A lot of LCs also have spare shields/flanges lying around in various sizes. Especially if you're using a Medela (which most hospitals rent out), they'll even have spare tubes/valves. I got all my stuff free (was using a friend's pump) the first time I went to see them. Ask, it can't hurt!
@PressLove my daughter never nursed on both sides in one feeding and I knew other moms who nursed the same way. I would offer it but she was very content latching on and staying there for about thirty minutes. Once I got my pump I started pumping on the side I was not nursing on. I did still alternate breasts with each feeding though. You will have better results if simultaneously nursing and pumping because of the baby contact. I did not start pumping right when my milk came in and I feel that affected the amount I was able to pump. I plan to pump as soon as my milk comes in this time to keep my body producing more when establishing my flow. Trick of the trade: I found an old sports bra that was an all stretchy material with no pads on the breast and cut an "x" over each nipple that I could put the breast shield through to pump hands free while nursing and would just pull down the other side of the bra for baby. Worked very well. One more trick: one of my friends that also nursed only one side at a time would always wear a bracelet or hair tie on her wrist to remind her what side she was on.
@spittler2 I have never had a problem with nursing pad slippage and they are convenient for hiding nip through a shirt. I prefer reusable nursing pads but have also used the disposable kind which have a sticky back that may help if you have slip problems. My favorite reusable a are nuk brand.
@JulieSmiles I have the style of nursing cover that is sold by uddercovers.com which is basically a rectangle with a section of curved boning so you can look down and see baby easily and an adjustable neck strap. I like this style very much and have four or five most of which were homemade by my mom. I have not tried an infinity scarf style but just can't imagine it would be breathable enough here in Texas during the summer. I am looking into trying a nursing "hat" for baby that is like a sun hat with a huge brim, for the summer. Has anyone tried one of these hats?
@sarahlynnc317 with my first I had an electric Ameda double pump (don't know the exact one) that I liked very much. I used Medela storage bags and bottles with it. I also had two manual pumps by Medela that did a decent job as well, but I'm just kinda lazy and liked being a little more hands free (see my above post about the sports bra pump holder) this time I went all out and bought the Medela freestyle hands free double pump system that can be used either plugged in or cordless. I actually can't wait to try it haha. As far as storage bags go, I prefered Medela storage containers. They were freezable, reusable, and you could a screw a nipple on the top.
Which storage bags do you prefer to use? Which pump do you have?
I have a Medela freestyle from last time and a Medela pump in style from insurance this time. ETA: I loved the freestyle, though felt it could probably be stronger. Took me about 20-25 minutes to empty breasts. I have no idea if the in style is better though
I use the lansinoh storage bags. I get them on amazon. Never had one break or leak and used them for about 10 months. I was not at all careful.
Haven't read the full thread, so sorry if this has already been mentioned.
If you end up being a "leaker", I recommend milkies milk savers. It catches your leaked milk from the side you aren't nursing. It isn't to wear around all day. I didn't find out about these until nearly 4 months in, and the first few times I used them I found out I was leaking up to 2 oz each nursing session (an average of 10 oz a day). I nearly tear up when I think of how much milk went into the cloth diaper boosters that I was shoving down my bra each session.
PgAL (MC@7w 29/10/11 - lost you before we knew we had you)
@StrawberryDreams219 that's difficult to explain, but basically DH's family has major food/control issues. I usually lose weight when they visit and get by by eating on the go (alone) or keeping power bars (secretly) in the bedroom. I'm just not sure that will be enough while BF. BF is SO important to me, I don't want the lack of food or correct food to get in the way, but I'm also afraid the stress of constant confrontations and blow ups could negatively impact BF.
Which storage bags do you prefer to use? Which pump do you have?
I went back to work at 6 weeks with DS and pumped from that time until just over a year. I used Lansinoh bags the entire time. The only time I had them leak while thawing is when I dropped them on the floor while frozen. When I discovered this, I just thawed them in a tupperware to save the milk.
With DS I used a First Years miPump double electric. Evidently, these pumps do have issues with burning out or dying. I guess I got lucky, because mine never gave me any problems. This time I'll be getting a Medela PIS because that's what my insurance covers.
@StrawberryDreams219 yeah, this might be the time I have to have confrontations. I worry about the stress having a negative effect on BF too, so if I could avoid confrontation great! They just delayed their trip by a couple of weeks because FIL felt the layover was too long on the tickets DH found. I hope that if I have more time to establish BF and get used to it before they come it will be better.
I don't know if this has been asked before or something similar and it may seem like a dumb question but clearly I've never bf before.
But I have read about nipple confusion and babies won't switch from nipple to bottle back to nipple. So if that's the case what is the point of pumping?
Also if lets say I go out to run errands for a few hrs and leave the baby at home with my husband or my mom or MIL. Then the baby gets hungry and won't take to a bottle nipple. How does the baby get fed? Or do I need to plan on being with the baby for majority of the time for a certain length of time?
Only some babies will have nipple confusion. Some go back and forth from breast to bottle easily. It's recommended that you wait until breastfeeding is well-established - about 3-4 weeks - before introducing the bottle. This means that you'll likely need to be around your baby during that time, or close enough to come home quickly if you need to.
Once you're ready to introduce the bottle, you should use slow-flow nipples, which resemble your nipples more than the fast-flow ones. Also, have someone else give the bottle, such as DH. Baby will be more willing to take it from someone who is not you and it will give you some time to yourself.
My DD had issues latching the first week and had the bottle. We used a nipple shield to transition her to the breast and re-introduced the bottle at 4 weeks. She was totally cool going back and forth after that and would nurse in the morning, take bottles at daycare and nurse again in the evening. Good luck! You can do this!
I just ordered my breast pump through my insurance, but it's just the pump...does not come with a carrying bag or cooler to store breastmilk. The kit that 'goes' with it through Medela is like $100, which seems pretty steep just for a bag and cooler, so my question is will any bag/cooler work??
@Pepper6 I had the same question you did a little while back and have since gotten my pump. I found that I liked having the freedom to put my PISA in whatever bag I wanted, and then just got the medela cooler at BRU, which came with 4 bottles and the ice pack for $25. But you could absolutely use any cooler with ice pack that you want. I don't think the $100 is worth the bag plus cooler.
Married my Sweetie 8/21/04 BFP 10/8/2013 Miss Camryn Marie arrived 6/20/2014
my favorite milk storage bags were the Target up&up brand. I didn't care for Medela (I think they only had one ziploc top) and after Lanisoh leaked on me more than once I was all set. Target ones have the double ziploc and are thicker than the lanisoh. Never had a leak with them.
I don't know if this has been asked before or something similar and it may seem like a dumb question but clearly I've never bf before. But I have read about nipple confusion and babies won't switch from nipple to bottle back to nipple. So if that's the case what is the point of pumping? Also if lets say I go out to run errands for a few hrs and leave the baby at home with my husband or my mom or MIL. Then the baby gets hungry and won't take to a bottle nipple. How does the baby get fed? Or do I need to plan on being with the baby for majority of the time for a certain length of time?
I think it depends on the baby. We waited until 3.5 weeks before we offered a pacifier or bottle with DD. So for the first 3.5 weeks, I didn't leave her for more than 2.5-3 hours. She took to both with no issue. We had a little issue with bottles..some she just wouldn't use. We didn't buy a ton and bought different brands and she took to a certain brand with no issues.
This time..I'll probably start with a pacifier a little earlier and with pumping/bottles as well. The point of pumping---to build a stash if you're returning to work, or anytime the baby has a bottle, you need to pump so your supply stays up.
I just ordered my breast pump through my insurance, but it's just the pump...does not come with a carrying bag or cooler to store breastmilk. The kit that 'goes' with it through Medela is like $100, which seems pretty steep just for a bag and cooler, so my question is will any bag/cooler work??
do you know what your pumping situation will be at work? I had a room with a fridge. I didn't bother with any type of cooler bag etc. I kept the milk in there. Before I left for the day, I grabbed it and as soon as I got home it went in the fridge. I never had any issues.
On the BM bags, have any of you STM+ moms used the NUK brand bags? My grocery store sells the NUK and Lansinoh brand, and the NUK brand is a better deal. Just curious, I've heard good things about the Lansinoh brand.
I know it's been discussed before but I'm reading conflicting things. Should I try and get some nursing bras now or wait? Just get tanks and those comfy/seamless bras and wait to be fitted for an actual bra?
I know it's been discussed before but I'm reading conflicting things. Should I try and get some nursing bras now or wait? Just get tanks and those comfy/seamless bras and wait to be fitted for an actual bra?
I'd get something comfy now, and a tank or two if you're not too large chested and they'll support you enough, then wait to invest in actual bras until your milk comes in. Even then, maybe only get one or two and wait to see if your size adjusts again after a month or two when your supply regulates. (And you're sure nursing is working for you)
I know it's been discussed before but I'm reading conflicting things. Should I try and get some nursing bras now or wait? Just get tanks and those comfy/seamless bras and wait to be fitted for an actual bra?
I'd get something comfy now, and a tank or two if you're not too large chested and they'll support you enough, then wait to invest in actual bras until your milk comes in. Even then, maybe only get one or two and wait to see if your size adjusts again after a month or two when your supply regulates. (And you're sure nursing is working for you)
What if I'm rather well endowed? The girls need support if I want to go in public
I know it's been discussed before but I'm reading conflicting things. Should I try and get some nursing bras now or wait? Just get tanks and those comfy/seamless bras and wait to be fitted for an actual bra?
I'd get something comfy now, and a tank or two if you're not too large chested and they'll support you enough, then wait to invest in actual bras until your milk comes in. Even then, maybe only get one or two and wait to see if your size adjusts again after a month or two when your supply regulates. (And you're sure nursing is working for you)
What if I'm rather well endowed? The girls need support if I want to go in public
I have the same issue and I had zero luck finding nursing tank tops that were supportive enough to go without a bra. I could get by on the sleeping/seamless bras until my milk came in. (Only takes a couple days). I had to order bras online, though, and with shipping I had bras within a week. I just measured myself at home and didn't have an issue. For the first week or two I didn't go too many places anyway, and the comfy type bra was fine.
@elsa1688 I will be buying a sleep nursing bra that is all stretch and a normal nursing bra, no underwire, in a cup size bigger. If I don't go up a cup size (which I will be shocked if I don't) or I go up 3 sizes instead I will exchange the normal bra. I just like to have it handy ahead of time so I have something to wear. This is what I did last time and it worked out well. Don't know if that helps?
Im bigger chested (36F during this pregancy/34E pre-pregnancy).
With #1, I bought one nursing bra that I was measured for at 39 wks. It was a complete waste. My size changed drastically. I think I wore it twice.
Everyone recommended bravado tanks and bras. With my size, they were useless. They gave me bad uniboob and were the most unsupportive things. I also had a sleep bra that was pretty useless too since it was so unsupportive.
I did grab a Glamourmom Full Busted Tank. I didn't have a lot of faith in any nursing tanks..couldn't do target since my size was so big, bravado stunk etc.On their sizing chart my bra size put me in a M. I thought it would never work but found them supportive. To the point where I'd run errands in them etc.
I got measured for nursing bras probably 2 wks after I had DD. The only kind that worked for me were underwire ones. I felt like a hot mess in everything else and had zero issues with clogged ducts, etc
Is it doable to use my mat clothes as nursing shirts? I am going to be home most of the time and I'm just wondering if it would be worth it to get some nursing tops (I have bras) or just use what I have
I have 3 maternity t-shirts that have great stretch to them that I am able to pull down and tuck under my boob when nursing. So depending on what you have some might be good?
True story...my friend came to the hospital right as DS was born and came back to my room and mentioned that if I had trouble bfing, there were other ways he could get milk and motioned at herself. I was definitely a bit shocked (horrified?) I know people do that but it is definitely out of my comfort zone. Thankfully my milk came in no problem and that conversation did not need to be revisited.
Is it doable to use my mat clothes as nursing shirts? I am going to be home most of the time and I'm just wondering if it would be worth it to get some nursing tops (I have bras) or just use what I have
I had nursing bras and that was it. I didn't buy a single nursing tank or shirt last time and probably won't this time either. I always just pulled my shirt up or wore a button up or a cami and a cardigan. If it exposed my back in public I would just have my hubby (or whoever was with me) drape a receiving blanket over my back. I don't think it's necessary to buy an entire nursing wardrobe and believe it is totally doable to go without.
True story...my friend came to the hospital right as DS was born and came back to my room and mentioned that if I had trouble bfing, there were other ways he could get milk and motioned at herself. I was definitely a bit shocked (horrified?) I know people do that but it is definitely out of my comfort zone. Thankfully my milk came in no problem and that conversation did not need to be revisited.
True story...my friend came to the hospital right as DS was born and came back to my room and mentioned that if I had trouble bfing, there were other ways he could get milk and motioned at herself. I was definitely a bit shocked (horrified?) I know people do that but it is definitely out of my comfort zone. Thankfully my milk came in no problem and that conversation did not need to be revisited.
Pretty sure the concept of a wet nurse has been dead for like 100 years. That just seems so.... wow.
Is it doable to use my mat clothes as nursing shirts? I am going to be home most of the time and I'm just wondering if it would be worth it to get some nursing tops (I have bras) or just use what I have
I had nursing bras and that was it. I didn't buy a single nursing tank or shirt last time and probably won't this time either. I always just pulled my shirt up or wore a button up or a cami and a cardigan. If it exposed my back in public I would just have my hubby (or whoever was with me) drape a receiving blanket over my back. I don't think it's necessary to buy an entire nursing wardrobe and believe it is totally doable to go without.
I didn't buy any special nursing clothes. I had 2 tanks and 3 bras and that was it. I'd rather spend my $ on a decent good bra. I just pulled up my shirt to nurse. I liked the tanks to sleep in. I found the sleep nursing bras pretty useless
In all seriousness if I couldn't bf and I had a friend who offered to give me pumped milk I would jump at that offer. I don"t think I would let said friend actually nurse my baby though. I think it would make me really jealous and sad to see another woman give my baby what I couldn't.
It was just kind of weird to offer considering it was not even an issue at the time.
In all seriousness if I couldn't bf and I had a friend who offered to give me pumped milk I would jump at that offer. I don"t think I would let said friend actually nurse my baby though. I think it would make me really jealous and sad to see another woman give my baby what I couldn't.
I had a crazy oversupply and when my good friend wasn't able to continue to breastfeed I gave her my entire freezer stash. I never thought about it being odd before.
I would definitely not want someone else nursing my baby. Unless they only did it in the middle of the night. Kidding! Sort of...
In all seriousness if I couldn't bf and I had a friend who offered to give me pumped milk I would jump at that offer. I don"t think I would let said friend actually nurse my baby though. I think it would make me really jealous and sad to see another woman give my baby what I couldn't.
I had a crazy oversupply and when my good friend wasn't able to continue to breastfeed I gave her my entire freezer stash. I never thought about it being odd before.
I would definitely not want someone else nursing my baby. Unless they only did it in the middle of the night. Kidding! Sort of...
That's not weird, that's very kind. At least to me there is a big difference between between offering BM and offering to BF. If I couldn't BF but had the opportunity to feed my baby with BM, I would take it. There would still be some bonding through feeding. If someone else did the BF I would feel like they were creating the bond I want to have.
@emotionlotion I think it depends on your baby. I breastfed until DD was 18 months old, but I never had to cut out anything in my diet due to her being sensitive. I've had friends who had to cut out dairy because their babies were sensitive to that, but I think it varies from baby to baby. The only thing I tried to keep at a minimum was caffeine. I'll see if I can find any resources from my breastfeeding counselor friend
@emotionlotion the only thing I would say is don't go crazy with caffeine it can give them gas (and it always did with my daughter) but other than that there is nothing special you really need to do. Eat often and eat wisely. Every time baby would nurse I would have a glass of water and a small snack. Lots of protein, good fats, and about the same calories as pregnant. I have a book called Eating for Pregnancy that tells you how to get good vitamins etc in your diet complete with a ton of recipes and a section for post partum and breastfeeding. They also tell you what meals in the book are freezer friendly and how to store them. I love it! Breastfeeding will be a learning experience for you and baby. Some foods will cause gas etc but don't let it get you down. They will get used to your diet and adjust as they grow. If they seem to be having serious reflux or gas issues try eliminating certain foods you think may be causing it one at a time and ask your pediatrician. Those first few weeks will be kind of rough but just remember, they've been swimming in and digesting amniotic fluid up until now and it will take a little time to get their body to get used to breast milk even though it is the most natural choice.
I was planning to get the Medela PISA through my insurance but apparently I was "incorrectly informed" on the styles I can get. I don't know if this question is better here or in the breast pump thread that just started - but I have all Medela and Lanisoh bm storage accessories - if I got the Ameda Purely Yours or Hygeia Q pumps, would those be compatible with what I already have?
Re: June '14 BFing/Pumping Questions Thread
Married DH 7/30/11
CSC arrived 5/7/12
CHC arrived 6/2/14
Trick of the trade: I found an old sports bra that was an all stretchy material with no pads on the breast and cut an "x" over each nipple that I could put the breast shield through to pump hands free while nursing and would just pull down the other side of the bra for baby. Worked very well.
One more trick: one of my friends that also nursed only one side at a time would always wear a bracelet or hair tie on her wrist to remind her what side she was on.
@JulieSmiles I have the style of nursing cover that is sold by uddercovers.com which is basically a rectangle with a section of curved boning so you can look down and see baby easily and an adjustable neck strap. I like this style very much and have four or five most of which were homemade by my mom. I have not tried an infinity scarf style but just can't imagine it would be breathable enough here in Texas during the summer. I am looking into trying a nursing "hat" for baby that is like a sun hat with a huge brim, for the summer. Has anyone tried one of these hats?
@sarahlynnc317 with my first I had an electric Ameda double pump (don't know the exact one) that I liked very much. I used Medela storage bags and bottles with it. I also had two manual pumps by Medela that did a decent job as well, but I'm just kinda lazy and liked being a little more hands free (see my above post about the sports bra pump holder) this time I went all out and bought the Medela freestyle hands free double pump system that can be used either plugged in or cordless. I actually can't wait to try it haha. As far as storage bags go, I prefered Medela storage containers. They were freezable, reusable, and you could a screw a nipple on the top.
I use the lansinoh storage bags. I get them on amazon. Never had one break or leak and used them for about 10 months. I was not at all careful.
If you end up being a "leaker", I recommend milkies milk savers. It catches your leaked milk from the side you aren't nursing. It isn't to wear around all day. I didn't find out about these until nearly 4 months in, and the first few times I used them I found out I was leaking up to 2 oz each nursing session (an average of 10 oz a day). I nearly tear up when I think of how much milk went into the cloth diaper boosters that I was shoving down my bra each session.
BFP#2: EDD 2/11/14, MMC confirmed 7/15/13 (growth stopped at 6 weeks), D&C @ 12 weeks 7/25/13
BFP 10/8/2013
Miss Camryn Marie arrived 6/20/2014
I think it depends on the baby. We waited until 3.5 weeks before we offered a pacifier or bottle with DD. So for the first 3.5 weeks, I didn't leave her for more than 2.5-3 hours. She took to both with no issue. We had a little issue with bottles..some she just wouldn't use. We didn't buy a ton and bought different brands and she took to a certain brand with no issues.
This time..I'll probably start with a pacifier a little earlier and with pumping/bottles as well. The point of pumping---to build a stash if you're returning to work, or anytime the baby has a bottle, you need to pump so your supply stays up.
Baby #1: expected June 2014
I would definitely not want someone else nursing my baby. Unless they only did it in the middle of the night. Kidding! Sort of...
That's not weird, that's very kind. At least to me there is a big difference between between offering BM and offering to BF. If I couldn't BF but had the opportunity to feed my baby with BM, I would take it. There would still be some bonding through feeding. If someone else did the BF I would feel like they were creating the bond I want to have.
I got stuck on Bryndis, too, @StrawberryDreams219