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  • Duckie419Duckie419 member
    Mrw218 said:

    Hah! On mobile and I think I was two pages back but didn't see the last two.

    Welcome to the best part of the whole thread haha although, the whole thing was pretty good for various reasons.
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  • rshamosrshamos member
    I'm worried about getting fat. Not gaining weight for the baby, which I am excited to do, but eating a dozen donuts because that is the only thing that doesn't make me puke fat. I am a FTM, and I am paranoid about EVERYTHING. Also, to make this post relevant to the other posts, I have HUGE boobs. :)
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  • Duckie419Duckie419 member
    rshamos said:
    I'm worried about getting fat. Not gaining weight for the baby, which I am excited to do, but eating a dozen donuts because that is the only thing that doesn't make me puke fat. I am a FTM, and I am paranoid about EVERYTHING. Also, to make this post relevant to the other posts, I have HUGE boobs. :)
    so many mixed emotions to this post. 
    if doughnuts are settling your tummy try not to eat a dozen at a time? also: baby nor you can survive on just doughnuts so try to force some nutrition down. 
    yay for boobies!!!!
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  • Mrw218Mrw218 member
    Hah! My husband looks at me this morning when I'm getting ready for church, starts laughing, and says omg your boobs are getting huge! Aduh where have you been the last two weeks?
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  • rshamosrshamos member
    Fortunately, I have not been eating them by the dozen, but I have never craved donuts in my life, and this is the first time they are appealing to me. The point of my post was that there is a balance between healthy weight gain and putting yourself and your baby in potential harm. That, and I wanted to brag about my big ol' boobies. ;)
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  • allonsyalonsoallonsyalonso member
    rshamos said:
    I'm worried about getting fat. Not gaining weight for the baby, which I am excited to do, but eating a dozen donuts because that is the only thing that doesn't make me puke fat. I am a FTM, and I am paranoid about EVERYTHING. Also, to make this post relevant to the other posts, I have HUGE boobs. :)
    I probably wouldn't worry too much about the donuts just yet. When you're out of first trimester you should have fewer aversions to foods and will be able to eat healthier. But honestly, don't worry so much about getting fat right now. Unless you're high risk you should be able to work out still if it's that much of a concern and if it makes you feel better, a lot of the moms from my BMB with DS are looking pretty amazing these days. I'm not one of them... but hey... I also haven't tried too hard. Focus on having a healthy pregnancy. Gaining weight (baby and otherwise) is pretty much par for the course.
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  • rshamosrshamos member
    Thank you! I will tell you my hubby loves having sweeter things in the house!
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  • Kasey880Kasey880 member
    @sfolmar‌ Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I truly feel terribly for you women that prey on us first timers. I can't understand why you feel the need to be so nasty. You should really be ashamed of your behavior. If you aren't on this site to learn or help others, and if you think you're better than the rest of us, please leave. You could be a role model and someone that truly helps other women through such an exciting, yet scary, time in their lives, but choose to use it against them. Disgusting.
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  • Duckie419Duckie419 member
    rshamos said:
    Fortunately, I have not been eating them by the dozen, but I have never craved donuts in my life, and this is the first time they are appealing to me. The point of my post was that there is a balance between healthy weight gain and putting yourself and your baby in potential harm. That, and I wanted to brag about my big ol' boobies. ;)
    I got it! Sorry haha I completely misread the post. Yes everything in moderation :) except boobies. boobies for everyone!!
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  • KbomgardnerKbomgardner member
    valeriec80 said:

    In response to the question as to why I haven't left yet:

    -I like the little sig counter things that show how much the baby has developed. Seriously. I guess that's a stupid reason. *shrug* I keep going to baby center--which moves faster than the speed of light--and then coming back here and thinking... maybe it'll be better if people stop asking silly questions.

    To be fair, I would never ask if I was showing. I also google like crazy. But I also would just ignore the umpteenth thread about that question. I may be new to being a mom and to baby boards, but I'm not new to internet forums, and that's my general go-to way of dealing with it. Ignoring. I've spent time on forums where people ridiculed newbies all the time and mobbed together and drove people off the site if they asked the wrong questions, and I've spent time on forums where the patient people handle the newbs, and the impatient people clicked off if they didn't want to deal. I like the latter better.

    Also, I think it's a valid point that it's hypocritical to insult people because they insulted other people. Not only that, it's never going to get those people to stop, because people lash out when they are personally targeted. And the more they are personally targeted, the stronger they get in their position. This is why I do my best not to personally attack people. I try to remind myself that people on the internet are real people too. But I realize that my way is not everyone else's way.

    To the contention that having your feelings hurt on the internet means that you are either "too sensitive" or "taking things too seriously":

    This is another veiled insult, I think, because it serves to invalidate the way I feel, implying that I'm doing something wrong by being upset or by taking my own emotions seriously. I think it's a deflection because the person who said the thing that hurt my feelings doesn't want to confront the consequences of her actions... or the fact that her actions can in fact affect other people. It sounds to me like she's saying, "Oh, here on the Bump, it's totally okay not to care if I hurt someone else's feelings. Here, hurt feelings are funny. And here, stupid people should be held up in ridicule for everyone to laugh at."

    In no way do I think that the "snarky" people are bad mothers, cruel people, or otherwise detrimental to society. I think they're totally normal people--probably very nice people most of the time.

    So, you know, maybe that's why I keep coming back, truthfully. It's not because of the sig as much as it is to see if they do stop being mean when there aren't anymore newbies (and most people with December due dates should know by now, right? So, we should be hitting our stride.) To see if there's more to them or not.

    Or maybe it's also kind of like a very, very tame 4chan for girls. And if you've ever been to 4chan, you know it's really hard to stop reading it.

    No. You know what? I'll admit it. Conflict is entertaining. Hell, I write stories for a living, so it's not like I don't know this. I'm probably just popping popcorn like everyone else. And so, by actively opposing the snark, but deriving pleasure from the opposition, I'm a hypocrite too.


    I have no fucking idea what I was going to say after reading all of this...



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  • StephChase315StephChase315 member
    SpankingShank said:

    StephChase315 said:

    @Manateearmz‌ and @SpankingShank‌ REALLY? Does it make you feel better poking fun at someone? That is not called a sense of humor its called bad social skills and being rude. You just sound pathetic.

    And calling people pathetic isn't rude?
    Hey pot, meet kettle!
    Except you deserve it.


    White knight?! I feel like i am back in highschool, telling people to not take you so seriously, name calling, correcting their grammer, drops mic? Hahaha wow you are really funny. Who cares if people post about their belly or muscus plug! Its a PREGANCY app! You are suppose to ask questions that have to do with that!
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  • ManateearmzManateearmz member
    SpankingShank said:

    Hey, @StephChase315‌ you really enlightened me. I'm going to change my ways. Starting now.

    I have seen the light!

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  • katykat03katykat03 member
    I'm totally late to the party, but I have big boobs, can I play too?


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  • LaxMOM44LaxMOM44 member
    Manateearmz said:

    ScrappyLika said:

    I don't know why they keep saying we're preying on the "first timers". I don't have any kids, so I am a first timer....just not an idiot.


    I'm preying on you.
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  • Duckie419Duckie419 member
    Manateearmz said:

    ScrappyLika said:

    I don't know why they keep saying we're preying on the "first timers". I don't have any kids, so I am a first timer....just not an idiot.


    I'm preying on you.
    *enter predator noise*
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  • Duckie419Duckie419 member
    thdpr said:

    ChelseaMari said:

    Manateearmz said:

    ScrappyLika said:

    I don't know why they keep saying we're preying on the "first timers". I don't have any kids, so I am a first timer....just not an idiot.


    I'm preying on you.
    *enter predator noise*
    Good thing there so many Chris Hansens here. Maybe we can catch a predator.
    Hahaha god I wish I wasn't on mobile. Too many wonderful gifs are running through my head.
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  • Duckie419Duckie419 member
    ColeyCannoli said:


    thdpr said:

    ChelseaMari said:

    Manateearmz said:

    ScrappyLika said:

    I don't know why they keep saying we're preying on the "first timers". I don't have any kids, so I am a first timer....just not an idiot.


    I'm preying on you.
    *enter predator noise*
    Good thing there so many Chris Hansens here. Maybe we can catch a predator.

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    Oh. My. God. You beautiful woman.
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  • ManateearmzManateearmz member
    All of you ladies complete me.

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  • jillywbeanjillywbean member
    I have the Baby Center app in addition to this one and I almost posted to them that the boards here are much more supportive - good thing I didn't 'cause I'd be lying.

    Why do women do this to each other? Call it humor or sarcasm. Blame hormones or boredom. It all originates from insecurity - there's no denying. Accuse me of being a white knight and that just proves my case.

    Stay classy, ladies and remember you don't HAVE to look at all the posts if they grind your gears. I'm outie 5000.

    PEACE!!
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  • LaxMOM44LaxMOM44 member
    jillywbean said:

    I have the Baby Center app in addition to this one and I almost posted to them that the boards here are much more supportive - good thing I didn't 'cause I'd be lying.

    Why do women do this to each other? Call it humor or sarcasm. Blame hormones or boredom. It all originates from insecurity - there's no denying. Accuse me of being a white knight and that just proves my case.

    Stay classy, ladies and remember you don't HAVE to look at all the posts if they grind your gears. I'm outie 5000.

    PEACE!!

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  • StephChase315StephChase315 member
    I hope ya'll get laid or something, what a toxic group of women i would never ever want to bond with any one on this fourm you bitches are crazy and yes you are bitches. Youve earned the title, congrats!
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  • Daneicy80Daneicy80 member

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    Grabbing my popcorn and catching up on the weekend drama... mmmm.

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  • DefyingGravity626DefyingGravity626 member
    I'm laughing at this whole thread, it's full of bingo squares! 

    also, @LaxMOM44, your gif arsenal is impressive!!  

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