While I LOVE the fact that we get weekly ultrasounds with OB office, I'm so tired of them running behind schedule. My appointment was 40 minutes ago and I'm still waiting in the lobby. Last week they were more than an hour behind.
I wish making an appointment actually meant being seen sometime within that freaking hour. Ugh.
N14 Nov. Siggy: CELEBRATION!
TTC since 2011
Aug. - Sept. 2013 - dIUIs = BFNs
January 2014 - IVF = 3 freezer babies
March 2014 - FET of AA and AB blast = BFP! Twins!
Nov. 7, 2014 - Wilhelmina "Willa" Suzanne (4lb 14oz) and Ari Jose (6lb 4oz) were born via CS
School typically starts at 9 am. Every second day, I teach a class at 8 am for the students who cannot fit that class into their regular schedules. This has been going on all year and SO is very aware of it. We only have one car, so he usually drops me off in the morning and I'll walk home in the afternoon.
He usually gets up at 7:15 and we're out the door by 7:40. Five minutes to get to school leaves me 15 minutes before class on the days I teach early morning.
Yesterday, I told him I needed to be there a little early today because I had to do some photocopying before class. He told me no problem.
This morning, I get up at my usual time, have breakfast and head back upstairs at 7 am. He's awake, which was perfect. Getting to work 15 minutes early would give me the time I need. I reminded him that I needed to get there early. Yep, he said. I get dressed and ready. It's now 7:10 and he's still in bed. When I reminded him AGAIN about needed to get to school early, he FLIPPED out. It was like I was asking him to do some monumental task. I gave him "the look" and just walked away. He later apologized.
So, 7:35 and we're finally in the car. I'm still pissed, so I'm not saying much (and I'm trying to figure out how to get done what I need to get done before class). He tries to break the ice by telling me that in the shower he thought he was going to have to call the doctor. When I asked why, he said that he had "found a lump on my leg. I didn't know what it was! Turns out it was an ingrown hair, so dealing with that took a little extra time." Just casual, like.
I EXPLODED. Seriously? On the day you KNEW I needed to be to work early and that you're already running late, you take EXTRA TIME to mess with a pimple? On your leg?
I'm so not ready for this freakn weather ! It's 80 degrees and the damn ac in at my office broke down so the boss has to get a new one... God knows when he'll have the freakn time and oh my freakn nose won't stop doing whatever the hell it is.. Allergies? Cold IDFK !? Glad I'm gone now home in my central air and I'm off tomorrow for my NT scan . I'm so not ready for summer being preg, y'all gon see me on the news walking round naked lol lol
I'm sorry! No AC sucks! Our broke at our house last weekend and it was 85 in here for two days...all is well now though! I have my NT scan tomorrow too!! Good luck!!!
Lol I was trying every excuse in the book to go home early ! Good luck on your NT too! Update us tomorrow on how it went!
Fucking. Allergies.
Killing me. I can't take it anymore.
Yep! I took a zyrtec every single day for two years to keep a handle on my allergies. I stopped taking them with baby and BAM here they are. Bitches.
I'd like to third this (a bit late). I tried to stop allergy meds, but I finally decided that me not sleeping at all (ever) was probably worse for the baby than the Claritin. So now I'm taking at least two 24 hour ones every day. And it's still not enough most days I can't wait for this allergy season to be over!
So we are living with my parents while our house is being built which is super nice of them. BUT if I have to hear 1 more lecture on how I'm not eating enough I'm going to go crazy. From both parents and my 18 year old sister. SERIOUSLY I don't have to eat like a cow just because I'm pregnant. If my Dr tells me I'm not eating enough then I will change my eating habits. At the moment I don't think I'm physically capable of eating more than I am.
Grr! DH's new job offers housing as part of his pay which is really awesome. It's farm/ranch housing so it's never anything fancy, but always decent. Unfortunately, the house does need some repairs, but the company can't make the necessary repairs until sep-fucking-tember! It's great that they offer housing, but it would be more great if it was actually available a little less close to my due date. Andplusalso, if they actually start in September, it might the end of the month before they are done which would be about a month before my EDD. Yay for moving a month before I am due. And don't even get me started are setting up the nursery in that time. Super annoyed!!
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
Aw I'm sorry love! I would have been mad too! I didn't get a gift this year....or a card but that's ok because I treat myself to stuff I want. (With our shared bank account!)
I saw a commercial the other day for Starburst Minis and instantly decided that I needed them in my life. So today I picked some up. I don't know if it's because they're unwrapped, but they taste different than regular Starbursts. Kind of waxy. WTF.
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
Awww, I'm sorry. Happy Mother's Day!!!
You're a great mom and I have learned a lot from you!
I'm so damn tired. I feel like I never get to sit down unless I'm working at my computer which is exhausting in a different way. This exhaustion is making me hate Everything! Random stuff like the outside credit card reader at sonic not working and people making perfectly reasonable requests for changes to some technical documentation I submitted are just making me rage. I feel like I need to eat all the things and go hibernate in a cave made of pillows for a couple weeks.
DD Born 11.27.2011 BFP 9.19.2013 - EDD 6.1.2014 - MMC @ 8 weeks 3 days
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
OMG I would have been insanely pissed off - kudos to you for keeping your cool all day AND while explaining to him why you were upset. I would have gone off the deep end. I hope he understands now what a big deal it is and how to deal with it in the future...
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
OMG I would have been insanely pissed off - kudos to you for keeping your cool all day AND while explaining to him why you were upset. I would have gone off the deep end. I hope he understands now what a big deal it is and how to deal with it in the future...
He understands that it upset me. Until I came along he never even did anything for his own mom. Now I do it for his mom on his behalf. I can't stand her not at least getting flowers. She's so sweet and none of her other kids do anything.
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
OMG I would have been insanely pissed off - kudos to you for keeping your cool all day AND while explaining to him why you were upset. I would have gone off the deep end. I hope he understands now what a big deal it is and how to deal with it in the future...
He understands that it upset me. Until I came along he never even did anything for his own mom. Now I do it for his mom on his behalf. I can't stand her not at least getting flowers. She's so sweet and none of her other kids do anything.
Awww his poor mom! Good for you for being such a good daughter-in-law!
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
I do believe Father's Day is coming soon ....Maybe give him a taste of his own medicine? I'm not sure if that would be catty or well-deserved, though. Maybe a little of both?
Lol! My plan is to be very nice on Father's Day to make him feel worse XD and trust me, he will remember
I find it very frustrating how the vast majority of our friends and family are picky/boring eaters. DH and I love to cook and try new things. I see all these great appetizers and such but it would be so wasted on our crowd.
I'm super grumpy. Between headaches, allergies, and a super tender stomach I feel like crap
On top of that My DH wants us to move out and remodel our house BEFORE the babies. My due date is 11/15 but my dr says to be prepared 10/15 with twins. We were already having an architect do plans but now the guys swears he can have it done in 4 months. My DH believes him and thinks everything will be fine. When in the history of the world has a contractor ever gotten anything done in time??? This guy was 6 weeks late with my friends remodeling their garage as in one room. DH keeps ignoring me when I say I'm scared, don't want to do this, I am not fucking moving etc. SO STRESSED and FRUSTRATED! Any other time this would be fun.
It's super hard to find a rental for 4-6 months here in the summer and WAY more expensive due to bring close to the beach. All I want is to be in my home. Am I crazy thinking I'd rather move in feb? Once I know a little of what I'm doing and there are way more places available?
PS I've decided for the purpose of this post DH=Dumbass Husband
DH has way more mood swings lately than I do. He is lucky that he wasn't smothered in his sleep last night. He was just fine until our landlord called saying he is showing the house Wednesday. Well it's a huge mess so we have some cleaning to do... Then DD threw up everywhere. So the asshole goes on a huge rant about how. This isn't what he imagined his life being. WTF. He is apparently upset we live in a "hell hole" and how we should be living better. We bought a house! We are moving in 3 weeks. I don't understand his stupid rant at all. I think he is still mad he doesn't have a job in his field. He wants to apply for a job that is 1.5 hours away plus traffic. I told him that it's kind of dumb because it won't be worth the expense of gas. He knows this but I guess wanted to be in denial about it
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
UGH Men!! I love your plan to still do something nice for fathers day, I think it'll be the perfect way to make him feel terrible and hopefully he'll do something nice next year! Happy belated Mothers Day I remember when I was pregnant on mothers day 2 years ago my DH said I wasn't a mother yet so he wasn't getting me anything...and even a week or so ago I mentioned our "kids" and he said we only have one right now. Am I wrong in considering the baby in my belly a living part of our family??? Geez.
I'm super grumpy. Between headaches, allergies, and a super tender stomach I feel like crap
On top of that My DH wants us to move out and remodel our house BEFORE the babies. My due date is 11/15 but my dr says to be prepared 10/15 with twins. We were already having an architect do plans but now the guys swears he can have it done in 4 months. My DH believes him and thinks everything will be fine. When in the history of the world has a contractor ever gotten anything done in time??? This guy was 6 weeks late with my friends remodeling their garage as in one room. DH keeps ignoring me when I say I'm scared, don't want to do this, I am not fucking moving etc. SO STRESSED and FRUSTRATED! Any other time this would be fun.
It's super hard to find a rental for 4-6 months here in the summer and WAY more expensive due to bring close to the beach. All I want is to be in my home. Am I crazy thinking I'd rather move in feb? Once I know a little of what I'm doing and there are way more places available?
PS I've decided for the purpose of this post DH=Dumbass Husband
This baby wasnt planned and now we have to sell our house and move before this new one comes. Personally, I'd much rather do it before the baby came. Things get much harder with newborns or an infant. Plus, you don't have to carry anything now his timing is bads though. Silly husband!
We watch very little cable TV, mostly just Netflix and Hulu since we always miss things when they come on. The one exception is Mad Men. When we went to watch the new episode last night, AMC had an error message on it saying that this channel would be available shortly. Well, it wasn't and we missed the show. Ugh. Of course the cable doesn't work the one time we want it to.
Fortunately they post the episodes online and you can sign in with your cable info and watch it later.
@beatrixkiddo19 have you watched it yet? When you do, you should start a thread about it. I watched it last night and would love to talk about that episode. :-)
@kakicloud We watched it last night! When Don busts into that meeting at the end, I giggled like a little girl. Go get em, Don.
I've been super busy all day but I definitely have a bitch. This was suppose to be my first Mother's Day with an outside baby. Last year I was still pregnant. I didn't expect the moon or anything. But it would have been nice if he had even said happy Mother's Day. A week ago we had a chat about what to expect for Mother's Day and Father's Day. We came up with breakfast in bed (but only once DD is old enough to 'help'), a card (preferably home made but we are busy so it doesn't have to be) and a homemade gift from DD. I didn't even get acknowledged yesterday from him. I got cards from my sister and mom and flowers from my sister. We gave flowers to all the moms and cards to our moms. I got nothing from him.
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
UGH Men!! I love your plan to still do something nice for fathers day, I think it'll be the perfect way to make him feel terrible and hopefully he'll do something nice next year! Happy belated Mothers Day I remember when I was pregnant on mothers day 2 years ago my DH said I wasn't a mother yet so he wasn't getting me anything...and even a week or so ago I mentioned our "kids" and he said we only have one right now. Am I wrong in considering the baby in my belly a living part of our family??? Geez.
I got so many comments on Mother's Day about "almost" being a mom. Totally rubbed me the wrong way.
It's not Tuesday? Don't care. So bummed. I don't need them yet but I saw a pair of J Brand maternity jeans ($200 regularly) for $29 online. They finally arrived and.... They don't fit because of my GIANT HILLARY CLINTON THUNDER CALVES. eff me. My belly is supposed to be too fat for jeans, not my legs. Ew. If anyone is a size 32 and doesn't have fat legs holla at me brah, I'll hook you up.
@econosaurus where did you find cheap j brand maternity jeans??? i bought gap maternity jeans and they can suck it. they bag out immediately wtf?!?! and they are too big in general. PSA anyone buying gap maternity pants, jeans or work pants, buy one size smaller trust me. i might take you up on your offer though do you have a pic?
TW*** Child and loss mentioned Married 10/12 DS 11/14 Ectopic 2/16 PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16 IUI x 3- BFN Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos FET- 6/17- BFP! Due Feb 15, 2017
I'm super grumpy. Between headaches, allergies, and a super tender stomach I feel like crap
On top of that My DH wants us to move out and remodel our house BEFORE the babies. My due date is 11/15 but my dr says to be prepared 10/15 with twins. We were already having an architect do plans but now the guys swears he can have it done in 4 months. My DH believes him and thinks everything will be fine. When in the history of the world has a contractor ever gotten anything done in time??? This guy was 6 weeks late with my friends remodeling their garage as in one room. DH keeps ignoring me when I say I'm scared, don't want to do this, I am not fucking moving etc. SO STRESSED and FRUSTRATED! Any other time this would be fun.
It's super hard to find a rental for 4-6 months here in the summer and WAY more expensive due to bring close to the beach. All I want is to be in my home. Am I crazy thinking I'd rather move in feb? Once I know a little of what I'm doing and there are way more places available?
PS I've decided for the purpose of this post DH=Dumbass Husband
I would be super hesitant too... we just finished renovating our bathroom (just one room) and it took 4 months.
It's not Tuesday? Don't care. So bummed. I don't need them yet but I saw a pair of J Brand maternity jeans ($200 regularly) for $29 online. They finally arrived and.... They don't fit because of my GIANT HILLARY CLINTON THUNDER CALVES. eff me. My belly is supposed to be too fat for jeans, not my legs. Ew. If anyone is a size 32 and doesn't have fat legs holla at me brah, I'll hook you up.
This cracked me up! I seriously laughed out loud at my desk. I tried on about 400 pairs of maternity jeans last weekend and everything everything made me look like I was wearing a diaper. I get that I have a flat ass but is it too much to ask for ONE pair to fit around my wide ass hips without looking like I'm in depends!? It was such a waste of time and energy.
We watch very little cable TV, mostly just Netflix and Hulu since we always miss things when they come on. The one exception is Mad Men. When we went to watch the new episode last night, AMC had an error message on it saying that this channel would be available shortly. Well, it wasn't and we missed the show. Ugh. Of course the cable doesn't work the one time we want it to.
Fortunately they post the episodes online and you can sign in with your cable info and watch it later.
@beatrixkiddo19 have you watched it yet? When you do, you should start a thread about it. I watched it last night and would love to talk about that episode. :-)
@kakicloud We watched it last night! When Don busts into that meeting at the end, I giggled like a little girl. Go get em, Don.
Ahhh! I have it dvr'd but have passed out the minute after dinner Sunday and Monday. Blackhawks play tonight and we have plans tomorrow so I guess I'll just hope to see it on Thursday.
It's supposed to be in the triple digits all week. It's May, I am not ready for this heat. I am not looking forward to the extreme heat this summer. Plus we are in an extreme drought, which means major fire issues.
It's supposed to be mid eighties in Portland today and the heat is already making me grumpy. I'm supposed to take a trip to Phoenix in June and I think I might just pass out on the sidewalk!
We need a house. Houses are selling in our area in less than 24 hours for more than asking price and I am overwhelmed and frustrated and just want to cry.
Sorry for the late reply. But I definitely relate as my area is the same way. It is like a train of people in the house while you are waiting to see it and then waiting outside for you to leave. I have been soo frustrated and have almost given up. Everyone is bidding higher than asking as well. I wish you all the luck in the world.
Crossing our fingers we think we finally found one and they accepted but we were lucky enough to be the first in and bid right away a few thousand over.
Our agent wrote a very nice letter to the sellers as well. Hoping to stir some emotion about a young pregnant couple searching for a house. Maybe try that
Good luck and I sincerely hope you find something soon
Re: Monday Bitchfest
N14 Nov. Siggy: CELEBRATION!
@Getzy512 Happy Birthday!! Maybe see if DH will give you a rain check for your birthday dinner ?
That would suck to not be able to enjoy it.
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013
BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
Dx: PCOS
DS1 born 11/2014
DS2 born 11/2018
3 previous losses
Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green
Then he actually had the gall to ask me what's wrong at the end of the night. I surprised myself by how calm I explained how upset I was. He then says he doesn't remember the convo at all but somehow remembered the breakfast in bed part. You lazy ass.
I would have been over the moon for a card from DD. Over the moon. We collectively agreed to what to expect for those days, so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
At least he felt bad.
Happy Mother's Day!!!
You're a great mom and I have learned a lot from you!
DD Born 11.27.2011
BFP 9.19.2013 - EDD 6.1.2014 - MMC @ 8 weeks 3 days
Happy belated Mother's Day!! You're pretty awesome!
My bitch, nothing. I'm gonna sprinkle this bitchfest with love and unicorns and some damn cupcakes.
He understands that it upset me. Until I came along he never even did anything for his own mom. Now I do it for his mom on his behalf. I can't stand her not at least getting flowers. She's so sweet and none of her other kids do anything.
Lol! My plan is to be very nice on Father's Day to make him feel worse XD and trust me, he will remember
On top of that My DH wants us to move out and remodel our house BEFORE the babies. My due date is 11/15 but my dr says to be prepared 10/15 with twins. We were already having an architect do plans but now the guys swears he can have it done in 4 months. My DH believes him and thinks everything will be fine. When in the history of the world has a contractor ever gotten anything done in time??? This guy was 6 weeks late with my friends remodeling their garage as in one room. DH keeps ignoring me when I say I'm scared, don't want to do this, I am not fucking moving etc. SO STRESSED and FRUSTRATED! Any other time this would be fun.
It's super hard to find a rental for 4-6 months here in the summer and WAY more expensive due to bring close to the beach. All I want is to be in my home. Am I crazy thinking I'd rather move in feb? Once I know a little of what I'm doing and there are way more places available?
PS I've decided for the purpose of this post DH=Dumbass Husband
So the asshole goes on a huge rant about how. This isn't what he imagined his life being. WTF. He is apparently upset we live in a "hell hole" and how we should be living better. We bought a house! We are moving in 3 weeks. I don't understand his stupid rant at all. I think he is still mad he doesn't have a job in his field. He wants to apply for a job that is 1.5 hours away plus traffic. I told him that it's kind of dumb because it won't be worth the expense of gas. He knows this but I guess wanted to be in denial about it
I remember when I was pregnant on mothers day 2 years ago my DH said I wasn't a mother yet so he wasn't getting me anything...and even a week or so ago I mentioned our "kids" and he said we only have one right now. Am I wrong in considering the baby in my belly a living part of our family??? Geez.
N14 November Siggy Challenge - Celebration
This baby wasnt planned and now we have to sell our house and move before this new one comes. Personally, I'd much rather do it before the baby came. Things get much harder with newborns or an infant. Plus, you don't have to carry anything now
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
Mmmmm... Lou Malnati's... Now I'm going to crave Lou's until i go back to Chicago in June!
Ahhh! I have it dvr'd but have passed out the minute after dinner Sunday and Monday. Blackhawks play tonight and we have plans tomorrow so I guess I'll just hope to see it on Thursday.
Sorry for the late reply. But I definitely relate as my area is the same way. It is like a train of people in the house while you are waiting to see it and then waiting outside for you to leave. I have been soo frustrated and have almost given up. Everyone is bidding higher than asking as well. I wish you all the luck in the world.
Crossing our fingers we think we finally found one and they accepted but we were lucky enough to be the first in and bid right away a few thousand over.
Our agent wrote a very nice letter to the sellers as well. Hoping to stir some emotion about a young pregnant couple searching for a house. Maybe try that
Good luck and I sincerely hope you find something soon