Throat Punch Weekend Edition

blackbird818 · May 2014

Daily vents, frustrations, shitty shit, etc go here.

rubysi · May 2014

***** BFP warning not mine ****

I started work at 2 am because one of my freight staff is out. I got off at 9 am and DH wanted to get a couple of things at the store. I don't know if it is this weekend in general or my lack of sleep, or some combination of the 2... I totally shut down. My friend works at the store I went to, I have been unable to really relate to her since my loss, her conversation (rightfully so) revolves around her DD, dropped the bomb that she was 7 weeks. She doesn't know about my loss and I can't blame her for being offended at my lack of response, I just didn't know what to say... I thought I was getting better clearly things can still catch you off guard. I think I am going to spend the rest of my weekend hiding from everyone else.

rubysi · May 2014

EurydiceNymph said:

::Lifts up corner of couch-cushion-and-blanket-fort:: You can hide in here with me @rubysi! ((Hugs)) to you.

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rubysi · May 2014

GrailSeeker14 said:

Can I TP whatever is causing the evil, vile funk in my fridge?

And TP to my husband, bargained with me that he'd clean the catbox if I would clean out the fridge.
I totally made a deal with the devil right there... and it was *NOT* worth it.

Maybe he put the box in the fridge...

Km380 · May 2014

Can I throat punch myself for forgetting the main reason I went to target was a thermometer so I can start temping? Got the OPKs for next cycle, forgot the thermometer.

@rubysi (((hugs)))
@GrailSeeker14‌ sneaky husband! Unfair deal for sure

rubysi · May 2014

Km380 said:

Can I throat punch myself for forgetting the main reason I went to target was a thermometer so I can start temping? Got the OPKs for next cycle, forgot the thermometer. @rubysi (((hugs))) @GrailSeeker14‌ sneaky husband! Unfair deal for sure

StephieMK · May 2014

**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

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rubysi · May 2014

StephieMK said:

**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

I am sorry... HUGS...

rubysi · May 2014

Megdowntheshore said:

I'm always afraid to TP people because I am paranoid that they'll somehow find the thread, read it and figure out who I am. I'm sure nobody is that interested in my life, but I still get nervous.

But here's one anyway. I feel bad TP'ing her because she means well. My coworker, who struggled with IF, has two adopted daughters. She never stops talking about them. She knew about my latest loss because a lot of people at my school knew. She came over to me at lunch yesterday and told me that she will be thinking of me this weekend because she knows how hard it can be on Mother's Day. It was really sweet. But then she proceeded to talk my ear off about her daughters for twenty straight minutes. I guess she thinks that, because she also had trouble, I don't mind hearing so much about her kids. But at this point, I am sad and envious of all people that have little ones, and I worry just as much about IVF not working as I do about not being able to afford/successfully adopt.

So, there's my TP.

I am sorry she started with a nice message and forgot who she was talking to. I am also envious... be good to yourself this weekend.

Km380 · May 2014

@stephiemk that is just awful I'm so sorry you're dealing with that from your sister of all people.

@Megdowntheshore‌ hugs. She should know from going through it to not act like that

O2girl · May 2014

StephieMK said:
**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

Good heavens!!! What kind of person says that to someone going through a m/c let alone a family member!!!
I'm so sorry!!! TP her HARD

O2girl · May 2014

Megdowntheshore said:
I'm always afraid to TP people because I am paranoid that they'll somehow find the thread, read it and figure out who I am. I'm sure nobody is that interested in my life, but I still get nervous.

But here's one anyway. I feel bad TP'ing her because she means well. My coworker, who struggled with IF, has two adopted daughters. She never stops talking about them. She knew about my latest loss because a lot of people at my school knew. She came over to me at lunch yesterday and told me that she will be thinking of me this weekend because she knows how hard it can be on Mother's Day. It was really sweet. But then she proceeded to talk my ear off about her daughters for twenty straight minutes. I guess she thinks that, because she also had trouble, I don't mind hearing so much about her kids. But at this point, I am sad and envious of all people that have little ones, and I worry just as much about IVF not working as I do about not being able to afford/successfully adopt.

So, there's my TP.

It did start off nice.....

((Hugs))

damj1208 · May 2014

StephieMK said:

**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

That. Is. NOT. OKAY!! Oh I'd be livid if I were you, too. I'm so sorry that you are dealing with that from someone who should very much be a comfort to you!!

damj1208 · May 2014

TP to the lady down the road with horses WHO KEEPS RIDING ON OUR LAND. Our land is COVERED in posted signs and this woman, who is a veterinarian, so an intelligent woman, thinks it's another family's land that gave her permission. IT'S POSTED LAND WITH OUR NAME AND PHONE NUMBER!! If they get hurt on our steep ravine, we are going to get sued!! I'm livid. We've tried to talk to her a few times. I don't know if we should call the police or what?? If I go over there now, I'm going to be the one in trouble. I'm just so irritated!!

Denise91980 · May 2014

****warning- pregnancy mentioned (NOT mine)****

A big fat TP and junk punch to H's friend, who rarely calls him, and decided that Mother's Day would be a good day to call him and tell him that his wife is 5 weeks pregnant. WTF??? You couldn't wait until tomorrow? I was in a great mood and was sitting next to him so I heard the words come out of his mouth and my eyes just welled up with tears and H's face sank.

Sorry to bring this up here but I am so effing mad. I expected some of this stuff on FB with randoms and was totally prepared for that. But not this!

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O2girl · May 2014

meladoriestar said:
TP to the guy last night who asked if I have kids and I said it's complicated because I've had 3 losses. He told me that in future I should probably keep that to myself and to learn to have more of a filter. I did tell him to go fuck himself and that felt good.

Seriously.... Why do people ask a question that may have a response that makes them uncomfortable? I want to TP him too! I hope in the "future" he learns to utilize a filter that has a sensitivity chip.

blackbird818 · May 2014

@meladoriestar‌ Fuck him!!! And a giant kick in the dick too!!! What a complete asshat! I'm sorry you had to deal with that lovie. (((Hugs))) to you & good for you for telling him off. He deserved it and much more.

BackstreetPixie · May 2014

StephieMK said:

**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

TP to her! OMG what a horrible thing to do to you! ugh and you were trying to help her with her loans... that is just awful. ::hugs::

BackstreetPixie · May 2014

meladoriestar said:

TP to the guy last night who asked if I have kids and I said it's complicated because I've had 3 losses. He told me that in future I should probably keep that to myself and to learn to have more of a filter. I did tell him to go fuck himself and that felt good.

What an ass. Don't ask a question if you may not like the answer... ugh

BackstreetPixie · May 2014

@Rubysi ::Hugs::

Km380 · May 2014

@meladoriestar‌ so many expletives! Good for you telling him off! Maybe he should learn to filter his questions. What a shitty shitty thing. I'm sorry you encountered such an asshat.

@snegde yea that. It just happened to me in the liquor store. I just turned and walked away while mh paid.

stephy1221 · May 2014

meladoriestar said:

TP to the guy last night who asked if I have kids and I said it's complicated because I've had 3 losses. He told me that in future I should probably keep that to myself and to learn to have more of a filter. I did tell him to go fuck himself and that felt good.

So sorry you had to deal with that jerk. Glad you got turned tell him off though.

buggirl72 · May 2014

StephieMK said:

**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

I'm sorry she is being so spiteful. If she has more than one student loan, encourage her to consolidate. What I would tell her is that it will help fer by having only one loan and possibly lower interest. They will approve her for this (assuming these are part of the federal student loan process).
The good for you - no consigner needed so you are no longer on the hook for the loans. The bad for you - you may need to get the loans caught up because she must be current to qualify but, honestly, you are screwed if you don't pay them because the government will come after your assets.

luciddreamer106 · May 2014

((Hugs)) to all of you. I'm sorry you're all dealing with asshats this weekend as if it weren't hard enough

Denise91980 · May 2014

meladoriestar said:
TP to the guy last night who asked if I have kids and I said it's complicated because I've had 3 losses. He told me that in future I should probably keep that to myself and to learn to have more of a filter. I did tell him to go fuck himself and that felt good.

WTF is wrong with people??? Junk punch is also on order there.((hugs))

StephieMK · May 2014

@rubysi‌ ((hugs))

@Megdowntheshore‌ ((hugs))

@damj1208‌ it's unfortunate how some people really choose to be inconsiderate! Sounds like she deserves to fall into a ravine! On someone else's land, of course!

@Denise91980‌ ((hugs))

@meladoriestar‌ Wtf is wrong with people?! Sounds like he needs a filter...and a good kick in the nuts!!

Km380 · May 2014

Not sure where to post this - anyone else further into a bottle of wine than they'd care to admit?

greenbumbletea · May 2014

Hugs to everyone.

Today has been an especially hard day for me. I didn't even think it'd hit me this hard to be very honest. Bursts of tears randomly and feelings that I cannot put into words. I am so genuinely happy for my pg friends especially knowing of their own share of losses, but I cannot put away this sad feeling that comes straight from my heart. I'm sure I am just feeling the hormones is all...still TTC. Silent prayer is all that seems to help. TP.

longcat07 · May 2014

meladoriestar said:

TP to the guy last night who asked if I have kids and I said it's complicated because I've had 3 losses. He told me that in future I should probably keep that to myself and to learn to have more of a filter. I did tell him to go fuck himself and that felt good.

omg, seriously? maybe he should take his own advice. fucking douchenozzle.

longcat07 · May 2014

StephieMK said:

**PG warning**

Can I TP my insensitive, spiteful sister? Less than a week into my m/c, she had the nerve to say, "cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it!"!!! Did I mention she happens to be about 19 wks pregnant and "wasn't trying"? While I happen to be TTC for 2.5 yrs and dealing with MFI. The spiteful part? I cosigned her college loans that she's chosen to stop paying because I'm not talking to her. She pulled the student loan crap back in 2012 (when she decided to not pay for a whole year!!) and I finally just got my credit back to normal!

Why couldn't I have just been an only child??

picking my jaw up off the floor yet again. WTF is wrong with people? you don't mess with people's lives over a tiff. what a bitch.

ngolimento · May 2014

TP to my in laws and their little game of 'bring up having babies on the sly'. They do this every time we see them. It's getting really old.

O2girl · May 2014

Km380 said:
Not sure where to post this - anyone else further into a bottle of wine than they'd care to admit?

ME!!!

longcat07 · May 2014

mine's really mild compared to others here, but can i still TP my future FIL? we were visiting them for the weekend, something he's been begging us to come do for almost a month but it hasn't worked out till now. he thought it would be appropriate to ask me last night if "things were working better" for me "this time". this time? he clarified by saying "another bun in the oven." um, no, sorry, just overweight and bloated. my partner called him on it and he decided to give both of us the silent/avoidance treatment for the rest of the weekend, including sneaking off to go fishing this morning and planning on not coming back till after we'd left to head home this afternoon. you know, because we're the assholes, or something like that.

damj1208 · May 2014

@StephieMK‌ Seriously!!

@Km380‌ I brought my mom a bottle of local Concord, one of her fav's since it tastes like grape juice. She wasn't feeling all that well because the pain meds from her recent surgery are turning her stomach. I opened it anyway expecting DH to have some. Nope, my parents bought him SoCo. I. Drank. The. Entire. Bottle. Of. Wine. MYSELF. Ughhhh. I go back to work tomorrow. Crap.

*EDIT: for spelling because, well, I drank the entire bottle. Crap again.

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