Sorry took so long ladies. It sounds like we are on borrowed time. No baby yet. They gave me meds to knock me out because of my headache. It was 7/10 and not letting up. I slept well. Headache was gone but creeping back. My labs were good so nurse thinks we bought another day.
Oh oh BTW had another big ultrasound today!!! She weighs 5 lbs 8 oz. has TONS of LONG hair!! Plus major chubby cheeks!! Kind of looks like my chin.
So we wait and wait. I figure if I just sleep then she won't come out. I have yet to hear of someone sleeping through labor. Lol
It's looking great-ish for everyone at the moment.
Claire's kidney cysts are looking cancerous so they've scheduled a c-section on May 15th! Sure it might've because of potential bad news and hardship for us, but I'm excited to meet her!!
I hope everyone is doing well! You guys are always on my mind!
@Ahug77 sorry for the not so good news. You have been so strong so I'm going to do what I do best. Bitch!!
Why is it that an unborn child gets a cancer diagnosis. Now I'm a religious person and totally get the "he does what's best even though we don't understand " but seriously. I think my faith has really suffered lately and I hope I get stronger in that area of my life.
I just can't imagine.
But it looks like our princesses may share a birthday!!! May 15 th here too.
I pray for your princess and all our lil ones here. It just gets so hard to have faith when you have the worst sitting in front of you.
I could go on but they already are watching my BP. My SO ex wife is causing me high BP as it is.
@Ahug77 sorry for the not so good news. You have been so strong so I'm going to do what I do best. Bitch!!
Why is it that an unborn child gets a cancer diagnosis. Now I'm a religious person and totally get the "he does what's best even though we don't understand " but seriously. I think my faith has really suffered lately and I hope I get stronger in that area of my life.
I just can't imagine.
But it looks like our princesses may share a birthday!!! May 15 th here too.
I pray for your princess and all our lil ones here. It just gets so hard to have faith when you have the worst sitting in front of you.
I could go on but they already are watching my BP. My SO ex wife is causing me high BP as it is.
I don't consider myself strong, but if I am you are just as strong!!! You've had to put up with a bunch of stuff like crazy nurses/techs/SO's ex-wife. I hope our LOs are bday buddies It'd be nice to share that with her when she's older, if she makes it there.
I am a little jealous that you know whether your LO has hair or not, btw. I have no idea and the truth is she looks so much like me, it's crazy. I really wanted her to have my husband's hair- full, wavy, and dark! It may be a while before I get to see what she gets. -pout-
As for my faith, it hasn't changed. Actually, crap like this is common in my family on both my mom's and dad's side. Even at the worst, the effects on our lives has always been amazing and everlasting. Sure it sucks, but life sucks. My thought process is, "Why get mad about things you can't change? Enjoy the things you can and then move on because there are always good things with the bad."
It was a roller coaster. We are waiting to hear right now on induction. They literally are on the fence every four hours about what to do. I'm kind of thinking this weekend it will happen. All my nurses are saying so too. Waiting to hear back from dr.
Are you celebrating Mother's Day?
I assume if I have her we will make a big deal out of it for sure. I got a few gifts from my SD. A willow tree figurine that has mommy holding two kids. It's her and bean she said. ( not forgetting she also has 3 other sisters, but she is my closest to me. Plus she picked it out on her own) SO got me cards too I know but not sure from there. We don't have Step kids as its Mother's Day.
What was your fav meal this week?
I've had so many yummy foods. My family and friends food is the best by far and people are really stepping up. It feels great to be loved.
Are you running out of clean clothes yet? Do you wear hospital ones or yours?
I wear my own and I set aside a "pack now" and "incase for later piles" I just knew I was not coming home. I have asked SO multiple times to bring me everything that was in the "incase" pile. Real clothes mixed with comfy stuff. He doesn't get it. Brings me shirts that are his... Cuz they will fit but they are beer or stupid guy shirts. I'm really surprised the Irish one that says my penis is Irish was not one he brought up. Finally told my mom and she brought some things from her house. She had gastric surgery so had some bigger clothes. I think it's only fair cuz she is wearing my prepregnancy clothes right now anyways. Lol.
I am celebrating my first mother's day with food and family! I really need to have my room upgraded to fit all my guests
My favorite meal was tonight when my husband brought me BBQ from our favorite local restaurant. It is our 5th wedding anniversary today! I have been keeping him so busy getting things ready for baby that he is passed out right now on the pull out chair bed in my room. He is exhausted and it makes me feel bad that he has so much responsibilities and I just hang out and nap all day.
I am wearing my own clothes and my husband takes them home to wash them. The only problem I am finding is some of the clothes that fit when I was admitted no longer fit. I don't know if it is the baby getting bigger or all the sweets I have been craving.
What is everyone wearing on bed rest? I always wonder what the bed rest fashion is,
I am just wearing PJ bottoms and my husbands shirts. I didn't buy many lounging maternity clothes just mainly work clothes so I don't have anything cute. I do love that I have plenty of cute girly socks to wear that make me happy.
I am wearing a combination of things. I also have the don't fit anymore problem. However I do have a pj dress that looks like a maxi dress and a Maxi dress that is really comfortable. My shorts are way past booty shorts. Mostly tanks and SO t shirts. Pj type clothes.
@Mom&nurse I am also wearing the stupid guy shirts. I can not wait to go home and do my hair, makeup and wear normal clothes! Yeah with a newborn that might be a while but it is nice to think about.
@LexieMarie0001, happy anniversary!!! So glad you could celebrate.
My week was pretty good! I had an ultra sound today and all looks good! Baby is 5 lbs, 1 ounce! and she has hair hoorah!
Yes, I'm celebrating Mother's Day. DH and my fam will stop by at some points during the day.
Favorite meal this week? Well, for the third time in 3 weeks, we had Lebanese food; me, DH and my sister. I had grilled lamb, rice, fatoosh salad, falafel, hummus and stuffed grape leaves so so so good.
As for clothes, I had DH bring me my favorite pajamas, yoga pants, maternity shirts and t-shirts. My mom also bought me maternity yoga pants and capris, socks, undies and nursing bras.
I did take advantage of an Old Navy sale when I was admitted and bought a few items because my belly was getting too round for some of my non maternity t-shirts. I had it expedited to my house and DH brought it for me. I've lost weight so some of the clothes are a tad too big, but I don't mind.
Every 3 days I send laundry home with DH he's been amazing.
Before I was admitted, I had just done a load of laundry: bras, undies, maxi skirts, shirts and a nice maxi dress. I had DH just grab them for after the baby comes!
Well ... It looks like I get my BP checked every hour now. It's 155/105 and 160/110 is the cut off. It's not been coming down so I think we are looking at induction within 24 hours.
I feel like crap. All day long. I'm not on any meds other then pain meds for my headache. Percocet and vistiril.
Going to have my mom stay tonight. I think I'll need her. If things start getting worse she will bitch until they do something. SO is not good at that. He will just play games on his phone. Plus he snores and this may be my last sleep before labor.
I'm just exhausted, gained so much so fast. My nurses keep making comments about me being puffy and a tick that's ready to pop. Yes I get it ladies. I'm a giant water balloon. I'm ready to pop. Feel like violet from Willie wonka. I can't hardly walk. My joints are full of fluid. All my skin is tight. Question is are they waiting too long? I get that she needs to cook and I'm all for that. I'm just starting to get scared for me now. I've asked for power of attorney and medical will to sign if it goes bad. I trust the dr. It's just getting worse.
Oh wow! You are so close. I am so sorry you are on pain! Why didn't they put you on BP meds? If you told me. I apologize, I am loopy from my meds. 1200 MG a day because my BP was 169/112.
What's the latest update on induction? Anything? I'm happy your mom is with you!
Ladies how was your week? Another day in the books!!
Are you celebrating Mother's Day?
What was your fav meal this week?
Are you running out of clean clothes yet? Do you wear hospital ones or yours?
1. Week was slow, but good.
2. Not celebrating Mom's Day. Just relaxing with the husband.
3. I have no favorite, but I enjoyed the smoothie I got.
4. I wear my own and am always running out of clean clothes because I don't have many that fit. But my mom and husband have brought me much and alternate on who is doing the laundry.
BP was 155/110 today. Came down to 148/98 but my mom is not happy. Going to talk to the dr in morning. It's a new one for us. I know my labs are ok but I am so swollen I can hardly open my own eyes. I can't close my fists or move my toes. I mean we are trying to avoid me getting sick and I feel like my body is shutting down. So they wait till I'm too sick? I'm confused. My lil girl will be fine. Maybe a stay in NICU but will be ok. I on the other hand may suffer from liver,kidney, seizure stroke. So at what point is my health more important. I'm always about save baby first. I've always said that. Keep her safe first. I finally feel like she is ok and now I'm not.
Waiting till 430 to get more pain meds then my morning routine of tests start again at 630. Will update when I know more. I'm hoping they just let me have her already.
Re: 5/4. L&D is my new home!!
Oh oh BTW had another big ultrasound today!!! She weighs 5 lbs 8 oz. has TONS of LONG hair!! Plus major chubby cheeks!! Kind of looks like my chin.
So we wait and wait. I figure if I just sleep then she won't come out. I have yet to hear of someone sleeping through labor. Lol
Claire's kidney cysts are looking cancerous so they've scheduled a c-section on May 15th! Sure it might've because of potential bad news and hardship for us, but I'm excited to meet her!!
I hope everyone is doing well! You guys are always on my mind!
Why is it that an unborn child gets a cancer diagnosis. Now I'm a religious person and totally get the "he does what's best even though we don't understand " but seriously. I think my faith has really suffered lately and I hope I get stronger in that area of my life.
I just can't imagine.
But it looks like our princesses may share a birthday!!! May 15 th here too.
I pray for your princess and all our lil ones here. It just gets so hard to have faith when you have the worst sitting in front of you.
I could go on but they already are watching my BP. My SO ex wife is causing me high BP as it is.
My issues are superficial compared to yours. Like I said I'm just good about bitching about things. It's my gift I guess.
I love having this place to come to and do such and have such great ladies that let me just vent and are supportive when I need them too.
I also love to hear about everyone's daily achievements!! We have all been though soo much.
Are you celebrating Mother's Day?
What was your fav meal this week?
Are you running out of clean clothes yet? Do you wear hospital ones or yours?
It was a roller coaster. We are waiting to hear right now on induction. They literally are on the fence every four hours about what to do. I'm kind of thinking this weekend it will happen. All my nurses are saying so too. Waiting to hear back from dr.
Are you celebrating Mother's Day?
I assume if I have her we will make a big deal out of it for sure. I got a few gifts from my SD. A willow tree figurine that has mommy holding two kids. It's her and bean she said. ( not forgetting she also has 3 other sisters, but she is my closest to me. Plus she picked it out on her own) SO got me cards too I know but not sure from there. We don't have Step kids as its Mother's Day.
What was your fav meal this week?
I've had so many yummy foods. My family and friends food is the best by far and people are really stepping up. It feels great to be loved.
Are you running out of clean clothes yet? Do you wear hospital ones or yours?
I wear my own and I set aside a "pack now" and "incase for later piles" I just knew I was not coming home. I have asked SO multiple times to bring me everything that was in the "incase" pile. Real clothes mixed with comfy stuff. He doesn't get it. Brings me shirts that are his... Cuz they will fit but they are beer or stupid guy shirts. I'm really surprised the Irish one that says my penis is Irish was not one he brought up. Finally told my mom and she brought some things from her house. She had gastric surgery so had some bigger clothes. I think it's only fair cuz she is wearing my prepregnancy clothes right now anyways. Lol.
Just patiently waiting!!
( spoken as if I'm on the red carpet)
I am wearing a combination of things. I also have the don't fit anymore problem. However I do have a pj dress that looks like a maxi dress and a Maxi dress that is really comfortable. My shorts are way past booty shorts. Mostly tanks and SO t shirts. Pj type clothes.
My week was pretty good! I had an ultra sound today and all looks good! Baby is 5 lbs, 1 ounce!
Yes, I'm celebrating Mother's Day. DH and my fam will stop by at some points during the day.
Favorite meal this week? Well, for the third time in 3 weeks, we had Lebanese food; me, DH and my sister. I had grilled lamb, rice, fatoosh salad, falafel, hummus and stuffed grape leaves
As for clothes, I had DH bring me my favorite pajamas, yoga pants, maternity shirts and t-shirts. My mom also bought me maternity yoga pants and capris, socks, undies and nursing bras.
I did take advantage of an Old Navy sale when I was admitted and bought a few items because my belly was getting too round for some of my non maternity t-shirts. I had it expedited to my house and DH brought it for me. I've lost weight so some of the clothes are a tad too big, but I don't mind.
Every 3 days I send laundry home with DH
Before I was admitted, I had just done a load of laundry: bras, undies, maxi skirts, shirts and a nice maxi dress. I had DH just grab them for after the baby comes!
Going to have my mom stay tonight. I think I'll need her. If things start getting worse she will bitch until they do something. SO is not good at that. He will just play games on his phone. Plus he snores and this may be my last sleep before labor.
I'm just exhausted, gained so much so fast. My nurses keep making comments about me being puffy and a tick that's ready to pop. Yes I get it ladies. I'm a giant water balloon. I'm ready to pop. Feel like violet from Willie wonka. I can't hardly walk. My joints are full of fluid. All my skin is tight. Question is are they waiting too long? I get that she needs to cook and I'm all for that. I'm just starting to get scared for me now. I've asked for power of attorney and medical will to sign if it goes bad. I trust the dr. It's just getting worse.
What's the latest update on induction? Anything? I'm happy your mom is with you!
@Mom&nurse, praying for you!!
@Ashes92813, yay for the good
2. Not celebrating Mom's Day. Just relaxing with the husband.
3. I have no favorite, but I enjoyed the smoothie I got.
4. I wear my own and am always running out of clean clothes because I don't have many that fit. But my mom and husband have brought me much and alternate on who is doing the laundry.
Waiting till 430 to get more pain meds then my morning routine of tests start again at 630. Will update when I know more. I'm hoping they just let me have her already.