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  • ilovepink94ilovepink94 member
    edited May 2014
    Nicb13 said:
    I have a serious question OP: why do you want to be a part of this site when all you do is fight with everyone (regardless of who "started" it)? I really do want to know. I personally wouldn't enjoy being part of a discussion board where I had to be hostile all the time.
    As in fighting with everyone you mean not caring about everyone's assumptions & drama they create? I don't understand how people can be mad that someone does not care about others being dramatic & taking things way out of proportion. Even AFTER they already explained several times, what they are getting in such an up-roar about, actually meant. I have better things to worry about then the whiners & drama queens on this site. This is not kindergarten, I'm not about to go in the corner & cry because the cool kids don't like me. Hell I didn't even care when I was in kindergarten about all that. I have met a lot of cool people & found a lot of good advice since being on this site. & I'm not about to leave because people read a post wrong, got all hot & bothered, & now they "don't like me". Girl I'm a grown woman. I could care less about all that. Y'all can if you want to, but I don't & I won't. There is nothing sadder than a group of moms who are mad because the person they are mad at... ISN'T MAD WITH THEM LMAO. So everyone can keep dragging all that on until the end of the world & all they'll ever get from me is smiley
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  • ilovepink94ilovepink94 member
    edited May 2014
    Speshul said:
    I agree with @PrimRoseMama when you make certain comments to people it can carry across multiple boards. Some people frequent multiple boards, and in your case there are working moms on all boards. 

    Out of curiosity though...what are the requirements for a certification to become a transcriptionist? Do they even care about basic grammar & spelling?

    I think I'm going to check with my doctor and make sure they are using the software. 

    Yeah someone already told me I get followers & fans. Pretty neat. & yeah you have to get a certification. It takes about 2 years to get certified. & yeah the writing has to be perfect & error free. Luckily when I'm not working I don't have to type like I'm getting paid for it lol & I can throw in some of these >>> &, uh huh, yeah, your instead of you're, & of course smileys :-h <<<
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  • teenmomrockteenmomrock member
    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 
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    LoisLayn23 said:
    teenmomrock said:
    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 
    Not eating during labor has nothing to do with pooping. It's in case you need a c-section, they don't want you puking on the table.
    They gave me this nasty medicine to drink so I could eat and not throw up so eating wasn't a problem. But I don't think there's a cheat for not poopin lol 
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  • ilovepink94ilovepink94 member
    teenmomrock said:
    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 
    Good luck on your vbac! :) Going natural won't be as bad as you think. I just keep telling myself that I'm about to meet my baby and it makes the pain worth it. After the head passes the body is the easiest part. It kind of just slips out haha. I talk to my family, my doula, & my midwife about my birthing plan so everyone knows how I want to do it. I talked to them about a water birth I might want to try this time. I'll let you know how that goes if I do. And girl I poo a lot during labor. Not while I'm pushing but while I'm in early labor. It just makes my bowels move. But I nibble on fruit and small snacks during labor too because it makes me hungry. I never doo doo'd on myself though lmao. Hope that never happens.
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    ilovepink94 said:
    teenmomrock said:
    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 
    Good luck on your vbac! :) Going natural won't be as bad as you think. I just keep telling myself that I'm about to meet my baby and it makes the pain worth it. After the head passes the body is the easiest part. It kind of just slips out haha. I talk to my family, my doula, & my midwife about my birthing plan so everyone knows how I want to do it. I talked to them about a water birth I might want to try this time. I'll let you know how that goes if I do. And girl I poo a lot during labor. Not while I'm pushing but while I'm in early labor. It just makes my bowels move. But I nibble on fruit and small snacks during labor too because it makes me hungry. I never doo doo'd on myself though lmao. Hope that never happens.
    Thank you good luck to whatever you decide. ROTFL at doo doo'd!! I got some wise words in my head from my grandmother that I plan on using for strength while hangin on natural. What exactly does it feel like when the babies coming out? Did you tear?
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  • ilovepink94ilovepink94 member
    teenmomrock said:
    ilovepink94 said:
    teenmomrock said:
    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 
    Good luck on your vbac! :) Going natural won't be as bad as you think. I just keep telling myself that I'm about to meet my baby and it makes the pain worth it. After the head passes the body is the easiest part. It kind of just slips out haha. I talk to my family, my doula, & my midwife about my birthing plan so everyone knows how I want to do it. I talked to them about a water birth I might want to try this time. I'll let you know how that goes if I do. And girl I poo a lot during labor. Not while I'm pushing but while I'm in early labor. It just makes my bowels move. But I nibble on fruit and small snacks during labor too because it makes me hungry. I never doo doo'd on myself though lmao. Hope that never happens.
    Thank you good luck to whatever you decide. ROTFL at doo doo'd!! I got some wise words in my head from my grandmother that I plan on using for strength while hangin on natural. What exactly does it feel like when the babies coming out? Did you tear?
    Your welcome :) Hmmm... well at first it really feels like your body is breaking. Or like a ton of weight is just being shifted inside of your body as you push the baby downward more & more. It's a good feeling but it is painful at the same time. But the pain is bearable. Even people with a low pain tolerance could probably take it a lot easier than what they expect from themselves. When the head comes out you feel a burning sensation. My midwife calls it the ring of fire. It just burns & stings but it's not that bad because at least you can feel your baby. Pushing out the body is THE BEST part because you just feel this release of pressure out of your body. You literally might make a loud sigh because it's so relieving. I tore a little bit with my first birth & only had to get two stitches. Getting the stitches sucked but the actual taring wasn't bad. I didn't even notice I tore and you can't tell by looking at it now. But with my second birth I didn't tare at all.
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    edited May 2014
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    teenmomrock said:


    ilovepink94 said:


    teenmomrock said:

    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 

    Good luck on your vbac! :) Going natural won't be as bad as you think. I just keep telling myself that I'm about to meet my baby and it makes the pain worth it. After the head passes the body is the easiest part. It kind of just slips out haha. I talk to my family, my doula, & my midwife about my birthing plan so everyone knows how I want to do it. I talked to them about a water birth I might want to try this time. I'll let you know how that goes if I do. And girl I poo a lot during labor. Not while I'm pushing but while I'm in early labor. It just makes my bowels move. But I nibble on fruit and small snacks during labor too because it makes me hungry. I never doo doo'd on myself though lmao. Hope that never happens.

    Thank you good luck to whatever you decide. ROTFL at doo doo'd!! I got some wise words in my head from my grandmother that I plan on using for strength while hangin on natural. What exactly does it feel like when the babies coming out? Did you tear?
    **mobile quote**

    It stings and burns like a fucking bitch! I didn't have a silent birth, that's for sure. When the head started coming I had to stop pushing for a second to gain back my composure and feel brave enough to push the rest of her head out, it hurt so bad. I screamed.

    That being said, I still liked my med free childbirth better than my epidural birth.
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  • teenmomrockteenmomrock member
    WashingtonQueen said:
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    ilovepink94 said:
    teenmomrock said:
    My hospital gives us birthing plans to fill out and then we can discuss it with our OBs. I got one and filled it out at my first app. I had twins through an unplanned c-section and my birthing plan is to try for a vbac. My OB supports my choice. I also stressed the fact that I WANT FRUIT during my labor. I was so hungry last time that's one of the reasons I caved into the c-section. Because I had no snacks and my fiance didn't want to leave me to go get any. And the nurse was taking forever to get me the fruit that I never saw. So this time I'm bringing my own grapes, pineapples, and mangos. I don't care if I poop lol. And I'm gonna try to go natural as long as I can to avoid another c-section. Wish me luck! 
    Good luck on your vbac! :) Going natural won't be as bad as you think. I just keep telling myself that I'm about to meet my baby and it makes the pain worth it. After the head passes the body is the easiest part. It kind of just slips out haha. I talk to my family, my doula, & my midwife about my birthing plan so everyone knows how I want to do it. I talked to them about a water birth I might want to try this time. I'll let you know how that goes if I do. And girl I poo a lot during labor. Not while I'm pushing but while I'm in early labor. It just makes my bowels move. But I nibble on fruit and small snacks during labor too because it makes me hungry. I never doo doo'd on myself though lmao. Hope that never happens.
    Thank you good luck to whatever you decide. ROTFL at doo doo'd!! I got some wise words in my head from my grandmother that I plan on using for strength while hangin on natural. What exactly does it feel like when the babies coming out? Did you tear?
    **mobile quote** It stings and burns like a fucking bitch! I didn't have a silent birth, that's for sure. When the head started coming I had to stop pushing for a second to gain back my composure and feel brave enough to push the rest of her head out, it hurt so bad. I screamed. That being said, I still liked my med free childbirth better than my epidural birth.
    Everyone always says it was the best choice in the end which makes me want to do it even freakin more but gaaaaaaaaah!!! I'm nervous/excited. I can't explain. But I know if y'all did and a million other women have did it then I can do it too. I just gotta believe in me.
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    @teenmomrock, have you looked into hypnobabies? It was my saving grace.

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    aander6 said:

    So they were all the same person right??? 

    That's what I'd guess. There were too many grammar and syntax (and overuse of emoticons) similarities. OP had some weird/crazy stuff on 1st Tri too before coming here.
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    WashingtonQueen said:

    I'm laughing my ass off!! All 3 of them were 1 person. Crazy cakes.

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    RedheadBaker said:

    Someone had WAAAAAAAY too much time on her hands. Reply under one name, log out, log in under another, reply, log out, log in under another, reply .... how did she keep them straight? 

    3 different browsers all logged in?

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