(Update) Extreme Stress

victoria+james · April 2014

I don't want to get into it, but I haven't been able to eat, sleep, or stop crying for these past few days. Can anyone please offer some much needed coping advice?

I have a therapy appointment tomorrow morning which I'm hoping will help also. But I don't even know how I'll make it through this evening. (I'm also unable to talk to DH right now which is killing me.)

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Thank you all so much for your help and suggestions. I do feel a fair bit better after my appointment this morning and I'm trying to stay busy until I'm able to speak to DH again. It makes a world of difference knowing I'm not alone.

youngin12 · April 2014

I have no advice but I do have ((hugs)). I am sorry you are under so much stress.

Emerald27 · April 2014

Are you by yourself? Call a friend and see if she can just come and sit/stay with you tonight. Just to be there, not to talk or anything.

(((hugs)))

Emerald27 · April 2014

Also, even if you can't sleep, it is a good idea to try to rest. Lights low, feet up. Drink lots of water, and maybe make yourself a hot cup of tea.

GretchenWeiners7 · April 2014

What Emerald said. Lots of hugs and good thoughts to you, I hope you are feeling better soon!

ohioloveyou · April 2014

Just want to give you some hugs! Whatever it is will pass eventually. Just take care of yourself and baby right now.

Jennifer18131 · April 2014

I'm very sorry you're having a hard time. I struggle with depression and it's kicking my butt right now.

My therapist gave me a motto: F.I.D. Feel it, Identify it, Deal with it.

Allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you are feeling.

Identify that feeling. If necessary, say to yourself "I feel ______" Use a feelings chart to help identify that feeling. Don't feel limited by the feelings chart.

Deal with that feeling outwardly. If someone is making you feel that way, tell them. "I feel ______ when (insert activity) because _____." Tell a friend. Write in a journal, at the very least just the feeling.

I always have to remind myself that I am allowed to FEEL however I feel. My feelings are never stupid, ridiculous, or undeserved. They are my feelings and I have to deal with them.

I really hope this can help you until you can get to your therapist.

victoria+james · April 2014

@PurpleHippo19‌ - I'll keep you posted

lrobi13 · April 2014

Big Hugs to you right now. I had a super stressful few weeks a couple of months back. I took unisom to help with the sleep. But like pp have said just try and do what makes you feel the best. I am truly sorry that you are going through something so difficult and I can only hope that you know that you are not alone no matter how it feels.

ariel06 · April 2014

Bubble baths help me relax. Pick up your favorite take-out to try to entice yourself to eat something. And call a friend! Sometimes just not being alone helps.

MelanieAdam0707 · April 2014

I second a lot of what people have said already- have a friend come spend some time, warm tea, or warm bath, maybe some reading or movies that will sort of distract your mind if only for a few minutes at a time. Breathe. Nice deep breaths. Surround yourself w comforting stuff, blankets, robe, some good food, music, people if possible, cuddle w a dog/cat. Do something nice for yourself, paint your toe nails, give yourself a homemade facial mask, go for a walk, put on some lotion and take your time.

Sorry you're feeling this way. Hopefully seeing your therapist will bring you some comfort tomorrow. Hugs to you!

Jellybean813 · April 2014

:::hugs::: I agree with PP. Inviting a friend over to be with you, or lighting some candles and taking a bath might help. I'm sorry that you're going through a rough time. I hope that it gets better, and that you get to talk to DH soon.

Glas43 · May 2014

I think everyone already hit on the suggestions i had. Just wanted to let ya know we are here for you! Thoughts and prayers!

AmandaJean12 · May 2014

I'm so sorry you're having a rough night. I usually try to watch old episodes of something I know well because it's comforting when DH is away. And on really bad days I break out sudoku or something like that just because it keeps my brain on something.

Sending hugs! Hope you find a way to get some rest!

MrsL2B · May 2014

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope your session tomorrow morning helps.

BeckyH05 · May 2014

((Hugs)) I'm sorry you are having a hard time right now. Try and relax tonight and I hope your session tomorrow brings some calmness to you.

ashie0610 · May 2014

I'm sorry you're so stressed.

I hope you were able to get a good night's sleep and feel a little better today after your appointment.

[Deleted User] · May 2014

Agree with other PPs. I am so sorry you are going through a rough time. Prayers for that light at the end of the tunnel.

fireflyrebirth · May 2014

Sorry you are going through such a hard time. I am glad to see the appointment was helpful. We are all thinking about you and are here if you need to talk/vent/be distracted.

MrMrsandBaby · May 2014

I'm glad the appointment helped. Whatever it is, I really hope it gets resolved for you and you can get past this time. We are always here for you, even if it is just for virtual hugs!

Jennifer18131 · May 2014

Glad you're feeling better. I was worried about you. You're definitely not alone!

lrobi13 · May 2014

Thanks for the update, I am glad your a feeling a bit better. Take care and know that we are thinking about you!

MuffinMom14 · May 2014

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. You're doing what's right--you knew it was a problem and you are seeing your therapist.

I don't know what you're going through, but I know what it's like to just feel helpless. I spent most of the day crying hysterically in the bathroom yesterday, then on my kitchen floor last night. My mother. $:\$

ss265 · May 2014

I'm sorry that you are going through this and I'm glad that the therapy session helped. Hopefully talking to your DH will help too.

MelanieAdam0707 · May 2014

Glad you're feeling a bit better. Hugs!

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