When was the last time you had sex?

ajlmom · May 2014

My answer: I can't remember! (embarrassed

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I have to admit that I'm not so much in the mood lately because of feeling sick and tired. But you have to hear what DH has been saying "I'm not touching you for the next 9 months" because he is sooooooooo nervous that having sex will cause a miscarriage or hurt the baby.

leenieb123 · May 2014

Well, there was that one time that got me into this mess....

But seriously, we did it a couple times before I started feeling queasy and I'm hoping since I feel better tonight...wink, wink

Tell him when you're feeling better that it's perfectly safe unless your doctor says otherwise. Plus what guy can resist the new and improved boobs?

BrideLinds · May 2014

Lol... a few times after conception but not since the BFP. That's sad, I know. Just haven't felt up to it. Second tri should be better!

hellopartyof5 · May 2014

I haven't in a month. We had sex once after we got our bfp. Then the symptoms - ugh! To be fair he's on a boat for a week every 2 weeks. He's there this week. I'm really gonna try next week. I feel really bad.

MaineMama · May 2014

I cant remember either

I know its been more than a month. I get out of breath taking a shower, let alone sexytimes...

Duckie419 · May 2014

BrideLinds said:
Lol... a few times after conception but not since the BFP. That's sad, I know. Just haven't felt up to it. Second tri should be better!

This. We used to have sex all the time. Like bragging worthy. But since my BFP I've been so tired and just blah feeling I can't get my legs in the air for anything. He's being really patient but I can start seeing the lost puppy look in his eye. I just hope things go back to normal after this crappy first trimester is up.

Takeabreath · May 2014

Yesterday.

haloform · May 2014

I have been feeling so yucky and also a little anxious about having sex, so we have only had sex once (last weekend) since I found out I'm pregnant. It felt good at first but man, having an orgasm huuuurt - serious uterine cramps! That kinda ruined it for me. Maybe we will try again soon.

Duckie419 · May 2014

ChelseaMari said:

BrideLinds said:
Lol... a few times after conception but not since the BFP. That's sad, I know. Just haven't felt up to it. Second tri should be better!
This. We used to have sex all the time. Like bragging worthy. But since my BFP I've been so tired and just blah feeling I can't get my legs in the air for anything. He's being really patient but I can start seeing the lost puppy look in his eye. I just hope things go back to normal after this crappy first trimester is up.

I have to correct this. We had sex once. I cramped up after I orgasmed and it freaked me out lol. So other than that no boom boom

iloveac · May 2014

Probably 2 weeks ago.

My nipples have been feeling so sore from nursing DS while pregnant plus I have no energy and it doesn't help that DS wakes for MOTN feedings. Also, last pregnancy, after I started showing neither DH or I were into it. The way I carried DS we could always feel him move and kick.

ElizaRae92 · May 2014

My husband and I have not seen each other for 3 weeks. The last time we had sex was a month ago.

JaymeeLH · May 2014

Sunday but mostly because I felt bad that we went from having a ton of sex to me not wanting to be touched in a matter of a week. It wasn't bad, but I was out cold right after hahah

feliciaw86 · May 2014

Uh just now... Since you asked.

Krisx2 · May 2014

I have all the sex dreams and all the horniness and newly A size boobies (still sore, don't touch, but look! so nice!) so we are having sex at least twice a week.

marriedinaugust · May 2014

A week or so ago. It was supposed to happen a few days ago but that was the day the queasiness set in.

jlskaden · May 2014

This morning. My sex drive has been through the roof.

LupeVallejo · May 2014

If we don't get it on for a little afternoon delight… game over. I'm usually snoring by 8 PM. We haven't had it in over a week, but hopefully Monday we can get it on once the little one is off to school for the morning.

Between "finding time" and finding a time I'm not falling asleep…. it's tough. Oh, and he's not allowed to touch my boobs, which bums him out… but they hurt so fucking bad, that if he wants me to give it up, no boobs rule applies.

ajlmom · May 2014

I'm jealous of you girls who are in the mood, but feel better that I'm not the only one who hasn't done it for a while.

chrissykzd · May 2014

couple hours ago. my sex drive increases when i'm pregnant so i can't keep my hands off my hubby! plus it temporarily takes my mind off the morning sickness

cassiem51 · May 2014

I'm jealous of those of you who are in the mood too. We've had sex once since we found out, and that was probably almost a month ago. I'm hoping the nausea and tiredness will get better soon and my drive will come back!

Heorwig · May 2014

2 weeks ago. I feel so bad for DH but there was spotting and cramping last time and I just have not been in the mood at all.

ThePregosaurus · May 2014

Almost a month and I feel terrible about it. I actually do get in the mood sometimes but I can't even walk up the stairs without getting cramps so I'm terrified of what an orgasm will feel like. We've talked about it a lot and he understands. He's so patient with me. My gag reflex is too sensitive right now too so I've been trying to help him out in more "hands on" ways

He seems to appreciate the effort lol.

merebear09 · May 2014

A couple of days ago. I made a point to grab him as soon as he came home because for once I wasn't exhausted or queasy. Depends on what he's eaten too. I can't kiss him if he's eaten anything savory. I didn't notice cramps with the big O, but it was all rather...sensitive down there? Anyway, he's fine, he's too worried about the baby to be pining for it much. We went almost a month before that, because the last time was right after the BFP, and I spotted afterwards for days. Freaked us both right out.

AlleyMM · May 2014

Yeah.. Last night since you asked.

Camellia78 · May 2014

Last Sunday. I have been too exhausted & queasy during the work week to do anything. Fx that we can make it happen again this weekend.

emsrdh03 · May 2014

Hmmm. Good question. I know we've had sex once since my BFP......think that's it. Now that I've been spotting on and off for a week it certainly won't be anytime soon! Sorry DH!

tarasantoro · May 2014

Holy crap balls X_X I feel like a looser! Last time hubby and I got it on........ The night this bundle of joy was conceived :-\"

mflowers929 · May 2014

DH and I are still going at it like twice a week. Though considering we were at 4 or 5 times a week, even that seems like it's not much. We went through a phase a few years ago where neither of us was very happy with ourselves or our circumstances, and we were only having sex twice a month though, so I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
I read somewhere online that we really should refrain from sex until the bleeding is over, but I think we'd both go a little bonkers, so we're just really gentle about it. I think it actually might have helped to slow down the bleeding a bit.

kellyo0131 · May 2014

this morning....but before that it was when LO was conceived....6+ weeks ago. sad but I am way too exhausted.

LeviJeans · May 2014

Sunday, which was the last time I saw my husband. Long distance marriage ends in 2 weeks and I'm definitely ready to pick up where we left off.

Nmcalhoun · May 2014

Oh my poor husband. It's been about a month. We only did it once since my BFP and I had spotting afterwards which freaked me out even though I know it's normal. I haven't been in the mood at all hopefully that'll change soon.

ajlmom · May 2014

I'm proud to report that DH and I just did it! I'm feeling victorious and better as a wife. I didn't let myself O because of what you ladies said about cramping. DH may change his mind about touching me now because I was fine and had no spotting. #:-S

So grateful to have this board cuz I don't know who else can relate to my situation.

YellowTulips521 · May 2014

Tuesday, but if you ask my H it has been an eternity. I try to have it once or twice a week, but I'm so tired by the time I get home from work that I'm usually asleep before 9. I should show him this thread, he acts like we are the only people this happens to!

Kbomgardner · May 2014

Monday...

We have been on opposite schedules and he was out if town at a training for a few days. I find it so hard to wake up when he gets in after midnight and actually do much more than lie there and let him do what he needs to to. It's not going unnoticed either. We were everydayers until the fatigue got me and now I'm kind of indifferent. I hope it ends soon bc he's less than pleased and it's somewhat stressful for us. I don't know how to explain how goddamn tired I am and how not sexy I feel with this bloat. I feel seriously unattractive. Ughhhh.....

Meether · May 2014

Not since my bfp. I think the last time would be at 3 weeks lol...so about 6 weeks ago. After delivering dd, we hardly did it for 1 year because every time we would try, it was extremely painful. So he's had worse lol and is totally expecting the worst this time around.

MommyKristin88 · May 2014

About an hour ago. Freaking amazing.

MauraLou25 · May 2014

Probably when we made this little one! I am so sick, literally every time I eat, so I'm not up for much. It was like this during my last pregnancy too. Then the second trimester hit and I have never felt better. I felt energized, confident, and sexy. Really hoping that happens this time too!!!

MmsHughes4 · May 2014

MommyKristin88 said:
About an hour ago. Freaking amazing.

This!!

saaustin97 · May 2014

About 3 weeks. I'm terrified of doing anything since it's taken so long to conceive this one. DH is such a trooper. I'm going in for a cerclage in a month so he said he'd wait.