GTKY: If you could do it all again

deedee1017 · April 2014

would you still marry your husband/SO?

alyshamarie007 · April 2014

Definitely! DH is not perfect, but he is perfect for me. We have had our ups and downs, but when it all comes down to it I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. We've been married for almost 3 years and we have both changed and grown so much during that time. When DS came, I felt us start to drift apart, but as we have dealt with the struggles we have actually grown closer and dealt with underlying issues and I feel we are a united team now.

sweettwilight16 · April 2014

Definitely, yes

deedee1017 · April 2014

I voted yes for the record. We have been through a lot in our many, many years together. Having a baby in our lives has changed a lot of things and it's the most change we've ever had. There are bad days, there are good days, but I'd do it again.

deedee1017 · April 2014

Snowboarderbritt said:

Absolutely, but didn't we have this same poll like 2 weeks ago?

Not that i know of, sorry if we did. I feel like the board is dragging some days and just wanted to get some conversation going.

blueeyedrose86 · April 2014

Absolutely! I have been in a shitty marriage before. My ex is a pathological liar and cheater of the worst kind. However, that experience has made me appreciate my DH on a level that probably wouldn't have been possible otherwise. He is good to me and a fantastic father!

norbert5 · April 2014

DH and I have our ups and downs but I would definitely marry him again. He helps be a better version of myself.

deedee1017 · April 2014

Snowboarderbritt said:

Snowboarderbritt said:

Absolutely, but didn't we have this same poll like 2 weeks ago?

Not that i know of, sorry if we did. I feel like the board is dragging some days and just wanted to get some conversation going.
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12305894/continuing-in-our-pollallthethings-series Haha no worries though, it is dragging!

booooooooooooo I suck. I somehow missed that poll.

MrsKocal · April 2014

i said yes, but....only because when we met, he was living in Cali, I was living in NY (and we met in Australia - it's crazy, I know). We were both born and raised in our respective states and had no intentions of moving out of them. He moved to NY under the agreement that we would live there just until I finished law school and then move back to Cali. 11 years later....we are still in NY. Now we are 1 year into a 5 year plan of finally moving to Cali and I really don't want to go. I love our lives here and I don't want them to change. So, I'd of course marry him again but I'd be really, really upfront about it at the beginning - if you are marrying me, we live in NY, period. Then he would have given up thinking we were ever moving to Cali a long time ago, and I wouldn't feel like my days at a NYer are always numbered.

Lee81 · April 2014

deedee1017 said:

Snowboarderbritt said:

deedee1017 said:

Snowboarderbritt said:

Absolutely, but didn't we have this same poll like 2 weeks ago?

Not that i know of, sorry if we did. I feel like the board is dragging some days and just wanted to get some conversation going.
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12305894/continuing-in-our-pollallthethings-series

Haha no worries though, it is dragging!

booooooooooooo I suck. I somehow missed that poll.

I don't understand how you could possibly have missed one out of the 8 bathousand polls that happened during Poll All the Things Week

muffyvonmuff · April 2014

DH is absolutely amazing. Helpful, kind, and never skips a day to tell me how pretty I am (even when Im so not) The only think I wish he would want to two with me is exercise, I think if he would join in I would work out even more and we would be healthier.

deedee1017 · April 2014

Lia1303 said:

I answered yes but. I do but this week I'm not liking him very much. I sometimes wish I had done things differently while dating as they have now become areas of contention in our house.

I can understand that.

deedee1017 · April 2014

baconface said:

I always tell DH that I feel so bad for all the other women in the world because I got him and they didn't. :x

I also always ask him how I ever tricked him into marrying me, haha.

Seriously, I am very lucky. I think it must just be karma for being absolutely unpopular with boys until well into college.

He must say the same about you. $:\$ ">

ajjf1026 · April 2014

I said of course yes!! I was just telling my mil the other day that I wanted to re-marry DH. He does get on my last nerve some days but overall he's truly the best and I am so lucky to have him!!

carawasa · April 2014

Not married yet but I am scared to get married! We have been together for 10 years so we basically are...but it's just so permanent! But I answer the question I am VERY lucky to have him. He does everything in his power to make sure Emma and I are happy. He tells me I'm beautiful everyday and he cooks great! Sometimes he pisses me off...but maybe I just get pissed off easily

catycate · April 2014

I picked yes but... Yes I love him with all my heart and I really believe we belong together. However, I got pregnant with DS when we had been dating for 3 months. There will always be a part of me that wonders what would have happened if we hadn't pushed fast forward in our relationship. We've made it 3 1/2 years, 2 kids and 3 jobs, so we're pretty good together.

calibr8te · April 2014

Engaged and planning on getting married as soon as I can stuff myself into my wedding dress.

We have been together for 11 years now, so we are basically married. And absolutely yes! He is totes an oddball. I think he is nuts half the time and wonder in amazement at some of the stuff he does. But he is also the kindest, gentlest most wonderful soul I have known.

ksimo6 · April 2014

I waited to get married until I was almost 35 for a reason - I was determined to marry the right one. My DH pushes me to be a better person, as I do him. And I can't even fathom what I would do or what Tilly would do without him. I frequently threaten to smack him, but I'm *usually* kidding. I would do it again.

Ycu2013 · April 2014

Yes, but I wouldn't go through half the bullshit that certain people made us go through.

Jalee85 · April 2014

I voted for Yes, of course. We've only been married for 1.5 yrs but have been together for 7 and living together for 6 years. We rarely fight and we just make each other better. My only problem with him is his lack of wanting to change diapers or eat vegetables. He says he will throw up. I think he needs to just suck it up.... Lol In the scheme of things. If that is all I can complain about. I would sign myself up again 100 times over.

yesthisiskim0401 · April 2014

Yes but... I would have fixed our debt BEFORE we got married. Or would have never gotten ourselves into debt in the first place. But I would, undoubtedly, marry DH again. Even if he drives me BSC.

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