When I was pregnant with DD, our boy name was Julian David. We shared our name choices, and didn't get positive feedback about Julian. Other people's opinions are not dealbreakers for us (unless they have a legitimate reason not to use a name, which nobody did - the most common feedback was either that it made people think of a character on the TV show Trailer Park Boys, or people just said things like "oh that's interesting/unique/different"). As much as we don't really care, I think the opinions did get into our heads a little because now we're not as sure about Julian as we were before.
One of my H's favourite things about the name was the potential nickname JD. David is a family name and will be the middle name if baby #2 is a boy. DD is Norah Lynn, we still like Julian and also like James. Any other suggestions for boys names starting with a J? Preferences between Julian and James?
Girl name (not set in stone but likely), for those who are curious, might be Susanna (middle name Margaret, Margot, Jane or Joan have all been floated, all family names)
Names that are out because of family/friend use or that we just don't like: John, Jayden, Jackson/Jaxon, Jerry, Jace, Jeffrey
Re: Boy names starting with a J
Other J names - Joshua, Joel, Jeremiah, Jonah, Jacob.
You can also use the Duggars' name list for inspiration. ;-)
My suggestion would be to go with a name that you and your DH likes. It is your kid after all! Good luck with the name selecting!
I love Julian. James is my H, it's a fine name, just not something I adore with a flaming passion.
Other options that haven't been mentioned: Jack, Jared, Jay, Jerome, Jesse, Jonah, Jonathan, Julius
Those others aren't my style personally, but nobody had mentioned them so thought I'd throw them out there.
I love Julian!
How about Jasper?