Hello ladies, my name is Melissa and I found out this week I'm pregnant with our first baby (currently 4+6, EDD 12/20). We lost our first little Nugget in September 2013 at only 9+2 (but measuring 6 with no heartbeat). It was a huge loss and shock to both DH and I, and really affected not only our mentality about trying again, but even our marriage. We both blamed ourselves, even though there is truly nothing we could have done differently to keep LO growing.
We knew we wanted to try again, preferably later this summer, so this PgAL has been a bit of a surprise. We're both hesitant to get excited, but my husband much more so than I am - he never truly opened up about how much the miscarriage affected him, but it's clear it hit him extremely hard. However, we are a family of faith and we're trying to trust God in all of this and that He's going to keep our little bear baby around the full term this time. However, I can't help but get a little excited and think about having a Christmas baby
So that's my PgAL story. I'm about to be 28, a full-time grad student getting my master's in curriculum and teaching (I'm a high school English teacher), and I love to bake, knit, and have random dance parties while doing housework. DH is an infantryman in the Army and we're stationed up in Northern New York at Fort Drum where we've been for almost 2 years now. Glad to have some other ladies on this journey for support and encouragement!
Re: Can I join you ladies? :)
A little bit about me...
Married my awesome guy on 12/27/08
DD Lucy Rae born on 11/16/2010
Loss #1: November 29, 2012 at 8w1d
Loss #2: June 9, 2013 at 13w (Amelia Grace)
BFP #4: We are having a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Peter Matthew was born on July 16, 2014!!! Welcome to our family!
"If anyone asks me how many children I have, the answer is 4. Just two of them live in Heaven."
*All are welcome in my posts*BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13
BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14
Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14
My Chart | All are Welcome
Began trying for a baby January 2012
BFP 4.25.2013 EDD 1.3.2014 MMC 6.3.2013 D&C 6.19.2013
BFP 11.3.2013 CP 11.6.2013
BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014
BFP 4/17/13, MC began 5/2/13 @ 6 weeks
My FF Chart
Femara + Gonal F + Ovidrel 3/6/14 IUI #3 (plus 2x acupuncture)
Team Pink!!
ALL ARE WELCOME
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
BFP#1: 2/2/13 ~ exact m/c date unknown but around 3/20 at 10 weeks ~ diagnosed with PMP ~ D&C on 4/5 ~ TTA for at least 1 year due to PMP ~ cleared to TTC 1/14
BFP#2: 2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed
Surprise BFP#3: 4/4/14 ~ super duper extra happy (and nervous) about this one - EDD 12/9/14!!!
John Joseph was born on 12/12/14 at 7 lbs. 11 oz. He is the most beautiful rainbow baby we could have wished for!
@kountingsheep - Yay for English nerds! And can I say how much I love having someone who understands and appreciates the proper use of "affect"?! lol!
@JCM285 - I'm actually certified to teach 7-12 grade English, but prefer the high school levels. Middle schoolers scare me haha!
@Birch113 - I totally learned to knit using Youtube videos! No one around me knows how to, and I really wanted to learn, so I asked a friend from back home for some good starter videos. If you really are interested, I can send you some links
Thanks for the warm welcome ladies! I'm praying that I'll be sticking around until "graduation" this time And praying the same for all of you!!
TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!
Also, these are seriously the best deal for needles. I got them and they are great quality and a huge selection for such a cheap price (you get 18 different sized sets in this pack). Plus I love bamboo more than metal or plastic. However, the needles themselves aren't labeled so you'd want to buy a label set from Michaels if you get these needles.
Our 3 Precious Angels That Left Us Too Soon
BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13
BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13
Diagnosed with Hypothyroid 05/20/13
BFP #4 - 09/22/13 - DD#2 born 05/27/14
All Alers Welcome!