you too.
I'm a professional croissant connoisseur, dog and baby walker, and mocker of creepy men who talk about masturbation on a board for women on forums. It doesn't pay much, but what can I say, I love my work
An acquaintance of mine taught her daughter that Police Officers, Fire Fighters, and Paramedics were all "Star.Friends" because they carried a badge and could show her their "star" if she was in trouble. She just had to ask. She told her that Star.Friends would take her some place safe, where she could get help if she was hurt, and then they would call her mom.
This came in handy when her daughter got lost while out with her grandpa on their 400 acre property which is home to a rather aggressive breed of cattle, (probably a bad choice to let her go with her grandpa, but that is besides the point, she was following her large livestock guardian dog and it just kept walking the fence line and she just followed along.) She was found wandering almost 4 miles from where she was last seen after a lengthy, expensive and extensive search which included helicopters, dogs, foot patrols, etc. She was just a little under 3 years old at the time.
The first thing she said when she saw the officer who found her was, "Can you show me your star and then take me to my mom?"
I plan to teach my kid that folks with badges are "Star.Friends." I thought it was pretty cool.
My UO - I loathe getting my hair done. I mean, I love my stylist and I love talking to her, I love the way I feel afterwards, but I hate sitting still that long. It makes me insane.
To go along with what @nnikki10 said, mine has to do with parenting and discipline. At the risk of the disapproval of parents (well moms here as it appears Im the only dad brave creepy enough to chat on A13) I firmly believe in disciplining my child which will include a spanking if needed. Now I swatted our LO once on the butt and got my ass handed to me by mom, not that she disagrees with spanking but that LO is to young. I understood and took a different approach.
Yes, really. Its TB, the bump is for the baby, not beer or donuts. Its creepy.
Does a dad not take care of the baby too??
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
The Bump.
#gavel.
And yes, it totally was. A funny cop reference at that
unclench nikki.
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
@Soleil3 What is that you do for a living? So someone can make a funny joke at you too.
I'm a professional croissant connoisseur, dog and baby walker, and mocker of creepy men who talk about masturbation on a board for women on forums. It doesn't pay much, but what can I say, I love my work
I don't think having a dad on the board is creepy in general, but there are things I talk about here that I'm not comfortable discussing with males. (I.E. Masturbation) So I understand why it seems creepy. That said, you can't control who posts where so I guess I'll just keep my "dirty" comments to myself.
To go along with what @nnikki10 said, mine has to do with parenting and discipline. At the risk of the disapproval of parents (well moms here as it appears Im the only dad brave creepy enough to chat on A13) I firmly believe in disciplining my child which will include a spanking if needed. Now I swatted our LO once on the butt and got my ass handed to me by mom, not that she disagrees with spanking but that LO is to young. I understood and took a different approach.
Yes, really. Its TB, the bump is for the baby, not beer or donuts. Its creepy.
Does a dad not take care of the baby too??
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
The Bump.
#gavel.
And yes, it totally was. A funny cop reference at that
unclench nikki.
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
@Soleil3 What is that you do for a living? So someone can make a funny joke at you too.
I'm a professional croissant connoisseur, dog and baby walker, and mocker of creepy men who talk about masturbation on a board for women on forums. It doesn't pay much, but what can I say, I love my work
@V&G I am not wholly against spanking either. I don't by any means think it should be used as the only method of discipline (not saying you do either). I don't think spanking and abuse go hand in hand.
To go along with what @nnikki10 said, mine has to do with parenting and discipline. At the risk of the disapproval of parents (well moms here as it appears Im the only dad brave creepy enough to chat on A13) I firmly believe in disciplining my child which will include a spanking if needed. Now I swatted our LO once on the butt and got my ass handed to me by mom, not that she disagrees with spanking but that LO is to young. I understood and took a different approach.
Yes, really. Its TB, the bump is for the baby, not beer or donuts. Its creepy.
Does a dad not take care of the baby too??
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
The Bump.
#gavel.
And yes, it totally was. A funny cop reference at that
unclench nikki.
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
Oh seriously. Was that even needed? Why did you even have to bring that up? Using it as reference or not just pisses me off.
@V&G I am not wholly against spanking either. I don't by any means think it should be used as the only method of discipline (not saying you do either). I don't think spanking and abuse go hand in hand.
To go along with what @nnikki10 said, mine has to do with parenting and discipline. At the risk of the disapproval of parents (well moms here as it appears Im the only dad brave creepy enough to chat on A13) I firmly believe in disciplining my child which will include a spanking if needed. Now I swatted our LO once on the butt and got my ass handed to me by mom, not that she disagrees with spanking but that LO is to young. I understood and took a different approach.
Yes, really. Its TB, the bump is for the baby, not beer or donuts. Its creepy.
Does a dad not take care of the baby too??
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
Oh seriously. Was that even needed? Why did you even have to bring that up? Using it as reference or not just pisses me off.
Yea it was to demonstrate the Un funniness of her "joke" and how disrespectful it is to me.
@Soleil3 What is that you do for a living? So someone can make a funny joke at you too.
I'm a professional croissant connoisseur, dog and baby walker, and mocker of creepy men who talk about masturbation on a board for women on forums. It doesn't pay much, but what can I say, I love my work
It's cool right?? Because it's just a joke!!
Crust or no crust? I know this wasn't directed at me, but I really don't find it offensive. I don't get how a donut joke is either. I guess I'm not easily offended by jokes. I also think that race jokes and career jokes are two completely different things.
To go along with what @nnikki10 said, mine has to do with parenting and discipline. At the risk of the disapproval of parents (well moms here as it appears Im the only dad brave creepy enough to chat on A13) I firmly believe in disciplining my child which will include a spanking if needed. Now I swatted our LO once on the butt and got my ass handed to me by mom, not that she disagrees with spanking but that LO is to young. I understood and took a different approach.
Yes, really. Its TB, the bump is for the baby, not beer or donuts. Its creepy.
Does a dad not take care of the baby too??
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
The Bump.
#gavel.
And yes, it totally was. A funny cop reference at that
unclench nikki.
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
I'm all about being "offended" but damn....what a reference :-?
@V&G I am not wholly against spanking either. I don't by any means think it should be used as the only method of discipline (not saying you do either). I don't think spanking and abuse go hand in hand.
To go along with what @nnikki10 said, mine has to do with parenting and discipline. At the risk of the disapproval of parents (well moms here as it appears Im the only dad brave creepy enough to chat on A13) I firmly believe in disciplining my child which will include a spanking if needed. Now I swatted our LO once on the butt and got my ass handed to me by mom, not that she disagrees with spanking but that LO is to young. I understood and took a different approach.
Yes, really. Its TB, the bump is for the baby, not beer or donuts. Its creepy.
Does a dad not take care of the baby too??
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
Oh seriously. Was that even needed? Why did you even have to bring that
up? Using it as reference or not just pisses me off.
Yea it was to demonstrate the Un funniness of her "joke" and how disrespectful it is to me.
No actually I don't think it was at all. I am pretty sure you could have found other ways to "demonstrate" the the disrespect of the joke because in doing what you did was absolutely disrespectful yourself.
@pwhoskins you say that you think spanking is ok and you believe in disciplining your child and if that includes spanking then OK. But then you say you read the information your wife gave you and say you didn't know what could be wrong with spanking (but now you do, at least that's the assumption I make). So, which is it? You're contradicting yourself.
I don't want to sound like Im contradicting myself so let me clarify. I should have stated that I didn't know what was wrong with spanking a 9 month old. That being said, we had been using stern "No"s for a while. Our LO really loves glass and to see her reflection and thats great. It scares me that she may get away from us and touch the glass on the fireplace when it is heated. So after many "NO"s and redirecting (although I didn't know that what I was doing was actually redirecting) I did swat her. Like I said, my wife corrected me. So with that, I am sorry that I swatted my 9 month old. As she gets older, I will not have a problem with spanking my child. That being said, I would never go right into spanking as a form of discipline without working up to that level unless it may be for something that can hurt her badly i.e. running out in the street without looking. Of course in that situation, it would be only after we have told her and tried to teach her that you don't run out in the street without looking and without Mom or Dad.
So yes, a spanking is in my toolbox of discipline. I will use it, and use it when we see fit. I say "we" because I have now learned that I would discuss it with my wife before hand.
Disclaimer- I am not going after you because I like you, but I just wanted to clarify how he got here just in case anyone missed it.
He lurked through a lot of my comments because on Sunday evening I got called out be an ae who knew of me in real life and wanted to make sure that she wasn't right by calling me a "bully." I had mentioned some threads to him (mainly drive bys and the reaction) so he got the impression that we were all very snarky and rude. When he lurked and actually read out threads, he learned that we're the opposite and often times extremely supportive.
He posted to say hello since he had been lurking all day, and thought we were hilarious. He joined in because some of the ladies thought it would be fun to get a man's perspective. He made the mistake of lurking in the TMI thread (believe me, I warned him). He went over to the Dad's board as well and jumped in there which is where I think he will spend his time.
I promise my husband is not creepy, even though he might have come off that way to some of you. It was not his intention and his main concern in the first place was not invading our space.
"If you're still my small babe or you're all the way grown, my promise to you is you're never alone. You are my angel, my darling, my star...and my love will find you, wherever you are."
Disclaimer- I am not going after you because I like you, but I just wanted to clarify how he got here just in case anyone missed it.
He lurked through a lot of my comments because on Sunday evening I got called out be an ae who knew of me in real life and wanted to make sure that she wasn't right by calling me a "bully." I had mentioned some threads to him (mainly drive bys and the reaction) so he got the impression that we were all very snarky and rude. When he lurked and actually read out threads, he learned that we're the opposite and often times extremely supportive.
He posted to say hello since he had been lurking all day, and thought we were hilarious. He joined in because some of the ladies thought it would be fun to get a man's perspective. He made the mistake of lurking in the TMI thread (believe me, I warned him). He went over to the Dad's board as well and jumped in there which is where I think he will spend his time.
I promise my husband is not creepy, even though he might have come off that way to some of you. It was not his intention and his main concern in the first place was not invading our space.
I actually have not been on TB in weeks. So I did miss all of that.
So, my question. Why would a man even want to join this board?! Why would he want to read about all our TMI and women problems?
Seems odd to me....MH doesn't want to read about other women's grossness and bitching.
Umm trust me, I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO DESIRE TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR TIM Tuesdays or any other TMI stuff.
I was actually on the Dads boards and originally posted here just to say HI to my wife's friends. At that I also mentioned that if you have a problem with me lurking or more to let me know. I was welcomed by some of the great ladies here. And even in this post, the OP invited me to join the discussion.
So, my question. Why would a man even want to join this board?! Why would he want to read about all our TMI and women problems?
Seems odd to me....MH doesn't want to read about other women's grossness and bitching.
Umm trust me, I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO DESIRE TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR TIM Tuesdays or any other TMI stuff.
I was actually on the Dads boards and originally posted here just to say HI to my wife's friends. At that I also mentioned that if you have a problem with me lurking or more to let me know. I was welcomed by some of the great ladies here. And even in this post, the OP invited me to join the discussion.
No desire but you've posted in 2 of the threads about sex....? Doesn't get much more TMI than that.
Ezra James 08/22/2013 Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies 07/03/2012 08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe or you're all the way grown, my promise to you is you're never alone. You are my angel, my darling, my star...and my love will find you, wherever you are."
Disclaimer- I am not going after you because I like you, but I just wanted to clarify how he got here just in case anyone missed it.
He lurked through a lot of my comments because on Sunday evening I got called out be an ae who knew of me in real life and wanted to make sure that she wasn't right by calling me a "bully." I had mentioned some threads to him (mainly drive bys and the reaction) so he got the impression that we were all very snarky and rude. When he lurked and actually read out threads, he learned that we're the opposite and often times extremely supportive.
He posted to say hello since he had been lurking all day, and thought we were hilarious. He joined in because some of the ladies thought it would be fun to get a man's perspective. He made the mistake of lurking in the TMI thread (believe me, I warned him). He went over to the Dad's board as well and jumped in there which is where I think he will spend his time.
I promise my husband is not creepy, even though he might have come off that way to some of you. It was not his intention and his main concern in the first place was not invading our space.
I actually have not been on TB in weeks. So I did miss all of that.
Well get your butt back here!!
>:D<
It was in the bumped up FFFC- it was a fricking shit storm.
@pwhoskins I have no issue with you being here. I commend the open communication you share with your wife, good job sir. If others take issue with your presence here, I suggest waiving your dick around at them...that really seems to stir the pot.
Re: UO Thursday
That being said, I think that spanking isn't something that should be done every time a child is doing something wrong. Strong verbal correction can teach right from wrong. But I also know that the one time that I was spanked, I knew I was in trouble, and the severity of the "crime", and I definitely learned my lesson.
I'll state for the record that my parents didn't go straight to spanking either. We were all given fair warnings prior to getting spanked.
This came in handy when her daughter got lost while out with her grandpa on their 400 acre property which is home to a rather aggressive breed of cattle, (probably a bad choice to let her go with her grandpa, but that is besides the point, she was following her large livestock guardian dog and it just kept walking the fence line and she just followed along.) She was found wandering almost 4 miles from where she was last seen after a lengthy, expensive and extensive search which included helicopters, dogs, foot patrols, etc. She was just a little under 3 years old at the time.
The first thing she said when she saw the officer who found her was, "Can you show me your star and then take me to my mom?"
I plan to teach my kid that folks with badges are "Star.Friends." I thought it was pretty cool.
My UO - I loathe getting my hair done. I mean, I love my stylist and I love talking to her, I love the way I feel afterwards, but I hate sitting still that long. It makes me insane.
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
Oh seriously. Was that even needed? Why did you even have to bring that
up? Using it as reference or not just pisses me off.
Yea it was to demonstrate the Un funniness of her "joke" and how disrespectful it is to me.
Crust or no crust? I know this wasn't directed at me, but I really don't find it offensive. I don't get how a donut joke is either. I guess I'm not easily offended by jokes. I also think that race jokes and career jokes are two completely different things.
Seems odd to me....MH doesn't want to read about other women's grossness and bitching.
ETA: and if the donuts reference is a cop reference you can fuck yourself!
The Bump.
Nope not really..kinda like making a joke that all black people like to eat
watermelon and fried chicken. It's extremely disrespectful. So once again go fuck yourself
I'm all about being "offended" but damn....what a reference :-?
We obviously have different views on what is "fun". Being a dick doesn't top my list.
Interesting.
@MommyAmes2
Disclaimer- I am not going after you because I like you, but I just wanted to clarify how he got here just in case anyone missed it.
He lurked through a lot of my comments because on Sunday evening I got called out be an ae who knew of me in real life and wanted to make sure that she wasn't right by calling me a "bully." I had mentioned some threads to him (mainly drive bys and the reaction) so he got the impression that we were all very snarky and rude. When he lurked and actually read out threads, he learned that we're the opposite and often times extremely supportive.
He posted to say hello since he had been lurking all day, and thought we were hilarious. He joined in because some of the ladies thought it would be fun to get a man's perspective. He made the mistake of lurking in the TMI thread (believe me, I warned him). He went over to the Dad's board as well and jumped in there which is where I think he will spend his time.
I promise my husband is not creepy, even though he might have come off that way to some of you. It was not his intention and his main concern in the first place was not invading our space.
*giggle* oh @soleil3 and your controversial ass
Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
No desire but you've posted in 2 of the threads about sex....? Doesn't get much more TMI than that.
Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
Well get your butt back here!!
>:D<
It was in the bumped up FFFC- it was a fricking shit storm.
If others take issue with your presence here, I suggest waiving your dick around at them...that really seems to stir the pot.