girl removed from adoptive parents to live with bio dad

NarwhalBacon · May 2014

It sucks all around, especially if bio dad actually changed and wants to step up. Still traumatic for the girl and I think she should have been left with her parents.

NarwhalBacon · May 2014

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2630258/I-want-come-Heartbreaking-final-calls-girl-adoptive-parents-returned-ex-biological-father.html

link?

ByeBabyBunting · May 2014

I don't understand how anyone could think that this is what is best for the child. If he wants to be in her life then maybe ordering visitation, but this is just wrong.

RondackHiker · May 2014

Holy shit that poor girl.

RondackHiker · May 2014

I just... I'd want to kidnap her from her biological dad and bolt to some country where no one could find us.

Her poor parents. That poor girl.

RondackHiker · May 2014

HilarityEnsued said:
Straight up, if I were that girl's adoptive parents, I'd probably kidnap her back and go on the lam to some country that had no extradition laws.

No joke. That's not his kid. That's their kid. Fuck all that.

That's all I can think.

I can't imagine any other solution. We would be gone.

steponalego11 · May 2014

Inkogneetoh said:

***Warning: Child Death Mentioned***

There was a story not that long ago about adoptive parents who had to return the child to the bio mom... a few months later the child died. I can't remember how, I need to find the article.

Found it: https://www.click2houston.com/news/Baby-dies-after-adoptive-parents-give-him-back-to-biological-mom/25737722

How heartbreaking - and the adoptive moms found out about it on the news?!?! The poor baby, birth mother and adoptive moms.

RondackHiker · May 2014

@HilarityEnsued‌

We're on the same wavelength. If I had any doubts when she called and cried for me to come get her I would have started packing my bags.

SpaceGirlSpiff · May 2014

This makes my blood boil....just so, so wrong. Fuck that judge and the bio dad. That poor girl

ravenclaw1 · May 2014

Oh hell no. Those poor people

Xtine22 · May 2014

RondackHiker said:

@HilarityEnsued‌ We're on the same wavelength. If I had any doubts when she called and cried for me to come get her I would have started packing my bags.

I agree with the both of you. There is no doubt in my mind that I would kidnap my child back and go on the run.

Monkeybabe · May 2014

What the fuck? This probably feel like being kidnapped for the little girl.

Spin313 · May 2014

I feel so sad for the girl and her adoptive parents...

But to play devil's advocate: the article said this has been going in since 2009. I'm more appalled by how the courts handled this. I don't think the man is an asshole for wanting his daughter back, but they snatched a nine year old away from her family with - what seems like - no notice/preparation. That's just disgusting!

jorkz821 · May 2014

Inkogneetoh said:
***Warning: Child Death Mentioned***

There was a story not that long ago about adoptive parents who had to return the child to the bio mom... a few months later the child died. I can't remember how, I need to find the article.

Found it: https://www.click2houston.com/news/Baby-dies-after-adoptive-parents-give-him-back-to-biological-mom/25737722

OMG. Just.... Ugh. Heartbreaking.

Smootchy · May 2014

When they came to take her she was screaming for her mom and dad begging not to be taken. Omg I want to fucking puke.

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"The man is nice to her but house is dirty, has mold, cigarette's and no clean water"

jesuisfatiguee · May 2014

Why did I open this thread? I want to scream and cry angry tears while punching something - or someone. This is so wrong.

NarwhalBacon · May 2014

The more I think about this the more I want to punch all the things plus the judge and kidnap her back to her REAL parents.

RondackHiker · May 2014

Spooko said:
I can't read the article. This is something I had nightmares about for years until we finalized with DS. The idea that the finalization isn't really final isn't something I can stomach.

@Spooko‌ ((hugs))

tattooedtragedy · May 2014

While I can understand the biodad wanting to be involved in the girls life, the way he has gone about it shows he clearly either doesn't care or doesn't understand what would be best for the little girl. It makes me sick to think of what the little girl and her adoptive parents are going through.

I'm totally on the kidnap her back and run for it team!

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TugboatSheila · May 2014

I agree that it is shitty that his rights were illegally terminated and not all felons are violent horrible dads but at some point you just have to do what is best for the kid. If he wants to be a part of her life he should, by getting to know her. She doesn't even know who he is. And the article said his house was filthy and didn't have clean water. Way to go judge for not checking that out before sending a kid to live there '