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Leaving the carribean **loss**

I wasn't sure if I should post something here or not since I don't post on here very often, but I just wanted to let you know I'm leaving.

I started bleeding Sunday night. An ultrasound Monday morning confirmed that baby only measured about 9 weeks, and there was no heartbeat - I should have been 11 weeks. My poor DH is taking it harder than me - I think I was somewhat prepared for this news because I just had a weird intuition that things were not ok. I'm sad for our families - we told extended family last weekend at Easter and they were so excited. And now we have had to untell them.

I was supposed to have a D&C this morning, but my body had other plans. I started bleeding heavily Monday night around midnight - it got so bad that I had to go to the ER. I passed most everything on my own, which is something I really didn't want to go through - it was traumatic and horrible.

We're going to try again as soon as we can, but I'm just dreading having to start over. I have PCOS so who knows what my cycles will be like post-m/c.

Anyway, thanks for letting me share. Even though I wasn't super active here I'll definitely miss all you ladies!

    Formerly Aaren91011
Trying for baby #1 since July 2013  -  DX: PCOS
BFP: 2/27/14 - EDD 11/11/14 - MMC 4/21/14 @ 11w (stopped growing @ 9w)
TTA until January

Re: Leaving the carribean **loss**

  • I am so sorry. Thinking of you.

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  • I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Please take care of yourself! Keeping you in my thoughts
    TTC #1 since Oct. 2012 | BFP Feb. 21, 2014!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  *hugs*
    Me: 31 DH: 31
    Married 08/11/12 & TTC Since 10/13
    Previous Endo and Ovarian Cyst DX 
    March 2010: Lap. Surgery & D&C--removed 2 cysts 
    BFP: 12/20/2013 EDD: 09/03/2014 
    Travis Karel arrived on 08/21/2014 at 38w1d.
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  • I am so sorry.  Wishing you a good recovery and good things to come in the future.
    Married since 8.2.08
    DS born 8.11.14
    BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17

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  • I am so sorry.


    bfp#4 3/19/2014 edd 12/1/2014 please let this be the one!

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  • I'm really sorry for your loss. Thinking of you...
  • So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. FX that your cycle returns quickly. If you need to chat, please PM me. HUGS.

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Married 4.4.09  ~*~  Me-34 & DH-32 ~*~
    Complete Thyroidectomy Oct 07'  &  Cardiac Ablation Surgery for SVAT Sept 11'
    BFP #1 - 10.3.10  I  EDD 6.11.16  I  Boy #1 born 6.16.11
    BFP #2 - 9.12.13 l EDD 5.27.14 l CP 9.20.13
    BFP #3 - 3.5.14 I  EDD 11.17.14 I  Boy #2 born 11.17.14

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