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I need some good ones today ladies! Some entertainment
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  • AshleyO925AshleyO925 member
    karacakes98 said:

    I lied to the world and said #3 was an oops baby. There was no oops. We were in a great place and decided to have another. But my family would have been full of judgment and unnecessary comments, so I lied and said I missed a pill. I don't know if I'll ever tell them the truth.

    So much this except with my first! MH and I got married after 5 months of dating (courthouse wedding). We really wanted to start our family right away so I stopped taking the pill. We thought it would take a while for me to get regulated but we got pregnant the first month!

    I told my mom I missed a pill since she was still freaking about the shotgun wedding. Now she is thrilled and loves her granddaughter but I don't think I will ever tell her the real story.
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  • BabykawashBabykawash member
    My nipples hurt so bad from nursing around the clock that I keep hoping LO will fall asleep at the breast. Instead of waking her up to finish, she's going back in her crib. I know she'll wake up again when she needs more.
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  • twinlove314twinlove314 member
    I know my mil has a very limited window to spend time with the twins since she lives in new zealand, but, I'm ready for her to go home now. She's been rearranging things in my house, yelling at my furbabies when I'm in the other room nursing, and just driving me insane.
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  • BabykawashBabykawash member
    @snow527‌ I do this most mornings too! Yay for extra sleep!
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  • kare_bear_12kare_bear_12 member
    I put lo in the baby Bjorne and made dinner including being near the stove and handling a sharp knife. Tried to be careful of his dangling feet but was determined to cook dinner"

     

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  • KariB509KariB509 member
    This is gross... DS ran in our room right after he pooped in the potty and my H hadn't wiped his ass yet. Well, I didn't know that and let him get on our bed. Now there is shit on my bedspread and I haven't washed it yet... It's been several days...
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  • twinlove314twinlove314 member
    mfarmer0811 said:
    My baby shower was Feb. 8th, I still haven't finished thank you cards. It's my goal next week!
    I'm in the same boat. I really wish I'd gotten them done when I was on hospital bed rest a month before the twins arrived...
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  • lalaith50lalaith50 member
    I confess if been sitting in this chair with LO alternating nursing and napping since about 8:30am (it's now 11:30) and I'm kind of ok if we sit here for the rest of the day! (But I probably won't be still saying this come 4 pm...) if I put him down he wakes up so I get nothing done either way! Also, here's a real confession I'm going to get flamed for (I'm especially looking at that chick from parenting...) about a week ago LO was sleeping in our bed and, um, leaked through several layers of clothing, sleep sack, and a burp cloth and receiving blanket on the bed. (I guess the diaper wasn't on tight enough...) I still haven't changed the sheets. :-( (In my defense it was just the tiniest amount through all the layers and didn't even smell! It dried...But don't tell DH...) I guess that should be on my list for today...
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  • twinlove314twinlove314 member
    bearsbearsbears said:
    MA1116 said:
    I secretly resent when visitors come over without food for the exhausted parents and only to sit around with LO in front of the tv. I mean, come on...everybody knows new parents can barely find time to eat. The last time the ILs came over to see the baby, I asked my BIL to do our dishes. Felt great.
    I think this goes without saying.  We've had some recent guests who haven't been particularly helpful.  Don't ask if you can do something--just do it.  Ask us what our favorite take out place is, make lunch, ask if you can hold the baby for 10 minutes so I can shower.

    I mean, I love family and they're all great with both of my kids, but I just wish they would be a little more helpful.
    I had a friend ask to stop by and bring us dinner, then, she and her husband did exactly what she said, stayed until 10:30 that night and then packed up what was left of the food she brought and brought it home with her... (major run-on sentence)
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  • cdnmommacdnmomma member
    Something somewhere in my house smells like cheese and I can't figure out what it is. It's gross.
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  • Sanibel21Sanibel21 member
    My confession is just that I have no idea what I'm doing, and feel like I'm failing at whatever I am doing. I cant believe they just let me take her home! I can't even burp her. In fact I'm scared to because she spits all the time. Sometimes she chokes. But she prolly spits because she never burps. This morning it was definitely full feed quantity waterfall all over me and all over her and I ugly cried. And could ugly cry again just thinking about it. She has some quiet awake periods but I mostly feel like when she's awake, she's crying and so I'm constantly feeding her. But now I'm wondering if I'm over feeding her and that's why shes spitting. Or maybe shes just a baby and I just can't deal? Sorry this turned into a dear diary. The confession is I feel like I'm mickeymousing this whole parenting thing.

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  • SassyFlatsSassyFlats member
    CHalePhoto said:
    I feel guilty for talking about my ILs so much on here, ONLY because I know my husband would think it was wrong for me to vent on the internet. He doesn't usually want to hear it though, and I don't want to talk abut them to my family and cause tension, so this is really my only outlet. My confession is that I haven't changed my bump name because I don't care if they find this. I doubt I'll ever have a @SassyFlats‌ moment, but if I do maybe they'll eventually have a wake up call. I'll probably still change it, because I wouldn't want my husband to have to be put in the middle of the war it might start.
    @CHalePhoto I felt THE EXACT SAME WAY back in the day-- I needed to vent but didn't want to tell my family or anyone else who knew or would meet my ILs what I was going through. I thought venting online was kinder because it wasn't anyone who knew them. Blew up in my fucking face.

    My husband knew I was venting online, and he was put in an awful spot. I was terrified that he'd side with them when they confronted him, even though he already knew and was aware of some of the things I was venting about. He really was put in the position of "us or them" and it was excruciating. On the bright side, I have never since worried that he'd choose anyone else over me. He chose to stick by me (and still marry me) even when I had an awful lot of egg on my face. He's a pretty awesome guy.

    But you still make me nervous when you vent!  (although I can toooooooooootally relate) :-S

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  • lindsey1031lindsey1031 member
    I still have 15 lbs of baby weight to lose.  I'm not exercising or eating healthy either.  And I don't care.  As my favorite beer koozie says, "Maybe manana"
               

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  • SassyFlatsSassyFlats member
    @WickedNE no, it was years ago when I was engaged... on a different forum. But yes, my ILs busted me and it was THE MOST HORRIBLE THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED IN MY LIFE.

    I believe it was in another confessions thread a couple months back that I originally stated that it makes me super anxious when people vent about their ILs on the forums because I'm terrified they'll have a similar experience.

    ANYWAY.... no more details. Because a repeat of that drama is the LAST thing I need these days. We're barely over it 4 years later. I don't think *I* am totally over it... I'm still humiliated and wish I could hide from my ILs forever.

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  • SassyFlatsSassyFlats member
    mfarmer0811 said:
    I had LO home for a week before i ever gave her a bath.
    LO 4 weeks, and he's only had 2 baths. We've wiped him down several times, but only 2 real baths.


    OMG! I'm not alone?!

    GREEN to PINK on 3.14.14 
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  • htn1763htn1763 member
    I have already lost all my pregnancy weight at 10 days post baby. I swear I didn't do anything. I am hungry all the time. 

    I keep ignoring all of my mother's calls. She just wants to know how we are doing but I don't feel like telling her we are doing well every single day. It's like she doesn't believe it. 

    I suck at bathing LO. He has so many rolls it's so hard to get under every single one. 

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