So I have always always been regular, like set your clock regular. I O on CD 19 and then have an 11 day LP (yes, kinda short but I was able to use supplement progesterone with DD). I know it is nothing I should complain about, but each time I have got a BFP it only took me 1 month. I am now on the 3rd month of TTC (yes, not long at all I realize). I was really surprised this last month when I started spotting only a few days after CD 19 and then started full blown AF on CD25.
I chalked it up to a funky cycle, but this month I started taking my OPKs early. I am on CD11 and got a + test today. I typically have about 4 days of truly +OPKs so I don't think I am O'ing on CD11, but still, that is way way early for me. I scheduled an appointment with my OB, but can't get in until the end of May. <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
I guess I don't really know what I am asking here Has anyone else had a huge cycle shift like this? I guess I will just DTD every other day for the next few weeks so I don't accidently miss our window (I am exhausted just thinking about it).
I am trying to not get down about not having a BFP yet, but my PAL brain is starting to kick in. Why aren't I pregnant yet? Was being able to carry DD just a 1 time thing? Will I never be able to give her a sibling? Grrrr.... (repeats to self ::only positive thoughts only positive thoughts).
Re: Major Cycle Shift (TTC)?
I am feeling similar to you. Not too many of the same circumstances but some so I thought I would drop a note to stay positive, I know this is sometimes all I need.
I will give you the short story about me- I have 3 stepchildren that I claim as mine and love as my own. We got BFP in Dec with my first to find no HB at our first appointment in Jan.
D&C Jan 21. I never did the charting and got the BFP only a short few weeks after stopping BCP. I am just completing my third cycle and have not got my rainbow on the way and I feel like it is taking forever.
I hope you feel better about things. I find that tracking my BBTs are the only way I can feel like I have some control over the situation
Thanks. I know know that it isn't that long at all, but I have been off BCP since November but only trying for 3 months now. I am just more frustrated that my body is doing this crazy early O thing now.
I really really didn't want to track BBT, but if we don't get a BFP this month then I think that is the next step
I haven't had a major cycle shift, but I have notice a change in AF as well as in my CM. I can track my charts for 2 years and each cycle was almost identical. When PP AF returned there were changes, but I chalked it up to the fact that I was still nursing. Then we had a m/c in December and AF and CM are still off. It is making getting my + OPKs difficult.
I too am trying to stay positive, but the negative thoughts are very difficult to keep out. My history is not great and I have a lot of the same fears that you have. TTC is so exhausting and stressful!
((HUGS))
TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)
BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d
BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13
BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks
BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby
@chloebeth930, so excited that you guys are TTC again!
I totally get where you are coming from. It's so hard not to compare to what happened last time. Even with this pregnancy, I still compare to my last one.
I can't offer any advice about the shift, but if I were you, I would DTD every day until those OPKs turn negative and then make or keep your appointment with your doctor. I know my OB sort of chucks the 6 month or 1 year or whatever it is rule out with subsequent pregnancies. I got pregnant with both my m/c pregnancy and DS first cycle out, and she told me that if this time it took "a few months" with no luck I should feel free to come in.
FWIW, I never charted, just OPKs. I would DTD with DH every day that we got a + OPK or something resembling a positive. Everyone is different but it worked for us three times. That's what I would do if I were you until I could get in for an appointment. Try not to fret, although I know it's hard!!
BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14. 4/27/14: Our second take home baby is here!
TTC since 8/2010. Irregular cycles after stopping BCP.
1st BFP! 3/26/11. Missed M/C - D&C 5/2/11.
Always missed: Our little Blueberry. It's Never Over.
2nd BFP! 9/3/11 on last unmedicated cycle! EDD: 5/11/12
1stBeta @13DPO = 289, 2ndBeta @15DPO = 619!
? Clementine Lorraine, we love you so much already! ?