Hi,
I am new to the boards but wanted some opinions. I am 42 will be 43 when baby due. My husband and I have been trying for 20 years to conceive we had a miracles 6 years ago but miscarried at 10.5 weeks.
This pregnancy is a surprise (a happy one). I thought I was at 9 weeks. It is so stressful all I do is worry but I told myself I would breathe a sigh of relief when I hit 12 weeks..which was not that far away. I was actually beginning to relax and not worry as much.
Today we had first ultrasound and it says I am 6 weeks and 4 days. She did not find a heartbeat. So far what I reading online has not reassured me at all, most are saying they heard the heartbeat in week 5. When did you first hear yours? Before we heard the heartbeat at 8 weeks but that was our first ultrasound so I do not know when it started to beat.
Re: No heartbeat at 6 Weeks
Honestly, that is your best resource for knowing if you should be worried or not. A bunch of internet strangers with no medical training wouldn't know what's "normal" and what's "abnormal" except for anecdotes from their own experiences, or experiences of people they know.
For me, I wasn't even allowed to book an appointment until I hit 12 weeks with my OB/GYN's office, which was my first U/S and when we first heard the heartbeat, so unfortunately, I'm of no help.
Call your doctor. Get an answer that might put your fears to rest.
Good luck!!!
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From what I have read, the heartbeat starts right around the 6 week mark, so you are probably on the borderline of when you would be able to see it. I had my first u/s at 6w3d and we did see a heartbeat that day.
FX for you. Hugs.
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1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
I had an early ultrasound today at 5w, 5d and we could not see a heartbeat or really even see the baby (we could only see the gestational sack and the yolk sac). My doctor wasn't at all worried and said that I was on target. (The purpose of my ultrasound was to rule out an ectopic, as I am high risk, and that was ruled out, thankfully). I go back in 2 weeks where hopefully we see a heartbeat. Is it possible that you had a late ovulation? That can make a difference in growth when compared to "weeks" of pregnancy (it is not always "one size fits all" when dating back to the day of your last period.) Good luck!
I've never had a u/s until 8w, so I don't have any experience. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts. I wish the best for you.
BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010
BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011
BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013
BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy. Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)
BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014
Hoping for the best for you!!
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