Random share: water heater has broken AGAIN as of Saturday. Bathing and doing dishes in water heated on the stove. MH at the end of his ability to figure out why it's broken. Plumber can't come until week AFTER next. That's eight more days at least of no hot water.......
I guess I'm either mean or just don't give a fuck but I take my kid when they are crying or needing to feed. There is no choice in the matter, I guess maybe getting older has it perks.
I'm gonna stab my husband in his stupid face. I've been gone ALL day. I had a meeting at 10 am a half hour in the opposite direction from work so when that was over I had to drive an hour to get to work and I just got home. I've had two opportunities to use the bathroom all day, and I need to poop. As soon as I walk in the door he makes me take the baby because he's "burning up" and wanted me to lay him on the bed to fuss while I pooped. Wtf?!?
I've been getting headaches too. I was getting a little nervous but glad to hear in not alone. I also have noticed I've been clenching my teeth and think that may be part of it.
This CSection that is now an open wound being packed daily is really screwing up my plans to get back in shape. This saggy pizza dough stomach that makes me look still kinda prego is gonna go away eventually right? I just wanna be active.... My belly is gross...
1st FET 2/14/2013 Happy Valentines Day! - BFN
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!!
- 1st Beta: 1046!!!!!
- 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!! First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks. Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B= 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks. Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh* MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week. MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
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Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
Wow only a few new posts since last night around 11? Where is everyone!?
After Isla was born, I was away from the Bump for a week or so. When I came back, this thread had over 1,000 posts and I knew I could never catch up. Now I'm deciding I need to just jump back in. The rest of the board is slow sometimes, and I need people to talk to!
I need a bubble around my house. Ellie had a cold, which has gotten passed around the house now. Everett has an ear infection, DH has a sinus infection, and I have a miserable cold - I have yet to go to the doctor. I'm just sitting at work with kleenex stuffed up my nose. NBD nothing to see here move along....
1st FET 2/14/2013 Happy Valentines Day! - BFN
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!!
- 1st Beta: 1046!!!!!
- 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!! First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks. Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B= 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks. Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh* MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week. MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
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Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
So mini vent .. My daughters father.. Who has not seen her yet and she will be 4 weeks on Monday.. Just told me that he wishes I died in childbirth and he would've been very content with that.
Why? Because I tore him a new one after he yet again said he was coming and then came up with another bullshit excuse why he couldn't. He hasn't seen her.. Gotten her anything she needs.. Yet always finds a way to put the blame on me on why he does what he does
So mini vent .. My daughters father.. Who has not seen her yet and she will be 4 weeks on Monday.. Just told me that he wishes I died in childbirth and he would've been very content with that.
Why? Because I tore him a new one after he yet again said he was coming and then came up with another bullshit excuse why he couldn't. He hasn't seen her.. Gotten her anything she needs.. Yet always finds a way to put the blame on me on why he does what he does
Oh man. Sorry he's a douche about it. Do you want him in her life?
____________ Emma Rose Born 3.11.14 8lbs 14oz, 21.5 in
So mini vent .. My daughters father.. Who has not seen her yet and she will be 4 weeks on Monday.. Just told me that he wishes I died in childbirth and he would've been very content with that.
Why? Because I tore him a new one after he yet again said he was coming and then came up with another bullshit excuse why he couldn't. He hasn't seen her.. Gotten her anything she needs.. Yet always finds a way to put the blame on me on why he does what he does
Wow I'm so sorry he said that to you. No one deserves that. Honestly, if he's not going to help provide for her and continue to be hateful to you he doesn't deserve to see her.
So I took the liberty of (for the first time since birth) sticking my finger up my va jay jay, to get an idea of what sex might be like. Um..YIKES! Yup, definitely a bit "different" down there like my ob said it would be! Now I'm contemplating asking DH if we can wait, um, MONTHS to DTD. :-/
Uhh.. J went almost 8 hours last night (7pm to 3am).
Don't ask me how cause if I knew, I'd be doing whatever that was every night.
Owen went 8 hours and Keira went 6. It took DS1 almost a year to do that. It's the third time this week they've gone over 5 hours so here's hoping they keep this schedule!
@laurstarx tell him to go suck a fat one, and move on. You don't deserve to be spoken to that way, and he clearly thinks he has better things to do than be a decent human being. Fuck him, you're awesome as far as I'm concerned.
@DaisyCat11 I'm sorry you're dealing with that. I haven't lost a parent, but it still burns when I think about the great grandfather I lost when I was in junior high, and DH's aunt we lost a little over a year ago. ::hugs:: Maybe you'll find something to remind you of him while you're there to make it a little easier.
I'm so excited for today. I get to spend hours on end at MIL's house while MH dyes eggs so he can have his special Easter themed deviled eggs. I think I'll sit in the living room and put together a basket for his cousin's son while they do that...
We're going to my mum's place today with my sister to go through my dad's things and decide what to keep and what to donate. I'm dreading it. It's been almost a year and a half, but it really doesn't get any easier
I'm sorry. I know what you're going through. Even as recently as 2 years ago, when my mom sold her house, we were still going through his things, such as his huge record collection.
I just got a little happy when I realized the stupid fillet o fish commercials would stop this weekend.
Or I could just stop watching so much tv.
I usually watch shows on DVR, so I fast forward through commercials. But ff-ing isn't a priority when holding a baby, or pumping, or cleaning up.
I have seen a ridiculous amount of commercials in the last few weeks. I get them stuck in my head. At night, when I'm super sleep deprived, I think I'm going crazy lol.
I am getting really sick of the stupid "sign up for the bump" at top of the page. Every time I try to load it, it makes it take longer, and sometimes I click on something then th page move bc it's still loading and it takes me to the wrong link!
1st FET 2/14/2013 Happy Valentines Day! - BFN
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!!
- 1st Beta: 1046!!!!!
- 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!! First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks. Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B= 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks. Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh* MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week. MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
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Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
HOLY SHIT @laurstarx. I definitely think someone telling you he wishes you were dead is a good enough reason to consider not involving him in your child's life. I'm so sorry! You don't deserve that! I hope that whatever happens works out for the best.
@laurastarx I'm sorry. that dude needs never exist in your child's life. Take him to court, get every penny of child support you can and then pretend he was never born. Your child does not need that negative infulence, and she certainly doesn't need to grow up thinking that's an okay way for man to treat ANY woman. You don't deserve this. She doesn't deserve this.
@amdecker1016 I saw via FB that Mia will have a cousin soon! Is this true news or a FB hoax? (I haven't talked to G since we both left Lubbock, so I feel weird congratulating her if it's just a joke. lol. It's still crazy to me that I know your SIL!)
J just looked up at me and smiled! I smiled back and he smiled again. Then he let out a tremendous burp. Guess he's not quite ready for social smiling yet.
Re: The Randomest Thread
Did I see a pic of you at the Bolton potholes?
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
Why? Because I tore him a new one after he yet again said he was coming and then came up with another bullshit excuse why he couldn't. He hasn't seen her.. Gotten her anything she needs.. Yet always finds a way to put the blame on me on why he does what he does
Emma Rose
Born 3.11.14
8lbs 14oz, 21.5 in
Sorry he is being a total ass
@DaisyCat11 I'm sorry you're dealing with that.
I'm so excited for today. I get to spend hours on end at MIL's house while MH dyes eggs so he can have his special Easter themed deviled eggs. I think I'll sit in the living room and put together a basket for his cousin's son while they do that...
I have seen a ridiculous amount of commercials in the last few weeks. I get them stuck in my head. At night, when I'm super sleep deprived, I think I'm going crazy lol.
Emma Rose
Born 3.11.14
8lbs 14oz, 21.5 in
@DaisyCat11 Good luck. My dad passed away over 7 years ago and I still have moments where I tear up.
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
@DaisyCat11 Thinking of you!
@DaisyCat11 best of luck today *hugs*
Me: 28 DH: 27
@DaisyCat11 good luck today.