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March 2014 Moms
The Randomest Thread
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Re: The Randomest Thread
(i'm looking at you @FarmBoysWife)
DH has been so busy with school and two jobs that we have had zero time together since Mia was born. When I do get to see him, he's tired and pissy, and now he's got a very mild cold that has turned him into a serious dick.
He knows how much I want to spend time with just him, and I'm willing (finally) to let someone babysit DD for long enough for us to go out to eat or something. Instead of finding time for us to spend time together, he told his BSC mom we would all three go to her house (a 30+ min drive) on Friday to dye eggs for "special" Easter themed deviled eggs, and made plans with his friend to go out to eat with him on Saturday before he goes to work all night, without telling me until today.
He gets pissy with me for holding Mia when she's sleeping, even though she'll wake up if I put her down, because he thinks she'll develop an attachment complex. He bitched me out for asking him to turn the volume down on the tv during the movie we watched because Mia was sleeping.
I get that he's tired because he works so hard for us, but he doesn't have to be a dick when he comes home every day.
I'm about to give up on trying to spend time with him where we're not annoying one another, or I'm crying because I'm so frustrated with our situation. I love him dearly, but FFS man! A little effort to make the little bit of time we have together worthwhile is all I'm asking for!
I have a few things to share:
1) 9 days since the induction, and I finally popped. It felt awful, and by awful. I mean amazing.
2) Today with the baby nurse was far better. She started actually doing what we needed her to do (assisting with meals, making sure I have water, letting us take care of Allison and giving us assistance/baby lessons as we ask) and we all feel more comfortable. We're willing to see how this goes for the rest of the week an go from there.
3) MY Karen got DH to listen to me more and realize that he needs to support me more. He has been wonderful in doing things but his view has been Allison first, me second, rather than seeing that we needed to be cares for equally and that my physical recovery goes hand in hand with my mental recovery.
4) knock on wood, but I think I do have a unicorn baby. Here's an aw pic:
RIP Dr. Irving Fishman - 10/1/19-7/25/10 - thank you for holding on for me.
You made my wedding day complete.
Engaged 12-12-10 Married 5-12-12 Baby Jaxon 3-23-14
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It'll be like the first time all over again!
(I'm scared too)
I'm starving.. I guess that's what I get for having salad with grilled chicken for supper and not binge eating pasta or something delicious.
Give me all the pasta right meow!
Knock knock.
Who's there?
You.
You who?
Yoo-hoo! Big summer blowout!
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Emma Rose
Born 3.11.14
8lbs 14oz, 21.5 in
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I tried to call the place to tell them I was on my way, but couldn't get the number to dial. My mom offered to take me to get her, but we walked outside and it was like the whole building was spawled across miles and we were on the wrong side from where either of us parked, and THEN it started snowing heavily and I woke up feeling panicked.
Fuck. I never had baby-related nightmares during pregnancy or at all before now! That sucked! But Kara is still sleeping peacefully across from me so I feel better. I guess.
(I've been seriously upset when I can't get outside with Fallyn, so it's really good It will be warmer)
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
Now we have a breakfast date set for Saturday.
@lakecountrygal we have to take out fur babes in Tues (first avail) for the same thing! Now I'm scared
Our pup does that too! She also springs through the field by our house like a deer... It's hilarious!
Hope your fur babe heals quick
Omg I love this!!!!
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