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cdubs85
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XP-Only God knows why...(Loss mentioned). Will you all have me back?
cdubs85
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I know there are some who don't believe in God, but please bare with me. I don't mean to offend anyone, but these are my views. This is my way of coping with the loss of my angel. Yesterday I started spotting and decided to call my doctor. He thought there was no need to worry and for me to try and rest and relax until my next appointment on Friday. This morning, I woke up to more spotting and decided I needed to go the ER. Sure enough, we discovered I now have two angels watching over me. My first was a chemical pregnancy and never really felt "real". After hearing the heartbeat with this one, I had so much hope and dreams for this little guy. Physically, I am not in pain. Mentally, I never knew I could feel such a loss and such a void from just hearing a heartbeat. I'm not exactly sure where we'll go from here, but my husband and I know God has a wonderful plan for us. One day we'll experience the joy of having a baby and becoming parents.
As for now, I know there are some ladies on this board that have experienced repeated losses. My husband and I don't really know what's going to happen next (I'll be calling my OB tomorrow to discuss options), but would like to hear about experience with repeated loss testing or what steps you all have taken. Also, any advice on what to ask tomorrow would be great.
I'm sorry if this post seems like a jumbled mess, my mind is cloudy right now.
RPL Panel, CD 3 BW, Karyotype, SIS all normal, We have a PLAN!
Romans 8:18-For I consider the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.
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Re: XP-Only God knows why...(Loss mentioned). Will you all have me back?
BFP 6/15/14 EDD: 2/24/15
Baby #2 due April 2017
What Are Your Thoughts on Tap Dancing Penguins?
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
https://ttcalblog.wordpress.com/2012/08/08/recurrent-pregnancy-loss-rpl-testing/
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
A PP posted the link to the TTCAL RPL testing thread, and it does have a lot of good info about it. As far as doing the testing goes, that's going to be up to your OB and sometimes your insurance. Most OBs won't start it until after 3 losses with no live birth in between. Some only count losses after a sac can be detected, so CPs may or may not count (I absolutely believe they are losses, my doctor counts them as such, but some doctors do not). And some/most insurance companies won't start cover RPL testing until after 3 losses. Losses may also affect when you're able to be seen for testing down the road, some doctors re-set the clock with losses and some don't.
TW for this advice *******************Also, if you are having a D&C, your doctor may want to run some testing on the products of conception to get an idea of if there were chromosomal issues that might have caused the loss and if they can tell if it is something that is recurrent or a one-off thing. I would ask your doctor about this.
Take care of yourself.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
TTC 10/2013
RE Help from 10/2014-10/2016 (11 failed IUIs, a corrective surgery, and a donor embryo cycle)
9/2016-transferred two donor embies
BFP 9/29/26 EDD June 11
Surprise BFP Feb 2008 MC at 6w2d
BFP! 10/28/14 EDD 7/5/15
TTC#1 Jan 14
BFP! 17 Aug 2014 | EDD 26 April 15
We went home and I was able to eat lunch without any nausea (though some people get nausea after anesthesia). I had very mild cramping (much less than the cytotec preop) which I took the prescription aleve and that relieved it. I bled for about a week afterward but nothing heavy. Physically the experience wasn't bad at all so try not to stress. If you have any other questions please ask here or PM. Other people also have written out there experiences on the miscarriage board.
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
July TTGP Siggie Challenge: Favorite GP/Reality TV Show
TTC #1
Me (30), DH (30)
6/13/14 - Began O & 7 DPO bloodwork
Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013
Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks)
July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick!
EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
BFP #2 11/6/13 - EDD 7/14/14 - blighted ovum discovered @ 7w - natural m/c @ 10w3d
BFP #3 5/25/14 - EDD 2/1/15 - Hoping this is our 2nd little owl
A/S findings: Baby is a girl! EIF found on heart
but maternit21 came back neg for chromosome disorders!!
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BFP#1 7/13/11 EDD 3/16/12 DS born 3/16/12
BFP#2 5/16/14 EDD 1/23/15 CP 5/21/14
BFP#3 6/25/14 EDD 3/2/15
Open Heart Surgery @ 5 months old.Happy, healthy, and as normal as could be! We thank God every day.EP/BF for 12.5 months
TTC#2 - November 2012
BFP #4: O'd on CD25 (Aug. 2014). DD May 6, 2015. RCS planned.
Beta@14dpo: 184, 17dpo: 520. 44 hr. doubling time. p4: 54U/S 8 weeks 1 day, 161 bpm
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