Anyone else negative?

Csltdk · May 2014

I used to be a pretty happy go lucky person... Used to be. I am seriously such a negative asshole lately. EVERYTHING annoys me. My friends have started calling me negative nancy and I just look at them fake laugh and then cll them asshole. DH annoys me on an everyday basis. My only friends are my two dogs, lol. Anyone else a moody beotch like me?

BoraBoraBaby · May 2014

Yep! MIL currently eating out of my cereal box, annoyed. People at work talk to me, annoyed. Other cars on the road, annoyed. DH taking up too much of the couch, annoyed. Mom asking if I'm sure I'll be cared for well enough at the hospital we are going to, annoyed. Mom asking about my ultrasound that day, when it's actually a week later, annoyed. MIL making noise in such a way that I'm reminded we have company, annoyed. I'm typically a people person, but right now the only way I want to deal with people is through texting or email.

Csltdk · May 2014

@BoraBoraBaby‌ yes! This is so me!! So glad I'm not alone. I really don't mind being pregnant, hell I paid $40 grand for this baby through IVF, that doesn't make people less annoying and it annoys people don't understand that lol

Csltdk · May 2014

Annoys me people don't understand that* can't edit on phone

BoraBoraBaby · May 2014

Csltdk said:
@BoraBoraBaby‌ yes! This is so me!! So glad I'm not alone. I really don't mind being pregnant, hell I paid $40 grand for this baby through IVF, that doesn't make people less annoying and it annoys people don't understand that lol

Holy SHIT I had no idea that it was that expensive! People should seriously, by law, leave you alone for the entire 9 months unless YOU initiate contact.

Csltdk · May 2014

It's typically not that much but NJ is pretty expensive and my husband had to have a surgery for it and with medicine it just added up and up and up.
I'm hoping the sunshine and rainbows will come back soon after baby is here!

Nichole8787 · May 2014

cheer up buttercup

kwh33ls · May 2014

I am such a bitch lately. Not to DH, but the coworkers that I don't like much, the GD counselor, other drivers, my dad's girlfriend...I hate them all.

Csltdk · May 2014

kwh33ls said:
I am such a bitch lately. Not to DH, but the coworkers that I don't like much, the GD counselor, other drivers, my dad's girlfriend...I hate them all.

I love you for this

BBColt78 · May 2014

Csltdk said:

@BoraBoraBaby‌ yes! This is so me!! So glad I'm not alone. I really don't mind being pregnant, hell I paid $40 grand for this baby through IVF, that doesn't make people less annoying and it annoys people don't understand that lol

@Csltdk Going through infertility adds a whole new mind fu$K to everything. We should discuss this on check-in. When you go through IVF, there is a lot of self pressure to be so happy all the time and thankful (so thankful) that you are even given this opportunity. Don't put that pressure on yourself. Hormones probably have you a bit now (especially if you are still on any). Post baby is the worst. So many hormones and then the pressure of knowing you wanted this so BAD but life sucks so BAD. LOL

TricksyPixie · May 2014

I'm a half and half. Pretty happy and actually much more talkative in social situations (family gatherings and parties, which usually make me very uncomfortable) but I tend to get annoyed easily, and I can be pretty vocal about it. "Seriously, I want to punch you in the face right now." "Okay, stop talking, you're annoying me." Etc. most people assume I'm being sarcastic, as it is my nature... But I'm not.

BoraBoraBaby · May 2014

Nichole8787 said:
cheer up buttercup

You don't get it. This is NOT an option.

Csltdk · May 2014

BoraBoraBaby said:

Nichole8787 said:
cheer up buttercup
You don't get it. This is NOT an option.

Yeah, that annoyed me hahaha

MstoMrstoMom851214 · May 2014

Me, me! My DH has been calling me "Nance" (short for negative nancy)! Everyone and everything annoys me...which results in mega bitch!

Mamanorris81 · May 2014

Omg I have been such a raging bitch. I almost feel bad for the people around me. Almost.

livkight · May 2014

The space between "mildly annoyed" and "very POed" is very small for me these days! Especially when I am sweaty or hungry, which is often.

AKB090609 · May 2014

I'm still doing okay, I keep trying to remind myself I won't be super pregnant all summer like last time.

However, if anything annoys me even a tiny bit I turn into a rage monster and it takes hours for me to dial it back down. I think that DH may have picked up on it and is using it to his advantage because I am an awesome angry cleaner. Our house is looking very tidy lately.

ksuRN09 · May 2014

Oh yes! I have very little patience for anything lately. I think this was my Monday bitch but everyone and everything annoys me.

TexasGirl81 · May 2014

All me lately!

ahjahbaba · May 2014

Oh yea! I've definitely been negative and crabby more so now then at the beginning. Poor SO

honeybee434 · May 2014

Me! I just don't want to deal with things that I think are ridiculous, more than being negative. I don't want to put on a pretend face for people I don't care for, and I don't want to put up with (listen to) drama and BS that doesn't involve me. Basically I have a really low BS tolerance so it's making me seem extra bitchy and negative. DH commenting on this and saying he can't wait to get the old me back isn't helping the matter, either.

BP607 · May 2014

I had what I referred to as a nuclear melt down this evening.. Went off on a tangent about how nothing was ready for the baby, the garage needs cleaned, I hated both the dogs and went and chewed the neighbors out for their kids riding dirt bikes on our property AGAIN which escalated to a fight with the neighbor lady yelling f you f that .. Somehow I'm the one who managed to stay calm through it all...

[Deleted User] · May 2014

I can relate. Sorry you hate all the things too. Hopefully we can all find our happy dust in the near future.

acciovino · May 2014

I'm most annoyed with DD and I feel terrible for it. She's in the whiney stage. "Mommy I have a boooo boooo. I need to go tell daddy." " mommy I'm huuunnnnngrrry. I need a snnnaccckkk." Ugh it sucks because I can't give her a lot of attention since we're trying to get ready to move, but damn it the whining is not going to kill me.

#momguilt

Ecomom17 · May 2014

Oh, poor hubby has been dealing with the brunt of this lately. Last night I don't even remember what was going on but I was SOOO pissed at him and really all I wanted was for him to just get me a snack. Angel that he is, he finally did and suddenly I was all better. Hormones are a bitch.. You are not alone!

helloblueeyes · May 2014

My DH actually described me as a nuclear blast that he is immune to. Apparently I'm a mega super bitch, but not to him. Lucky guy, lol.

I actually told him that if you were underfed, under caffeinated, overtired and felt like shit all the time you wouldn't be sunshine and freaking roses either. He gets it though, which might be why he is immune.

Everyone else however is counting down the days till I go back to just being a regular bitch. Me and pregnancy clearly just do not mix. I'm at that "I want to watch the world burn while I dance around in the ashes" stage. Issues, I haz them.

Shelleybell · May 2014

I don't know if negative is the right word for me, impatient bitch may be better.

kwh33ls · May 2014

helloblueeyes said:

My DH actually described me as a nuclear blast that he is immune to. Apparently I'm a mega super bitch, but not to him. Lucky guy, lol. I actually told him that if you were underfed, under caffeinated, overtired and felt like shit all the time you wouldn't be sunshine and freaking roses either. He gets it though, which might be why he is immune. Everyone else however is counting down the days till I go back to just being a regular bitch. Me and pregnancy clearly just do not mix. I'm at that "I want to watch the world burn while I dance around in the ashes" stage. Issues, I haz them.

I think this is why my husband is surviving too. I've only taken out my misery on him a couple of times, but he's so...mild. He just sort of acknowledged that I was upset, and took me out to dinner. He's a keeper :x

fmb2011 · May 2014

Oh yeah, I'm right there with you! I feel terrible about it too because I'm a SAHM so my kids kinda get the brunt of it.

Salsera29 · May 2014

I try very, very hard not to be a bitch to people who don't deserve it. So I keep waiting for someone to deserve it, then all bets are off.

AutumnBonfire · May 2014

I've been in horrible moods lately. Poor DH gets the brunt of it. After a day of work where everyone annoys me and then coming home and dealing with DS's typical toddler behaviors (tantruming when he doesn't want to do something, picky eating); I have no patience left for DH's bullshit. Typically about every other weekend I have some kind of meltdown over something, usually DH's lack of motivation. I really want him to get the major summer chores done before the baby comes (putting down mulch around the perimeter of the house and painting the deck) and he's really procrastinating. Plus he needs to paint DS's new room. I lose patience with this quickly. Today I'm sure I'll be in a bad mood when I go home because DH is going to his mom's to mow her lawn, meanwhile our grass has been about a foot high for a week now and according to him, our mower blade is bent and we need a new one. So get one and fix it!!

Nichole8787 · May 2014

BoraBoraBaby said:

cheer up buttercup
You don't get it. This is NOT an option.

Stuck in Grey...

I'm sorry. Maybe try talking to your dr.

katnipeverclean · May 2014

I go through stages. I have very little patience right now especially with DD and my dogs. I hate yelling and I am trying to remind myself that "the days are long but the years are short" to diffuse myself when I get upset. It's just rarely working.

I'm just ready to be done with all of the upheaval in my life and be settled in our new home and preparing for this baby. In the meantime I'm just snappy and I wish I wasn't.

jenny1523 · May 2014

helloblueeyes said:

My DH actually described me as a nuclear blast that he is immune to. Apparently I'm a mega super bitch, but not to him. Lucky guy, lol. I actually told him that if you were underfed, under caffeinated, overtired and felt like shit all the time you wouldn't be sunshine and freaking roses either. He gets it though, which might be why he is immune. Everyone else however is counting down the days till I go back to just being a regular bitch. Me and pregnancy clearly just do not mix. I'm at that "I want to watch the world burn while I dance around in the ashes" stage. Issues, I haz them.

"I want to watch the world burn while I dance around in the ashes"

This is me. I actually said something similar to DH on Sunday because everyone I came into contact with pissed me off. Just the looks of people pissed me off. He and DS are the only people I can tolerate lately and they are riding a thin line haha

melissaquinn106 · May 2014

Shelleybell said:
I don't know if negative is the right word for me, impatient bitch may be better.

This. My students are pretty much receiving the brunt of it. 10th grade HS boys are getting the worst of it. Luckily most of them take it pretty well and they are all currently learning about sexual reproduction complete with "miracle of life" video. When I get really snappy with them usually some pain in the ass boy says something like "oh we learned about this today, it's called hormones" then I usually laugh and realize I'm being crazy.

27 more teaching days....here's hoping I make it

shanaynerz · May 2014

I am! My friends and DH told me I basically act bitchy. Like, I'm not a bitch, but I act like one. Just have like no patience for people lately. I don't even realize I have an attitude though, and I always pride myself on being friendly and stuff, so it makes me a bit sad I come off as bitchy, but I'm HUGE and annoyed by people and mostly want to be left alone in public!

kwh33ls · May 2014

melissaquinn106 said:

I don't know if negative is the right word for me, impatient bitch may be better.
This. My students are pretty much receiving the brunt of it. 10th grade HS boys are getting the worst of it. Luckily most of them take it pretty well and they are all currently learning about sexual reproduction complete with "miracle of life" video. When I get really snappy with them usually some pain in the ass boy says something like "oh we learned about this today, it's called hormones" then I usually laugh and realize I'm being crazy. 27 more teaching days....here's hoping I make it

I've got 28. I'm glad I teach chemistry, and not biology at this point. That would be weird.

Monicalynnsd · May 2014

My SO and my students are getting on my last nerve. I used to love my job as an art teacher, but I've turned into a great big negative Nellie. What really sets me off is in the morning my SO says, "What fun things do you have planned for today?" Every time he says this it drives me crazy inside, I usually answer with "Same as yesterday." There's nothing fun about going to work and dealing with a bunch of teenagers when we both know there are only 5 weeks left of school before summer break and I'm not sure who's more excited about it, me or them. There's nothing fun about being on your feet all day and having to repeat yourself 15 times because some dip shit student didn't pay attention the first 14 times you explained what to do. There's nothing fun about passing back work or putting out supplies when you now barely fit between the desks.

There's nothing fun about the fact that my abs are separating and I think I might be developing a hernia. There's nothing fun about going home tired at the end of the day and no longer being able to fill your evenings up doing the things you once loved. I've had to give up running and cycling, I've also lost my sex drive. I used to love food, but now the smallest meal makes me feel like I could pop. There is nothing fun about only being able to pee every two hours at work.

Today he asked me what he could do to make my day more fun. That was sweet, and my reply was, "I don't know, maybe come home early and make me dinner once a week, give me something to look forward to." It's now 7:30, and he finally texts me that he is on his way home, I've already eaten. I love this man, and I know he is working hard for us, but I wish he did more for me, THAT would make my day more fun.

Hadynimogen · May 2014

AKB090609 said:

I think that DH may have picked up on it and is using it to his advantage because I am an awesome angry cleaner. Our house is looking very tidy lately.

Haha me to and its done it double quick time.

im ok but if someone even does something remotely annoying i turn into a screaming lunatic full of rage.

Csltdk · May 2014

Nichole8787 said:

BoraBoraBaby said:

Nichole8787 said:
cheer up buttercup
You don't get it. This is NOT an option.

Stuck in Grey...

I'm sorry. Maybe try talking to your dr.

Wow, really? We aren't depressed you asshole just moody bitches. I'm so happy for you that you are all smiles but saying we need to talk to our dr? Cool....

kwh33ls · May 2014

I feel bitchy when people tell me to cheer up.

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