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Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Mysterious_wife
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Anyone have an unplanned pg that ended with a loss?
Mysterious_wife
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My pg was unplanned. DH and I have been up and down about TTC again. Part of me feels like we want to try again to "make-up" for what we lost. We were told with my first pg that I had a thin uterus and should be careful TTC. I am all over the place with emotions and just don't feel it is the right time to TTC again and then feel like we should.
Just wondering if someone is in my shoes.
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Re: Anyone have an unplanned pg that ended with a loss?
Ours was pretty much unplanned...I guess. I mean I went off BCP before our wedding so that I could give my body some time to "normalize" before TTC. It was shocking that we ended up KU after our honeymoon. I did not know that I was ovulating (or that I would even be able to that soon after going off BCP).
We did want to start trying asap after the wedding, so it was a great mistake that just turned sour
If I EVER get AF, we will promptly begin TTC again...and this time I will have a clue.
My pg was unplanned. We had only been married for 3 months when we found out that I was 6 weeks pg. Now that we lost the baby, DH wants to wait quite a while to start TTC again (since our original plan was to wait about 2 years). He said in the end he will leave it up to me to decided but thinks that I should be in a better emotional state before I make that decision. I think deep down he would really like to go back to our original plan but knows thats probably not what I want anymore.
I say all that to say that we are very much in limbo about it right now. Of course I would like to TTC again right away at this point (but I am sure that is probably just so I can fill the void). I think our compromise is going to be to wait until our 1 year anniversay (in 6 months) and start trying again then!
My pg was unplanned. I had gone off bc because it was screwing up my hormones really badly (2nd time thats happened to me) and DH and I were being pretty careful. I was trying to track my ovulation without really CHARTING it and since the bc had my periods kind of off...we uhm miscalculated the ovulation time.
I was very excited and we had been talking about ttc this comin Jan. I was all stoked to have an October baby because with 3 step kids being in school I would have alot of alone time with my 1st baby. Now we are tossing around the ttc options. DH wants to try right away but I am supposed to wait 2 cycles which means no Oct baby and I had realy gotten used to that idea. I just am not sure what I want to do. I am thinking about waiting until summer to ttc again-maybe late june early july. Would still give me time with the baby alone while the kids are in school without me having to drag a newborn out in the cold 4 times a day to get kids to school and home.
I am just very unsure about what I want to do. SO yes. I am also in your shoes and it kind of sucks.
Before AF showed up I could barely imagine another baby, the loss of one broke my heart. After AF its all I can think about.
I think I would still wait one more cycle though, to give my emotions time to settle down a bit more.
Mine was unplanned in that we didn't think it would happen so soon. I went off birth control 3 months before our wedding so my cycle could regulate; we were going to start trying around now (December).
Well, I got pregnant the first month off the pill, and it was in the midst of wedding planning, getting a dog, and buying our first home. We were a little freaked out that everything was happening so quickly, but we were ecstatic to be pregnant.
In August we lost the baby at 19 weeks, and we were told to wait 3 months before TTC again. Now it's December, the time when we were going to start TTC anyway. I keep trying to tell myself that it's okay, but it's still hard.